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Male Switch, 34, Salinas, California
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Male Submissive, 37, san diego, California
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Male Submissive, 45
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About SubsDesires
I am different...placed within this world is a speck which represents me.
I am submissive...more then what most would think by merely meeting me and hearing how I speak and act. I have a rather dominant personality but when it comes to relationships I am just that....submissive.
Some might think it's bad to be like this but I think they are fools...I like my personality and I like how I am within relationships.
There is a flaw with me, a flaw that ultimately limits my ability to be in a relationship most times...something I really hate to bring up because I either get told it's not true or I just get a silent message knowing I am in fact right.
The flaw is simple really...it's one many of us face in this country...weight. I am overweight and personally I think I am ugly...yes yes I know most would jump at the opportunity to grab a female like this because they might be fragile and molding but truth is I accepted my course in life and what I am.
I am looking for someone that can ultimately handle this and my strong spirit...I am not seeking a dominant that has just started and truthfully has no idea what he is doing. I am seeking one I feel comfortable with and know will guide me through this lifestyle and show me things without harming me emotionally.
This is what I seek...will you be the one to control this...if you think so feel free to message me and let's talk.
Hell even if you don't I am looking for friends and will have no problem talking to anyone.
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Alright it seems people are just obscene when it comes to their email sending. I am starting to come back on here and right away I get emails that are super sexual showing me that all they care about is sex.
I am not here just for sex, plain and simple. I am here to further my knowledge of BDSM and the lifestyle. I am also looking to connect with people in a safe environment and see what happens without the pressures that sometimes arise in Real life.
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Well seems that things are just horrible honestly. I don't understand how some seem trustful but then act shady to the point you honestly have to question their motives on things and how they act. Sometimes I wonder if people think because of my weight I am gullible and will do anything for a Dominant just to be with someone.
Please understand I am very submissive but my personality is slightly Domme I'll admit, it's why I can Domme a male if I really felt like it. I really wish people would understand I am new to this and I am nervous to where I can't just automatically jump into something if I don't feel comfortable with it...
Sorry about the rant but it needed to be done to possibly help someone to understand my personality and feelings towards things.
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As I sit here I wonder what it is I am doing really. I mean, I go to school and have many friends that I hang out with, but what is my purpose in life?
I tend to think about things people around my age tend to not think of, at least from the ones I know. Is it because I grew up around older people or simply because I have an eccentric mind? Whatever the case may be I do it and am rather glad I do it because it allows people of all ages to understand me to a degree and allows me to understand them without a problem.
Maybe this reasoning is why I seek to learn more and possibly pursue a relationship in this lifestyle. Hell maybe everything I do is based on the soul thinking I have and each step is placing me closer to my goal.
Most probably won't get this little rant, heh most might not even read the whole thing. I wrote it though and I will place it in my journal as something that just had me thinking like normal.
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