strongminded

Through Your Mastery, I offer You honesty, kindness, intelligence, humor, playfulness, helpfulness, desire, sexuality, and occasionally-- an attitude. (see, honesty already. ) [grin]

The majority of BDSM activities I like or they interest me, or I am willing to try them for You my D/M-- however, I do have some "hard" limits I will not negotiate about or ever allow to be tested. (ooh, wonder if everyone will hear the *gasps* of the D/Ms reading this who don't believe subs should have any limits?) I believe limits are important---I personally wouldn't let my eyelashes be pulled out, and would never engage in pedophilia.

Let's face it, some of You Dominants are VERY imaginative Creatures--the activities I have witnessed, read about, and participated in these last two years? (shaking head) I can't even begin to imagine all the new things Sadistic Dominants could come up with that they would find 'fun/pleasurable'. Me with 'no limits'?--- as my friend says "uh,,ye---NOT" (grin)

How I identify: I am a submissive. I am not-- nor am I interested in being a: slave (only an object/property), Mistress, Domme. I can 'top' to a certain degree I guess, but only under the right guidance and only with a Dom present.

As for who I am: (sly smile) It depends on who You ask.
I would say: I have a quick mind and I revel in learning. I prefer and choose to live my day giving humor, openness; I express my emotions, affection, and kindness-- rather than hide who I am. If You dont want to smile (uh, I am not talking about that sadistic smile--I mean the friendly one--grin), and if you can't laugh or give hugs or say 'thank you', uh, sorry, we would just irritate eachother. I desire a Dominant/Master who is going to enhance my life by adding what is missing in it--Him, His Dominance, my submission to Him; I would not serve a Dominant who requires less of me than who I already am.

I am sometimes shy/quiet when first meeting someone socially or through emails. I am more of a listener than a talker--well, with most people.

Quiz time--In order to weed out the profile 'spammers', and for me to know You actually read my profile, if you choose to contact me, please include the answers to these: Do You drink coffee? How do You prefer it: milk/cream/sugar?

I listen to rock, metal, pop, classical, country, alternative, some rap, top 40, swing, oldies (40s-70s), show tunes, and blues. Music is very important to me; I listen to it on a daily basis and is NOT something I would give up. Music does soothe the savage beast. (smile) We can, however, negotiate about who is in charge of the radio in the car. (smile)
I am very open-minded and willing to try most things once (except sky diving).

Who I am looking for. Hmmm, this is hard to answer. I don't know if who I seek is a single Master, a M/s couple, a M/M couple, or some other combination; I will know it when I find it though. As for who They are? I wouldn't settle for Someone who doesn't live with honesty, integrity, emotional stability, and personal cleanliness; aside from those things though? It really is the 'personality' that I am seeking--the Dominant Master who is comfortable in His Dominance. Looks, age, skill level, experience?--they are not as important as the quality of the person.

I answer all respectful, thoughtful emails. HOWEVER: Sending me a one-liner e.g. 'you got IM, sub?' introductory email, or sending only a copy of your profile, is not thoughtful--it's just simply lazy, so I will not bother to answer; sending an email containing a picture of your genitals is NOT respectful, and your emails will not be answered either.
If you are married or in a committed relationship. and are looking without your partner's permission/knowledge, I am NOT the person for you (and shame on you for breaking your partner's trust).

Thank you for reading. I look forward to hearing from You, but if I don't hear from You, best wishes in your search.