I sincerely and truly hope that you find something of knowledge and use on here that you can grow from.
Here are My lists of "ifs"....please take time to read so you'll know your status...
*If you are out of state (Dom and sub) and perusing My profile because of the wonderful pics or My journal entries, please enjoy. Know taking these pics was 100 times pleasureable for Me. Thanks for taking the time to view.
* If you are in state (sub) and are not serious about experiencing what all D/s has to offer, please pass Me by.
* If you are a sub from anywhere on the face of the earth and are only interested in being deceptive, non-committal, aloof, owner of many profiles on CM, etc...please do all of Us "real" Doms a favor and go back to match.com.
There are some really nice and REAL subs on here and I thank you for being real. But you gals are in the minority on here..trust Me.
I work out and exercise every day. 5 days a week. It keeps me not only physically fit to enhance my stamina and strength but, it also sharpens my mind and wit. I can only hope to find a submissive who enjoys being in shape as much as I do.
A southern Gentleman with a firm hand.
This site exasperates me to no end. It would be awesome just to meet ONE girl who actually was genuine about what she is seeking and be transparent, real with me. The games that are played on here are unending. I am just about to throw the towel in.
I must be a glutton for unusual frustration but, yet I still find myself here hoping, looking for maybe just ONE real and yes I do mean REAL female that seeks a genuine, real, Dominant Alpha male to just explore and learn new things with, about themselves. Those things you lay in bed at night and your mind goes there. Your heart begins to race wondering and wishing what it would feel like.
Listen, I may not know everything under the sun in this BDSM fetish world. I've tried and experimented along the way and found through trial and error that there are many things I love and some things I'd never want to try again. But, at least I tried.
To me it's about the journey and excitement of opening up a new world that for years laid dormant inside me. I think most women close to my age can attest to this same feeling. To be taken and controlled is one thing but, the FEELING of what that is like for a Dominant man to actually do that is something so completely and utterly exciting. A helpless and exciting feeling all rolled up into one.
I'm very real, considerate, and genuine. I'm also not here to conquer women for some kind of score sheet. Vanilla sex can be had anywhere, anytime. I seek that woman who wants to open her mind and heart to new ideas and adventures. You will 100% of me and I hope that in turn I will get that back from you.
I find it SO hilarious to read most of these young so-called Female Dominants on here who are always looking for "cashslaves/paypigs/atms" in order to enable them to stay on their lazy and sorry ass without working 1 day in their pathetic lives. LMAO.
Any bozo who actually is tempted by these clowns deserve to be stripped and robbed of every penny they have.
If you will promise to be real, genuine, and willing with Me then I promise that I will give you the same back and then some. My complete attention and devotion as a good Master would.
Oh yeah...if you like to laugh, and I mean really LAUGH, then you get a gold star for that! I love to laugh to the point that tears are rolling down the cheeks.
The definition of insanity:
Doing the same thing over and over expecting different results.
I must be insane to? think coming back on here will have different results, or maybe just good luck. Ha! The majority of women who come on here are either fake or just here to fulfill kinky fantasies of theirs thru online only. Not really wanting to experience it for "real". Lest we forget the 1000's of bot's on here with bogus profiles.
If you ladies would try this just one time with a real D/s Master, I promise you'd run as far away from this online crap as you could. It's one thing to pretend having your hair pulled and another to actually have a handful of it being pulled with your head snatched back.?
Is there 1...just 1 out there who truly wants to experience this for real? Not online...but flesh to flesh...??
Like you, I don't need nor want any drama. I choose to laugh and have fun.
I don't expect you to be experienced in this. As a matter of fact if you don't, even better. I'll teach and train you. Just be willing. That's all I ask.
There are many things I'm most sure of that are just as enjoyable, but a good 2 mile jog is SO stress and pressure-releasing after a long, taxing day......whew!
The endorphins that are raging afterwards is incredible! How I'd love to bottle some to take just before a nice, long D/s scene!
Patience is a virtue. I truly believe that.
However virtuous it may be, My patience on this website and the girls (not all) pretending to be subs on here are beginning to wear very thin.
I don't want to just find "any" girl on here, I want to find MY girl.
Do you even exist?
Each morning when I open my eyes I say to myself: I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be. Yesterday is dead, tomorrow hasn't arrived yet. I have just one day, today, and I'm going to be happy in it.
Groucho Marx
Ok...so here's a thought....
Have you ever just been swept away by the sound of a particular voice? THAT voice that Y/you just can't get enough of...the sound coming from T/those lips that you wish would never end...?
The sound of the syllables from those lips makes you cringe....it is so soothing and mesmerizing that you almost become comatose from it all.
Never has a sound made you feel so safe, so secure, so...so...so...cherished.
Not every voice has this ability. W/we all hear voices all day...every day. But THAT One voice.....don't stop....please speak more.
smiles....you should hear it
Gosh....how I LOVE long hair!
Call it what you will, reins, handles, etc...I just call it....F-U-N!
This weekend I had the distinct honor and great pride of escorting My 16yr old daughter during her Homecoming court. I've never been more prouder of how she has grown up into a beautiful young lady. she was so beautiful in her long sparkling dress and hair that was gorgeously done. As I walked her out onto the football field My mind raced to all the Daddy/daughter dances I use to take her to when she was little...stepping on My feet as we danced. This was HER day and I was so glad to be a part of it.
Within each female lies that innate feeling of being a little babygirl...one that seeks her Daddy to hold and encourage her to grow in numerous ways. The Daddy/babygirl dynamic is so much more deeper than that of a Master/sub relationship. He learns the ways of His little girl so that He may teach her how to grow and expand her horizons to be the best she can be. Many subs out here long for that deep connection and settle short for Dom's who simply want to use that which belongs to Them on a sexual basis. How incredibly sad. If they only knew what was within their grasp....
If you're going to cheat....
Cheat Death...
If you're going to steal...
Steal Time...
If you're going to lie...
LIE NEXT TO THE ONE YOU LOVE
What I miss most.....
I miss all those times that I was able to accompany My little girl to all those Daddy/daughter dances on Valentines Day.
How beautiful she was when she dressed up and sparkled like a shining star. Being with Daddy was what she longed for all day..
She is 16 now but I love her more today than ever...
Hindsight is such a powerful and beautiful tool.
It teaches us that where We've been is now a place We never hope to go again, or experience.
For instance, ....had I known 2 1/2 yrs ago what I know today I wouldn't have wasted a day, not even a second going down the road I traveled. A complete waste of time.
But today I stand a more confident and focused Man. What I behold today words cannot begin to comprehend.....Power and knowledge is Self-empowering.
I have found that My rope tying is in need of much improvement. laughs.
I knew I should've went to that class back when I was in the Scouts!
New, hot off-the-press pics coming soon!
Just hope the camera is steady...lol.
Be watching soon!
There is so much more to Domming over a submissive than the physical aspect...
If One can own her heart, soul, and mind, it is there where the branding of the heart takes place. To Me, a collar is not worn, but yet, branded on the heart of a sub. she knows this....without saying.
At that point...she knows her place with her Master and it will never be relinquished from here until eternity.
I once held a butterfly....
It was breathtaking to watch it emerge from its cocoon....new and full of life.
Will I again soon?
Sometimes in life there are things that W/we carry around either by choice and/or by happenstance. One of the most exhilarating things that We on occasion enjoy is when one of those things that We had carried by choice is removed from Our life like a millstone that had been wrapped around Our neck. A burden and weight that seemed to daily grind at Our existence of Who We really were in the first place. No matter which direction One turned "it" was always there in the way. At one time that millstone in the beginning was something We chose because it appeared to have promise and hope. But alas, it was just a mere facade.
When that burden is no longer around it's amazing how light and promising things around Us become. The dead weight that had been there is considered dead and gone with no longer a thought.
Life is good. I look so forward each day to what new and exciting things come My way and what new people I come in contact with!
O where do I begin...??
I would describe trying to Dom a sub online as standing and looking into a dark forest. Why a dark forest? Easily answered.
An online sub will always tell You everything that You want to hear, even the echos that come back please You because she knows that what she has always said is empty and meaningless. The dark forest hides her insincere words and actions because He can only trust that she is real and has meaning. He looks into the forest thinking that what He has built within has been real and meaningful only to ultimately find out that it was all a sham.
I will not take from this point forward any sub who wants to be owned "online". It is the biggest joke since Howdy Doody. If you don't want to be held and touched, then please by-pass Me because I must be able to get My hands and lips on you.
I will? never look again into the dark forest for the special feeling I crave in a sub for I know it is only pretend and is a great deceiver. While I may have poured My heart into this forest for a time...I now know it only used My heart to just play.
The dark forest is torn down and burned. Finally.
Reach out and touch My heart....for I will touch yours back in return....10 fold.
To be Dominant is not to Dominate, but to protect and be the source of strength, guidance, wisdom, and knowledge for One's submissive. The recognition and acceptance of that of that source does not make her a lesser person, but allows her to retain her own identity and individuality while exploring her innermost secrets and desires.
Either you are here to just mess around and "pretend" that you are submissive. Dreaming of being controlled, taught how to truly please with no intentions of ever following through...OR....you crave this like you do the next breath of air..knowing that if you don't find it soon you will suffocate...you wonder where to begin...how to reach out and let go. If you never reply back to a sincere Master on here, you never will.
Don't waste My time if you aren't ready or willing to experience that euphoric feeling of submissiveness. Things take time but if the willingness and desire is there to learn, One can do much with that.
If you only seek kink, then go to kink.com. But if you want to learn how or what it means to give up total control then you have come to the right place.
The beauty of a sub.
In life there are many wonderful things to behold with O/our eyes and hearts. W/we see these things on a daily basis, i.e. O/our children, a meadow, a beloved pet, friends, a loved O/one. But to a Master, the one thing that is the apple to His eye is His submissive or slave. He knows in her that she exists this very day to honor, serve, and please Him. There is nothing more pressing or important to her than to seek His approval and love. I can be stressed, upset, and even angry but when I look into a sub's eyes and O/our eyes meet for that instantaneous moment til she lowers her eyes everything in Me that has up until that point distracted Me simply leaves. I have taken solace in her submissiveness through her eyes. her eyes go deep into her soul to show Me her dedication and love for Me.
To hold her in My hands is akin to a Potter molding His craft with plyable clay at the wheel. I know that I must take care in how I begin each day with her for she is like a sponge eagerly licking up every morsel that comes from My breath....My actions. I cannot do wrong for her sake and future. I will make a mistake but am not proud enough to look her into those wondrous eyes to say so. In doing so she learns how to forgive others, and herself.
W/we all know there are a myriad of P/people on here....players, wanna-be's, pretenders. All running amuck without supervisision or direction. T/these individuals shame those of U/us here who are real and seek the real beauty of D/s.
Why is it that when One such as Myself sends a very polite and respectful message to subs on here that they do not feel the need to be courteous or kind and reciprocate? If only to say, thanks but no thanks. What ever happen to common decency and courtesy? Most of U/us on here know the daunting task of putting something..some kind of words...on here to briefly say something about who W/we are. It's hard. But if a sub on here would take the time to get to know who I am for even a little bit they would find safety and encouragement in who I am.
