Str8up

About Str8up

The first thing that you need to know about me is that I am a different sort of Dom. 1^st and foremost I am interested in learning and broadening my perspectives to figure out exactly how I fit into the lifestyle and how the lifestyle fits into who I am. I personally believe that a sub should be treated as a prized possession. Now do not misunderstand this point, punishment is warranted from time to time, and rough play is totally acceptable and just plain fun too, just not to the point of permanent or lasting damage.
My current situation on a good day is complicated; I have 2 biological children and 2 more that I claim as mine, as their sperm donors couldn’t be bothered to have anything to do with them. My hope is that at the end of the day I am able to give them all that they need, and maybe some of what they want.
I currently am not actively seeking a sub but if the right fit came along I am not opposed to the possibility either. 1^st and foremost that sub would have to understand and be able to accept that I have responsibilities to this situation and will NOT compromise on this point so if you are looking for a baggage free Dom then should probably keep looking. I am however looking for friends who understand the lifestyle and who I can learn from and maybe who can learn from me as well I have a different point of view than most Dom’s that I have met thus far and I believe that there is a very drastic difference between a submissive and a slave. If you are interested in learning more about my views then feel free to drop me a line and ask I am more than happy to discuss them.