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Male Dominant, 63, Akron/Cleveland, Ohio
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About StillOptomistic
I am seeking an open minded submissive. Ok, what's the catch? None. However, I am looking for specific traits, so if you think you fit what I seek, I would like to hear from you.
Who I seek must be intelligent and very open minded; you must not be a doormat. Size, race, religion and so forth are not an issue. I would like to be able to carry on a conversation (when we are not doing "other" things). I don't smoke, but do not mind if you do. I do not use drugs, so drug users stop here. I have been known to have a few cold beers on a hot day, and I don't mind if you are a social to moderate drinker (you must not be a drunk!!). Willingness to explore is important.
Who am I? Fair enough. I am a normal SWM who has a kinky side. I am very sane and quite safe. I respect limits, and expect you to respect my eagerness to explore. I am very passionate, I like public displays of affection, holding hands, and spending time with one another. I eventually desire a long term commitment. It's not all about sex,.....although.......I have been known to wager sexual fantasies on the outcome of various sporting events.
Lastly, I can be very discrete, and expect you to honor those same values, should I desire.
My last relationship ended about three years ago after a happy 6 years. It was not a hurtful ending, but it did leave an empty spot. It is only now that I have elected to once again seek someone. I will want to see a picture of you early on, and I will certainly provide mine. I have chosen not to post here, only due to the sensitivity of my work.
If you think you generally fit what I seek, I hope you will take a moment to write. |
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