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About Stilettogirl
Hello All/all. I am a switch, but also a collared slave to my Master. I am only here looking for friends, both Dom/Domme and sub/slave, to share thoughts and ideas with.
That said...to All the Dom/Domme out there...
I would like to say that I am truly flattered if you saw my picture and thought that I was worth your time, but all the same it is clearly stated right there in front of you that I am already serving someone. I have respect for many a Dom/Domme. But on the same note I believe that D/s is a 50/50 power exchange and that before any relationship is started respect must be earned, and there must be a higher level of trust and communication. It seems to me that a lot of you Dom/Dommes are out there running around thinking that you can message any sub/slave that you want and be given instant respect, and if that is the case you are sadly mistaken. If you don't have enough intelligence to read the profiles of those you chose to approach before approaching then you can only expect to be meet with a few more than rude responses. I lose respect for a lot for you Dom/Domme out there who think you can just send me some generic message without reading my profile or trying to get to know me and be given instant respect and control. I am friends with many a Dom/Domme, and many a sub/slave, and all of those that I know and speak with understand that D/s isn't about automatic respect and automatic control. It is a 50/50 power exchange that is built off a foundation of trust and communication. Perhaps all of you Dom/Domme out there should learn to read profiles before you try to stick your foot in someone else's door. So if you are only messaging me so you can try to own or control me then please save your time and mine...I'm not interested in anything more than friends from anyone on this site. Thank you. |
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Boy it has been forever and a day since I've been on this profile so thought I'd remind anyone who wrote me at this one that my new profile is listed as TIGERSserval on here. Other than that life is good we got some new needles in the mail and are hoping to get a new fire cupping set for Valentine's Day. Speaking of which I hope you all have a good one full of loving spanking! Byes for now.
serval (artist formerly known as stiletto) |
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!!!! Wondering what kinds of interesting things I'll get for my birthday. Have a great day everyone! |
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Well it has been some time since I have written. Things are going very well. The baby is getting huge, and sleeping through the night. Which mean Master and I can finally get some playtime, or get sitters and go out for the night. Which we are doing tonight as a matter of fact. We are going to a Christmas play party. It should be great. On another note I now have a new profile up on here and will soon be switching to that one completely. It is listed under slave and the name on it is TIGERSserval. So if you are trying to reach me and can't find me that's where I'll be. :) |
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Well I've had many messages asking what we named the baby. Her name is Jazmyn. |
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I went in Wednesday morning to be induced. They broke my water and started pitocin at around 7:30 am, and I had my beautiful baby girl at 9:18pm. She was 6lbs. 13.7oz, 19 1/2 inches long, with a full head of dark brown hair. I probably won't be on for awhile while I'm healing and resting up. But I will keep everyone updated. Personally I can't wait til I'm all healed so I can gte back to the fun stuff...lol Byes for now.
stiletto |
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So I had my appointment today, and we are making progress!! WooHoo!! The doctor is hoping that I'll go anytime now. We set up an appointment for Monday and if I haven't popped by then I will be induced on Wednesday. But with the progress I'm making it could happen anytime so hopefully i won't have to worry about that. Will let you all know when it happens. Lord knows I can't wait to get back to life as "usual"! Bye for now.
stiletto |
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Well, no baby yet. Still having lots of contractions, but feeling like I'm not making any progress. My doctor told me yesterday that if I haven't popped by my appointment next week they are going to set up a date to induce me. Needless to say I'd rather not go that route. I did that with the first, and was hoping this one would come on it's own. So now I'm playing the waiting game. Hopefully this baby will decide to come out before next week. I'll let you all know.
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Thinking I might be getting close to having this baby finally...lol Been having lots and lots of braxon hicks contractions, and they are starting to come semi-regularly now. Who knows maybe it'll be tonight. All I know is that I've had a migraine all evening and I just took my medicine so I'm going to go try to sleep while I can just in case this baby does decide to come tonight. I'll let you all know when it happens. Byes.
stiletto |
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Only one month left until my due date!! Although I'm begining to wonder if this baby is going to come early. So far all signs are pointing to yes. I guess I'll find out today what kind of progress my body is making when I see the doctor. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that it's good news! I'll keep you all up to date. |
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Not much new going on in my world. Just feeling totally unattractive in my pregnant state. You can't find sexy fetish clothes, or lingere to fit a pregnant body. Not to say that I'm not happy about the upcoming addition cause I am. I just wish that the fashion industry would make a few changes. It's as if they think that just because you are carrying a baby you automatically become suzy homemaker wearing frumpy clothes. I forgot how crappy being pregnant was for the physical appearance since last time...lol Fortunately I only have a few weeks left til it's big swollen breasts and a smaller tummy!! I can't wait. In the meantime I will continue the search for something sexy that I can squeeze into for an upcoming play party Master and I will be attending. Talk to you all later. Byes.
stiletto |
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Well, as they say, for better & worse...in sickness and in health. Needless to say Master and I have been slammed. The night of the wedding I started to get sick. It didn't seem that bad so we left the next morning for our honeymoon in Hawaii. Needless to say we got there Sunday afternoon and by Tuesday afternoon I was in the ICU. I got transferred from one hospital to another, and we spent our honeymoon in the hospital with me hooked to all sorts of iv's and machines. We are home now, and I'm still on the mend. Lots of meds and follow up doctors appointments to go to. Luckily the baby is fine. It's just me that's sick. But Master was a pillar of strength keeping me going through all of it. I know it has been wearing on him, but he keeps on truckin! Where would I be without him? Good thing I don't have to find out. I'll keep you all posted as I continue to mend from this and get ready for the new baby.
stiletto |
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Here comes the bride all fat and wide!! LOL So Saturday is the wedding, and there are still a million things for me to get done. Well worth it in the end, but quiet a pain in the ass at the moment. But the thought of a kid free week in Hawaii getting my ass properly beat...mmmm....I can't wait.
In other news this baby is getting too freakin huge for my little person..lol Everything is going well, and we are still on target with the due date in mid September.
I suppose that's all there really is to tell at the moment, but I'll be sure to fill in a few kinky details when I get back from Hawaii. Byes for now!
stiletto |
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IT'S A GIRL!! So we went to the doctors today and found out that we're having a girl. This will make number 4 between the 2 of us. Lucky for us girls Master has enough testosterone to keep us all in check...lol Will keep everyone updated as the date gets nearer.
stiletto |
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I had the most wonderful time at BMSL. I had the chance to enjoy many great seminars while I was there. Master and I purchased many new and wonderful toys, and enjoyed some great scene time as well.
It was nice to see some familiar faces in the crowd and quiet a pleasure to meet so many new and interesting people as well. I can only hope everyone that went had as enjoyable a time as I did.
And on another wonderful note, even though it was hard, I was able to find quiet a few clothes that made me look and feel sexy even in my current state. Tomorrow we find out if we are having a boy or a girl. Not that it ruly matters as long as it is healthy. Lord knows with us as parents it will definately be kinky!! lol Although I know Master and myself are hoping against hope that it is a boy seeing as we already have 3 girls between us. Well, we'll know soon enough.
stiletto:)
stiletto |
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Well, I finally got some shopping done for BMSL. Man is it ever difficult to find a wardrobe suitable for an event like this when you are preggy, but I have some how managed to put a few things together. Heading out tomorrow morning, and looking forward to a long, exquisitly painful/pleasurable weekend!! Will be sure to write all about it when I get back. Byes
stiletto |
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Well, Wicked Mardi Gras was a blast! So many great people and so many great costumes. Now I get to look forward to BMSL. It should be great as well as long as I can find some sexy clothes to wear while I'm there. That seems to be the issue of the day as of late with my ever expanding waist line. I have been all over the internet in search of sexy clothes made to fit pregnant women. It seems that this is non-exisitent. One would think that with all the people involved in the lifestyle you'd be able to find soemthing of that nature, but no, you can't find it. Well, the search continues....
stiletto |
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Starting to get excited...One more weekend and it's time for the Wicked Mardi Gras party my Sir and I are attending. And I finally found a sexy costume I can wear, even with my ever expanding belly!! As far as other news goes...My Sir recently collared me..what a wonderful day that was. We are planning to have a ceremony/gathering of sorts to celebrate this news with all of our friends. Well gotta go for now, but will catch you all soon.
stiletto |
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Well life seems to be going along fine. Went to the doctors and they estimate that the baby is due September 18th. Getting ready to attend to big bdsm events in the coming months, so that should be fun and exciting. Only tough part will be finding something sexy that I can wear with my ever expanding belly!! If anyone happens upon this journal entry and knows of any place that sells sexy clothes that would fit a preggy belly let me know. :)
stiletto |
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Well it's been awhile since I've written so I figured it was about time to get this up to date. Im still with my Dom, and things have been going well. Got a spot of unexpected news recently...found out I'm pregnant. Needless to say the timing isn't so great, but overall this is actually pretty good news. I had been told that I might never be able to carry another child after I had my daughter, so this is very much a miricle for me. So bad timing aside this is wonderful news for me. And on the bright side I found out that as long as we avoid a few key areas on the body we are still free to play as much as we did before I got pregnant....so I don't have to put my life on hold fa or the next months which is nice. Well I suppose that is all the news I have time for right now, but I'll write again soon. Byes for now.
Stiletto
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So I'll be in San Francisco for the next week. My first vacation in almost 4 years. About damn time I guess. But I'll be on the computer a lot while I'm there so feel free to keep me entertained while I'm away!! lol Hope everyone is having a wonderful New Year so far. Byes for now.
Stiletto |
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So as my profile now states I'm currently in a relationship. Decided to take a break from the dom side and spend my time as a sub. So far things are going well down here on the bottom! Found a very good Dom to serve. Dreading the punishment I'm due tonight. Guess not all the dom in me was able to be held at bay, and I got myself in a spot of trouble for it. Well..I can dish it as well as I can take it, and I damn well know I deserve what is coming. I know I sure as hell would punish a sub for acting like I did!!! In the meantime still looking to make new friends..so be sure to drop me a line.
Stiletto |
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I just wanted to say thank you to all of you out there for the ohh so warm welcome to the site. It is always nice to meet others in the lifestyle to speak with and compare notes with, Dom and sub alike. I'm enjoying my journey into this life thus far and am guaranteed continuing success with all the support of those around me!! So thanks to all of you out there!!
Stilettogirl |
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