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stillincontrol

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About stillincontrol

I want you.
You need me.

I have a variety of interests and enjoy trying new things, but time and time again the pleasures I return to center around one thing: control. I would say that I enjoy the feeling of being in control but that doesn't even begin to describe it; it's not an arrangement that I strive for or even necessarily seek out on a conscious level - rather, it seems to be a natural consequence of the way I live my life and the choices that I make.

The women I associate with both personally and professionally seem to intuit that on a deep, natural level. They defer to me almost instinctively and are sometimes even surprised if I decide to point it out - a modern woman, confident and secure in herself, she would never! - but the realization that just maybe, deep down they crave it, they have a base need to submit, even superficially... sometimes the look on their face says it all. It's comforting, the ability to let go.

Hopefully, you read this and you recognize yourself. You are the girl that I am looking for.

More specifically:
You might consider yourself a woman, a respectable woman even (or perhaps not...) but that to me you will always be a girl. Your role as a girl might vary over time - a conversation partner, a companion, a plaything, a servant, a toy - but that your role varies is entirely at my discretion. You play each role obediently and happily, and when not happily, in the mindset that you will learn to enjoy it in due time.

Age is just a number, although younger tends to align with what I really want: inexperienced, even naive. The malleable college co-ed, the Platonic ideal of raw female sexuality waiting to be tapped. But I've met girls in their 40's that easily fit the bill as well. A girl that knows her place is a commodity that doesn't dilute with age. Don't let that hold you back from contacting me.

Physically, I have my preferences like any other man, but I'm not foolish enough to think that there's a "type" to which I need to limit myself. Tall, short, athletic, curvy, white, Asian... if you consider yourself attractive, I probably do as well.

About me:
I'm professionally successful, financially secure and intelligent. Tall, above average looks, and in average-to-athletic shape. I don't post photos but you'll see one in due time (though not before I see yours).

What I want:
Convince me that you are what I need. Open up to me about your desires and your experiences (or lack thereof). Submit to me - yes, online at first. If the connection is there and we decide to proceed, I'm more than willing (and capable) to relocate you temporarily or permanently if you aren't local.

See the rest of the profile for the dirty details, if you're so inclined.


Your first submission is to contact me and tell me about an unfullfilled fantasy. Be specific. I'll decide on the appropriate nature of your subsequent submissions as we talk.
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