spoiledbabykitty

I am not looking for any one type of relationship in particular. I currently have a Master but I'm free to pursue other friends, play partners, or relationships. The most important thing I’m looking for is someone I can get along well with. No matter what shape the relationship takes in the future it needs to have a good foundation :) I am an easy going fun loving person, very playful yet serious and mature when I need to be. I am naturally submissive but I am more into the emotional side of D/s than S&M. I am very spunky, independent, and opinionated and because of this sometimes people think I am not submissive. I however do not see a conflict between being a strong independent person in my personal life and desiring to serve and submit to someone in a relationship.

I am not a pain slut although I do enjoy the occasional spanking ;) I love things like bondage, wax play, serving, exhibitionism, sensation play, and of course sex. Outside of the bedroom I enjoy going out to parties, reading, playing video games, watching TV, and travel when I get the opportunity.

So what am I looking for? Hopefully a friend that might develop into something more down the road. I usually like older men, and I’m very fond of hair, I like it to be growing everywhere but your back or butt :P Of course personality is what matters most and I find that I usually know if there’s a chemistry within the first few meetings. I feel that a sense of playfulness is very important however, like me you need to be capable of being mature when the situation warrants. Another important aspect is respect, I am a human being as are you, and I expect the basic level of respect that everyone deserves regardless of their orientation. I will not submit to any Dom that comes my way, it is a gift that I give to those who respect me and earn my trust. Communication is also important, I am an honest person and do not want someone who will be hiding things or lying as it makes a poor foundation for any relationship. Besides these core elements of the relationship I am also very affectionate and love cuddling, kissing, spooning, and other various displays of affection.