spiritofsbmsn

I generally dislike writing profiles. Never know how to compartmentalize myself like that.

Personality wise, I'm a study in contrasts. I am outgoing at times, personable and playful with people I know, but in certain moods, I am very shy with strangers. In a social setting, I will generally stick by someone that I know until I get comfortable. Then, you can't shut me up. Well, you can... but generally only with a ball gag. LOL.

I'm very intelligent, but I'm also very much an airhead. I have a lot going on inside my head, and sometimes that takes away from my ability to follow a conversation. I'm also pretty gullible, a fact which has been made abundantly clear lately.

I live my life in search of experience. I want to live all the days of my life, and I want to make sure that there isn't one thing that I wanted to do and never took the opportunity if it was there. Everything I do, I do with passion. Moderation is not a word that is familiar to me.

I'm bisexual. That said, I could never have a woman as a primary partner. I love 'em, but honestly, it's too much trouble and drama for me. I date men - I play with women. It works for me.

I'm a switch, but I could never top and bottom to the same person. I like to top, in fact I have quite a sadistic side when I am in that headspace, but I am also very comfortable in submission with the right person.

Speaking of the right person.... well, let's just say I'm not looking for my only one right now. Just got out of something serious, and because of that, I'm wary of everyone right now, especially at first. If you want to get to know me, please take the time to do so before you decide that I am your dream girl. I will do the same.

And yes, you may have seen me around if you are from the area. My name is Spirit, and I've been active in the scene for about 8 years.