As a pro domme I am a purist. Professional play means my flesh shall not touch your flesh and no fluids shall be exchanged under any circumstances.
I seek the engergy exchange for myself and my clients that cannot be achieved through the vagueries of insoucient or phlegmatic behavior.
As a mentor/Mistress I do switch - mostly for education purposes whether for newbies or for other experts/kinksters looking to expand their repertoire.

My personal favorites are suspension and deprivation, however there are fewer items in my list of dislikes than the seemingly endless list of likes.

I enjoy learning something new everyday as well as watching the lightbulb 'go on' above other people's heads.

I grew up in a world full of sadistic and masochistic behavior although I was lucky enough to learn early the seeds one sows are the seeds they reap. Just like in the movie Monsters, Inc I learned that screams of delight have a far more impactful resonance than the screams from anguish.

I would prefer to give ambrosial pleasure than pain, enlightenment than oppression however my professional predilections dictate that any person willing to ask for what they want may receive it without prejudice. (A man I almost married at one point told me 'sometimes, people just want a beating'. It is true.)

Given a long history within the scene for various reasons I enjoy couples coaching. I find it enriching to assist couples that want to have a better sex life, especially if they are willing to ask for hidden knowledge. More often than not I do it from a neutral position that is not part of the active scene (as in sitting in a chair across the room giving suggestions as opposed to being part of the active scene).

For those that require permeation of flesh for subzone erotica, edgeplay leading to mutilation is not out of the realm of acceptable proceedures, however, I have found that most scenes do not require such abject disfigurement. In most cases, your camera in my nimble fingers can capture the moment for your memorabilia wall.

To become a sub, slave, pet or for couples coaching - the party seeking my assistance is required to meet me at a neutral vanilla site and we must both/all be accepting of all of our requests, limits and boundaries.

I have created a private dungeon for my own use.
 

Clients are required to bring their own toys and implements - it saves me cleaning time and guessing.

On average, a session will last from one to three hours. For a smattering of what is available for singles or couples coaching, (did I mention I love couples coaching as I really enjoy helping others get to new heights in their relationships) - some of the more titillating details are outlined in the Discerning Palate Menu in my writing section.

I have many local references within the Hawaii BDSM community.

Curious? Just ask me... I am quite approachable.

Aloha

Aloha Kinksters.

In addition to the Discerning Palate Menu we have a wide selection of training and coaching opportunities available.  Everything from slut, pet, slave, sub and dom training to learning to verbalize your needs or learning how to walk in 6" heels.

Maybe you want to brush up on your rope skills or just get a few new prick designs tattooed into your flesh.

If you have a vanilla partner and do not know how to broach your favorite kinky fantasies, fear not, garnering approval for the unknown is a house specialty.  No one should be in a relationship where your needs are not fully appreciated and met - unless, of course, that is the way you want it.

An Initial Consultation is required before a session is booked.

Privacy and discretion are paramount to my needs, although I do have methods and a play space that will allow you to explore your voyeuristic tendencies and may provide ample exhibitionist facilities if so desired.

References available upon request.  If you have been to one of the HawaiiBDSM events within the past two years, you probably already know me or know of me.

I look forward to meeting your kinky side.

Aloha