Well I am starting to wonder about the state of mind of the Female Submissives in Southwest Missouri.
I have been in contact with a few who start out with "Oh yes I am a submissive and my goal is to serve...balh blah blah."
Only to flake out if any real form of control is asserted.
I am not delusional and realize that submission is an accepted choice for  the Female Submissive and go to great lengths to accomadate the wishes and boundaries of those with whom I play, before we ever reach the play room...
But come on...If you are going to say that your boundaries lie at point-X....and tell me that you have experience in an area. Then accept that you are going to be exposed to that level of play and don't call off the session before it even gets started.
Are there any real sub females in S.W.M.O. or just those who use this site as a free dating service?
I'll turn off my rant now!