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Hetero Male Dominant, 60,  WestChicago, Illinois
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It has been an interesting few years...

Everyone comes into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually, (or for you to offer the same FOR or to THEM). They may seem like a Godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an incontinent time, this person will say something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent has been answered and now it is time to move on. Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it it is real, but only for a season. LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Thank you for being a part of my life, whether your weather it, it is for a reason, season or lifetime.

So, with all this, lets see what this season brings. Perhaps some total engagement in life?

In the time it takes for you to get this far. Consider I can assist you to getting where you need to be. It is hard to simply not achieve your desires working together... even harder alone. Sometimes all I can do is be an ear... if I am allowed.


For those whom, due to life experiences indicate that they know me... then blow me off...take a bit more time. You may end up changing your mind.

And some need to actually be more specific in their profile. If you have indicated preferences... I ask perhaps a few questions to verify ... then let things go. I have to laugh yet again with a conversation that assumed a bunch of things... whom had made up their mind... then refused to actually say so until POW... they did. Which is fine ... then attempt to nuke me... with words. Like it will affect me long term. I have seen it before ... bias or whatever it is that... says no... Just say no... thanks... if you want to have a conversation... say that... it is easier... but hmmm when there are leaders that to me say talk more... I talk more. Why not... til there is either a no... or a lack of response which also says no. Be honest... I have been and will be.

As far as you having children young adults... Lets say this. I know it is hard in many ways for both sides to trust... even with young adults... or children. I spent 14 years as a single parent. Some of you say seeking a soul mate. Wouldnt be the first we all have seen it... I am not sure I will ever find mine.... so if I say something like... that will be a challenge... It is because I have found it a challenge. Then.... because some have problems with my being whom i am physically, with all my physicals up to this time... my heart is fine. My cholesterol is also... I knew early in life that ... I really would have to want to ... work myself to keep slim. As an old Wrestler... I rather try to be moderate...and maintain.

I work for a living. I am willing to do many things... guess you will also have to be willing to work or have the means to live too. I have not much respect for those whom will not work.

I seek. So do we all. Will we find?












 Dominant Male



 5' 3"

 190 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female


A Poly Household


 Amusement Parks

 Antique Shows

 Garage Sales



 Renaissance Faires











 Curious About:


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3/7/2015 2:40:10 PM
I read this recently... and find it interesting how I have ... met the needs:

how to love a broken girl                   

How to love a broken girl.  How many would benefit from an instruction book for that? Its easy to love the carefree girls, the "normal" girls, the confident girls next door, but what about the broken girls? The girls with fortresses around their heart and shields in their eyes? The girls whose souls have aged beyond their earthly years? The girls with bodies and minds that have survived wars which would break the strongest of men? Sometimes these girls should come with a warning label. The warning pendulum swings both ways. This warning  is not only for how you must treat her but for all the ways she will ruin you.

1. You cannot love her gently. She does not realize she deserves to be loved. You must love her with a force that can crush mountains. You must burn her soul so hot with your love that doubt melts away. Your love must be unconditional and you must show her on her very worst days.

2. She doesnt know shes beautiful.  She can get compliments all day and she wont believe it. There is a demon on her shoulder whispering that its not true. It takes a dozen compliments to erase one hurtful torment from her past. Shower her with compliments, be her cheerleader, until your words are her heartbeat instead of her doubts.

3. Chase her. I know we often have the attitude of not chasing anyone. I know it is said to be weak if we chase someone who walks away, but we need to see you are weak for us. Sometimes a broken girl needs to see how much you need her. She needs to.see that vulnerability in your eyes to feel ok. We need you to need us.

4. She needs routine.  Broken girls over analyze everything.  They notice everything, too. Did you stop asking her for pictures after some time passes? Did you stop using a pet name? Every broken pattern to us means the end of the only thing we have ever wanted and it terrifies us.

5. Smother us with affection. Touch us. Kiss us. Touch us some more. Broken girls have not experienced enough positive affection in their life. We will absorb every ounce as a person dying of thirst demands water. You cannot shower us with enough of a good touch.

6. Be honest and keep promises. Broken girls have not dared to dream much. Every vow made to us has been broken. Every promise has been a lie. We would rather you never let a promise escape your lips than have you utter false ones.

7. Prepare to drown. If we let you inside our chaotic soul, you will be immersed in a madness you will not understand. We sometimes walk the balance beam of insanity and sometimes we fall. The biggest warning we should have is this.. if we love you, it is forever. We will love you with a loyalty that will amaze you. We will be committed and our heart will beat your name. While we are still broken we will try to devour all of your pain. We will be perceptive to your wounds and eager to heal your soul. If we love you, please be prepared that we will forever stay.

10/18/2014 3:43:26 PM
recently, i ran across... a slave... whom height is an issue.


but really?  horizontal has no height.

slavehood becomes what a series of choices.   i get it.

i don't care about this really, but if you do have an height issue... make sure it is in your profile.


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