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About socalvidz
I'm Kevin, musician, artist, film maker, editor, student of the heart, and lover of all things beautiful.
I am fairly new to the BDSM world, although I've been Dominate my whole life, very much an "A" type personality. However I recently played "cuck", for a good friend who was moving out of state. I wanted to give him a going away gift he soon wouldn't forget. I am also a film maker, so I was curious to experience the perspective of being a submissive, as well as attempting to understand the psychological aspects of, " giving up control." My attitudes, perspectives, and a host of other preconceptions that I unconsciously held for most of my adult life, were shattered that evening. I have to say everything that evening seemed new, completely fresh and extremely vivid to my sensual and sexual sides, my intellect, emotions, the physical (sensory) and psychological stimulus were almost indescribable. The story is written because there is so much that happened that evening, and I also have everything on video.
I am open to being submissive, with the exception that I do not do humiliation. I believe everyone deserves to be treated with a certain degree of dignity and respect. I understand that there are a great number of you who are more than willing to subject yourself to pain and humiliation...I'm just not one of them. I don't judge, ever....It's not my job (thankfully). However, assuming the role of submissive, pleaser and also someone who is naturally bisexual, I was not in any way, prepared for the what seemed like a tsunami of erotic, emotional, sensory, and physical, stimuli, and then there was the HUGE sexual charge. All in all it was almost overwhelming. It as if I were a virgin and this were my first sexual experience.
I am bisexual, but have not had the opportunity to be that for many many years, as my ex was not supportive and I didn't want to cheat. It's finally my turn, and I'm very anxious to bring that back into my life. I have a good deal of experience with threesomes and moresomes, so I'm very comfortable in that realm, plus I understand and respect the rules many couples tend to have.
Please feel free to write. I am here to grow, learn and to share amazing adventures with those who are open minded.
As with my music, I only know giving 200%, and that's how I approach relationships and love as well as the erotic aspects of my life. I am looking for someone who is very intimate, communicative, connected, intelligent, and unafraid to share in our mutual journeys. I am looking for couple and/or a partner in play also.
I am intelligent, communicative, imaginative, (I'm an artist) and unafraid to be myself. I am an open book, and believe that great communication lays the foundation for trust and vulnerability, taking healthy risks, going on great journeys together, both physically, mentally, geographically, and erotically. But more importantly, great communication creates trust, security and a mutual supportive relational atmosphere of exploration, and gratification. When we have all those gifts... our old boundaries seem like childish things.
Write me. I'll be happy to tell you more about myself and the qualities, I would like in a partner.
Thank you,
Kevin |
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