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Male Dominant, 39, Berkeley, California
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Male Submissive, 56, New York
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Male Dominant, 47, Redondo Beach, California
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About SoberDude30
? You can find me with the same name on Yahoo Messenger. ? The Primary Picture is a sample of some of my toys, because we're all here to play.
There is much more to know.? Ask and I shall reveal.
I know that sex is a huge part of the lifestyle, but it needs to be more cerebral.? I am the type of person that may spend a week planning a session that will only last an hour or two (definitely longer if we're into it).? I look at a sub and think "What will make them squirm?? How can I make them beg me to never stop?"? This lifestyle is about communication and trust.? I expect to talk online first, but I will ask for a meeting fairly soon after that.? This is not to have sex on the first meeting, but we need to know each other in real life too.
I have been in the lifestyle for about 10 years now.? I've had 2 long term subs. I'm mainly looking for someone to scene with occasionally, but open to something serious.? You don't need a lot of experience, but you need to know how to communicate.? I'm Dom, not Psychic.? Hopefully this is a good base for you to know if I'm the guy you want to beat you.
So, if any of my toys interest you (the black case is a Violet Wand), you think I'm an interesting guy, or you just want to know more to make a decision, hit me up.
Even if it's just for friendship, feel free to contact me.? I am always looking for more friends.? And I am always willing to teach and help people learn.? It's better to form the good habits (safe words, communication, emergency plans, etc.) as early as possible ? |
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I hate it when people disappear for no reason whatsoever. After a long IM conversation, giving a fantasy scenario that was asked for, you just leave? Not saying that you didn't like any aspect of it, not saying that I was the wrong body type, not saying anything was wrong at all, just pop, gone. Then I see you online afterwards with no communication. Who does that? Less than halfway through the scenario I was telling too.
Oh well, maybe next time. I remain hopeful. I enjoy talking to people, so I'll keep trying. |
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