If you notice my profile is hidden.  It is temperary!  I like to take time to answer my mail.

I will be back :)

It's so hard when someone takes the time to set up a scene , on line and try to entice me by it.  How can i explain that it doesn't do anything for me.  It's pretend..  even if this is a scene that will be enacted in real time down the road. Right now, it's play and it turns me cold. 

 I love love love talking about sex..  I love sexy talk.  I love someone to woe me through his intelligence but describing a scene leaves me cold.  

Well here I am with another journal entry.  I may speak on line with you , we may giggle and laugh and enjoy smiling at each other while we chat.  But Don't assume after one chat that you are my Master and expect me to be exclusive.  Don't expect me to put my life on hold the moment you pop up on line!  I will be respectful and announce i am speaking with my family, but they are more important at this point and you'll have to wait to speak with me.  How is it, after one chat you feel you can give me orders?  I don't even know you yet!  And i haven't chosen you as my partner or even my friend.  ...  Where do you get off calling ME rude??   Not sure where these people learn manners.

I appreciate all your messages, but please know i am looking for an older man.  I have a policy not to date anyone close to my kids age.  I'm very flattered by any interest from 20 and 30 year olds...  but to call you Daddy just wouldn't cut it.  Be well and enjoy the journey!

It seems the more I talk to people on here, the more choosy i become.  MY list is growing. 

 #1.  BDSM is supposed to be FUN. If it weren't, why would we do it?  So many of you are way too serious.  Smile, giggle, have fun and let your personality shine through.   It's about enjoying each other. If you can't see humour, then our personalities won't ever click and you're not the one for me!

 #2.  I am willing to show you who I am on Cam. but not if you don't have one too!  You want to know i am real. Well vise versa.  Don't expect me to chat with you if you haven't sent me a pic , and  honestly I will not cam with you unless you have one too. MY new hardfast limit!

 #3.  I loathe cyber.  I say that in my profile. Yet So many of you in the first 10 minutes expect me to start showing you body parts. I'm much more than tit's and ass.  If you don't want to take the time to get to know who i am then you're not for me.  I don't perform for you like a trained monkey.  I am a great person and my submission will be a gift, if and when you get it.  I have hundreds of people messaging me so don't expect me to start being intimate with you. I get SO TURNED off by this.  You'll be on my ignore list quickly.

 #4.  If all you want to do is wank in front of me, find yourself a cyberslut.  I'm seeking real life play.  Your cock isn't much different than the next guys. I like to look into your eyes and see your personality.  If we have a connection the intimacy will come.

 #5.  I may be submissive , but i'm not a doormat and I don't obey Every Dom who messages me.  You can't all be my special Sir.  And please understand i am looking for that someone who does it for me.  Lets enjoy getting to know each other.

The rewards await!