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OMG, it's been awile since I was out in the virtual community. A few life altering events and a whole heep of soul searching later...I'm back, we're back and just as bad assed as we were long ago. For the longest time my Boo and I were fooling ourselves and trying to play roles we were not ment to. It's an odd sorta set up, I will admit, but when dealing with love it's so hard to tame the passions and the wills of those involved. I wanted my Boo to be happy, to be in control so SHE would feel comfortable. Alas, that just wasn't going to work, our true spirits were just to strong. Boo is definetly a sub, and I am definetly a Dom, but for her I would try to bend time if I could, so I will always do as she asks, for the sake of her feelings and emotions. That means that yes, behind closed doors, she is my sub, but when it comes to playmates and such, she will always have the final say. To me, this makes sence... As a couple, we're a crazy and eclectic mix of fun ideals, we love to play, have fun and we don't take the lifestyle all to serious. To us, it is all about the passion and the pleasure, it should feel good above all else. We love bondage, Boo loves being chained, cuffed and or tied down and I love obliging her, lol. I work with metal and have created several unique pieces to play with, from spreaders to heavy steel cuffs and stainless handled floggers. Boo's not much into pain, but then again, I'm not much into hurting her, so I guess that makes us a match made in heaven, lol. She's a great gal, who loves her gals as well. She's sensual and very erotic, bisexual and kinky, complete with a truck of toys to match her every mood. Me, I'm a sexually oriented misfit, that believes sexuality is fluid and I let it "swing" as it may. I've often considered myself a lesbian, much to the displeasure of some, but I'm not straight and I love woman, lol. So it just makes sence to me, lol. I guess I would best describe myself as a sensual Dom, with a pinch of mad scientist thrown in for good measure. I love creating new toys and unique gadgets to play with. We have no hang ups and are quite open to anyone willing to share and chat, no matter the gender or orientation. At this point we're just slowly moving back into the "swing" of things. Although, we are looking for a female playmate for the future, we're looking to make friends first and perhaps playmates later. We just can't bring ourselves to be sluts, lol. We're just into the whole sensuality and erotic side of the lifestyle. Someone once called us "lipstick lifestylers". Well if the name fits, why not wear it with pride. So so be it!

8/25/2007 10:33:32 AM The complexities of bondage and sex... To us, it's so hard to divide the two, we are extremely sexual by nature and it is a big part of our play life. Be it deprovation or pleasure to the point of screaming for one to stop, it rears its sexy head in almost every scene. For some this is not right, but to us, it is a great big bonus. After 14 years of marriage, we haven't lost each other. Infact, we're closer now, sexually speeking, then we were when we got together for the first time. We've explored each other in depth. We've built a small trunk of toys to highten the experience and we've created a sense of playfulness in our scenes that just makes it fun. We realise that everyone plays differently and that's what we love about the lifestyle, that's what makes it great, diversity. We don't judge those that live it 24/7, or take it very seriously. We respect that very much, we admire it and we watch and learn from those people. We take bits and pieces and put them with our own ways, or modify them to meet our needs and play with those things we learn. Please don't judge us.