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Hetero Female Submissive, 62,  Central , Pennsylvania
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If you cant appeal to my intellect at the beginning then please dont message!

It goes without saying that I am on this site because I enjoy kink. It is not the only reason I am on this site. I do not have a submissive personality outside of this lifestyle. I am confident, intelligent and assertive and wont put on a submissive act when chatting with someone online.

I want to get to know a man just like I would if pursuing a vanilla relationship. He should share my interests, values and respect my goals. Dating, growing to know and trust each other is the only way to develop a relationship in which kink can become a part of it. Married men need not message me since a committed, monogamous relationship is impossible with a man already committed to someone else.

Im not looking for 247, TPE, someone to change me, guide me, teach me or other extreme aspects of Ds. Not being critical or judgemental. Everyone has to find what fits them the best. I just want a relationship with some kinky fun. Unlike what some helpful doms have written to me, putting a profile on vanilla dating sites is not a helpful suggestion.

I work full time in a management position. I am a bit of a loner and enjoy being in my own company. I often dine or travel alone. What that means is I am not afraid of being alone and therefore, not desperate. It would be so nice, though, to have a great guy to share things and go places together.

I enjoy reading, movies, especially sci-fi, drama, and independent films. Big fan of Coen brothers. Dining out, visiting museums, travel, theater and cooking are some of my interests. I enjoy cooking my favorite comfort foods like soups and casseroles as well as new recipes I find on the internet. Serving them to a loving, caring man is part of the wonderful part of cooking, too.

I seek a strong, intelligent, independent man who knows what he wants in life. If youre looking for a long term relationship with a nice, normal woman who happens to also like kink, send a message.












 Submissive Female



 5' 6"

 200 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant male



 Comedy Shows

 Historical Shows


 Liberal Politics


 Antique Shows

 Fine Dining



 Science Fiction




 Rock Music


 Country Music

 Hard Limits:

 Erotic touch

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Journal Entries:
8/31/2017 5:15:31 AM
Insults and boorishness does not a dominant make! 

7/2/2017 8:33:24 PM
Just looking for a normal guy who can ignore his "urges" while chatting back and forth for a bit. Just a nice little dream of mine. 

7/26/2015 2:01:01 PM
Mr Robot on the USA channel, Wednesday nights.  Watch it!  Great show!!!

11/27/2013 6:42:28 PM

Through early morning fog I see

Visions of the things to be

The pains that are withheld for me

I realize and can see


That suicide is painless

It brings on many changes

And I can take or leave it if I please


I try to find a way to make

All our little joys relate

Without that ever-present hate

But now I know that it's too late, and


That suicide is painless

It brings on many changes

And I can take or leave it if I please

3/23/2013 1:21:17 PM

"Those who dream by day are cognizant of many things which escape those who dream only by night." ~ Edgar Allan Poe

9/23/2012 10:22:44 AM

"Be that self which one truly is"  ~ Soren Kierkegaard


Please refer to this quote before writing to me with "helpful" suggestions as to how I should be or act.  Thank you.

12/12/2011 10:34:44 PM

Res Ipsa Loquitur.  Indeed.  :)

1/13/2011 9:20:58 PM

In ancient times cats were worshipped as gods; they have not forgotten this.

~Terry Pratchett

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