smartasawhips2b

My Mom passed away peacefully on 12/05/13 at 1:38 A.M. due to complications from her open heart surgery back on Halloween.  R.I.P. Mom!  You are much loved and will be missed more than words can say!! 

 I really hate when someone tries to involve me in their kink, when I have no interest in what they are trying to do.  Case in point:  This morning I was contacted by a female switch who apparently has a sub.  She is obviously into humiliation, which I am not.  She doesn't even know me, but messages me and asks if I want to go onto Yahoo with her sub and listen to him sing a song, while standing on a stool.  

  I have zero interest in humiliation, whether it's mine or someone else's.  Good grief!

It's great to be back here in Carson City, NV.  I grew up here and have not been back for many, many years.  So, it's just wonderful to have returned and actually feel like I'm in civilization again!

 In search of:  A female slave who is interested in joining a potential poly household and who lives at least within a reasonable distance of us and is willing to occasionally travel back and forth, until such time as circumstances allow a permanent live-in situation.  This slave should be either be in her early fourties to mid-fifties in age, be intelligent and have a good sense of humor. 

  She should also take being a proper slave seriously and/or have the qualities of a good slave which can be fostered and molded to be that which Master will find pleasing. Said slave will be respectful, open, honest and communicative and desire to work hard both in the home and out.  She should also be able to follow commands and will eventually come to realize that any command given her is for the good of Master, her and I or the household collectively. 

  This slave will also enter into this poly household knowing from day one, that I am Master's future wife and will respect that at all times.  This is not to say that the slave will be loved or cared for any less or not have her needs, etc. met, nor will she be disrespected.  And that is also not to say that respect isn't just given, it's earned between all parties concerned. 

  Said slave need not be of any particular nationality or skin color, however it needs to also be known up front that we will not be sending money to any potential slave for any reason.  If the day comes that you move in with us, then we will help physically if we can but not monetarily.  Too, you should have no sexually transmitted diseases, be married or otherwise involved in any other relationships.  If you are bi-sexual, fine.  But it's not a prerequisite for joining us at all. 

  If interested, please contact me and let's talk.

   HAPPY NEW YEAR,  EVERYONE!!!  Be safe, be well and be good to one another and if you can this year, please find some way to give of yourself to a local animal shelter or to a shelter dog or cat.  Volunteer and/or adopt an animal who otherwise might not have a chance at a good, loving, stable and forever home.  Thanks everybody!!!!

  Once again, wishing everyone out there a very safe, healthy, prosperous, kinky and happy New Year!!!!  Whatever you do, please don't drink and drive.  Find a designated, sober driver to get ya'll home safe and sound.  Afterall, you don't want to miss out on all the exciting possibilities for this new year, do you?

  Wishing everyone from Dom/me's to Masters/Mistresses to subs/slaves and everyone in between, a very safe, merry and kinky Christmas!!  Enjoy the time with family and friends and one another.  It's so precious!  For those of you who are traveling, be extra careful out there!

  Also extending wishes for an equally safe and very happy New Year!!  Thank you to those of you that I've befriended this year and who have enriched my life so much!!! I look forward to learning more and making more new friends in the year ahead. 

MERRY CHRISTMAS, EVERYBODY!!!!!

  To those Dom/me's who own subs/slaves:  I respectfully request that you not ask me to participate in embarrassing, degrading, or otherwise causing said sub/slave(s) to have his/her feelings hurt.  

  If that is the kind of relationship dynamic you have with your sub/slave on a consentual basis, that's fine but I have no desire to participate.  I believe you will find a slave who is more willing to serve you to the best of their ability and with loyalty and a true desire to please, if you give them the opportunity to be the best they can be in a positive way, rather than because you have shamed or degraded them into it.  That's just my personal opinion.

Part of me wants to let my inner child out to play in the snow, but the other part is yelling at me, "Are you nuts?"  lol. 

  Our thoughts and prayers are with those poor victims of this morning's shootings at an elementary school in Connecticut, and their families.  18 kids, just gone...  So sad!!

  Glad the Seahawk's won tonight, but you've got to feel bad for the Cardinal's.  58-0, Seahawks.  I suppose you could say the Cardinal's got their wings clipped and then some.

  Well, we are getting our first snowfall of the season!   YAY!!!

Have a safe and Happy Thanksgiving everyone!!!

Wow, this guy whom I have never talked to before, wants to leave an insulting message and then block me because he is too cowardly to wait for a response from me.  Real brave of you.  Thankfully, the only opinion that matters is that of my Master.

  Thanks for giving me my first laugh of the day!

  The Packers got ripped off in last night's game against Seattle.  I don't watch much football, but even I could tell that the officials were way off on their call.  One ref. calls interception and another calls touchdown, at the same time.  Hmmmm.....   And it was clear on the replay, that the Packers were in posession of the ball and not Seattle.

  I don't blame the Packers for being mad, I would be too and if I were their head coach, I'd file a formal complaint against the refs. and ask for a reversal of the call.

  I'm on a roll today...lol.  I may not be the prettiest slave and I may not be the sexiest slave, but I am a slave who honors her Master, loves and protects Him and serves Him, with all her heart and soul.  I am not a slave to get my way, and pout when I don't.  I am simply a slave to please my Master.

   I never had to be "tamed" or tried to be a "handful."  I just let my inner slave come to the fore.  She is me, and I am her.  She is a part of my soul, my heart, my psyche and always will be.

  I haven't written in my journal for quite some time, but just want to say that I do cherish the friends I've made here, and always welcome new friends.   

WHAT IS A MASTER?

A Master is many things combined perfectly. He is powerful,wise,and confident. He has great self discipline and self control. He readily admits it when he is wrong, he is a teacher as well as a student. He can make the correct choices for all concerned.

He is firm and always keeps his word as he is a man of great honor and integrity. He is kind, loving, fair, sadistic and romantic. He is a great listener and can take into account the needs and concerns of those who trust in his leadership.

  From the mind and heart of this girl.....Inspireme65

             WHAT IS A SUBMISSIVE/SLAVE?         

A slave/sub is strong,warm, kind,nurturing and always polite, She is a direct reflection of her Master.She is capable of sharing her needs and desires with soft passion. She obeys, she is a teacher and a student. She loves with all she has and all she is. A slave/sub should bend to fit her Master, and achieves happiness only by soothing the ache in her belly to serve and please the one who owns her. She is strong enough to accept her Masters wishes even when she doesn't agree or understand them. A SLAVE/SUB'S LOVE IS ETERNAL AND POWERFUL!

        From the mind and heart of the sub.  Copied with permission of Inspireme65

A Slave's Plea...

  Think of me, Master...

know that I live...

hear my heart beating...

listen for my soul's voice...

  Hear me, Master...

my voice, my heart, my soul...

listen for needs spoken and silent...

that are sometimes so hard to express...

  Share with me, Master...

your happiness, your excitement, your goals...

allow me to bask in your delight...

permit me to see your tranquility...

  Confide in me, Master...

your pain, your fears, your disappointments...

allow me to lend you my support...

permit me to try and relieve your burdens...

  Teach me, Master...

your desires, your needs, your dreams...

let me make them real for you...

as you have so often done for me...

  Respect me, Master...

treat me as a cherished toy...

make me your favored pet...

show me how much you value my gift...

  Feel me, Master...

standing near like a wraith...

tangible to your senses...

beside you as you go through your day...

  Hold me, Master...

in arms that are my safety and shield...

wrap me tight in your embrace...

protect me from the world, and myself...

  Caress me, Master...

with a touch only you can give...

cause my flesh to crave your attention...

make me beg to yield...

  Play with me, Master...

take me down from my shelf and dust me off...

handle me, fondle me, tease me...

permit me to see the joy I can bring...

  Desire me, Master...

touch me with passion...

engulf me with your fire...

surround me with your intensity...

  Use me, Master...

encourage my skills...

accept the pleasures I can provide...

offer me an outlet for my talents...

  Grow with me, Master...

let us learn side by side...

explore the wonders together...

and create new ones as we go...

  Dream with me, Master...

fantasize, envision, and seek...

let us go as far as our minds will allow...

our imaginations our only limit...

  Release me, Master...

set me free to be who I am...

give me the freedom to soar...

grant me the ability to be true...

O TigerMuse 1999

Copied with permission of Rainwilds

  Some may tell you that dreams don't come true.  Always leave your mind and your heart open to the possibilities though.  For when they do come true, it is a feeling like no other.  Such is the case for me.  My Master is coming home now in just over a week's time and we will finally be together! 

  I live to serve Him completely.  With unswerving love, devotion, loyalty, respect and honor...

  Warning to all Doms/Masters, subs and slaves alike.  I include everyone because apparently this particular scammer doesn't differentiate between who he/she/it sends messages to.  They sent the same message to myself and my Master.

  I am always happy to make new female friends in the lifestyle and to talk to and share ideas with them.  Not looking for anything other than friendship.  If you are new to this and feel you are in need of someone to ask questions of, or if you have concerns or just would enjoy talking about anything, please feel free to contact me anytime.

  All female slaves owned and unowned alike, please beware of a so called Master by the name of "Pantyclause."  He tried to get me to contact him to be his slave, and when I pointed out that I was already owned, he became rude and belligerent and then blocked me. *eye roll.*

  I've been doing some reflecting on what it is to be a slave.  I do know it's something different to each and every slave out there.  It's as different and unique to each slave, as being a Dom or Master is to each of them.  No one way is right.  It boils down to what works within each relationship between a given Master/slave.  There are slaves who seem to want a very rigid, very managed existence.  To have everything they think, say or do controlled by their Master.  To simply become an automaton for the pleasure of their Master's.  Those who want pain/humiliation and degradation as much as anything else.

  There are slaves who serve their Master's out of fear of punishment, yet seemingly care little for their own well being. Or perhaps because they crave said punishment and will push the envelope with their Master's in order to achieve that punishment.  There are slaves who serve because they are happiest being subservient to their Master's and want to give of themselves, regardless of punishment or reward.

  Then there are slaves who have entered into relationships with their Master's which are loving, caring and enriching.  And then there are those who have relationships with their Master's which carry a little of each kind of dynamic within them.  There are just so many and as I said, no one is absolutely right. 

  I just hope that all of my sister slaves are as happy in their dynamic as I am in mine. I do not look down on how any slave serves as long as they are safe, happy and in a consenting situation.  Speaking strictly to my own situation, I could not be happier nor more fulfilled as a slave as I already am to my Master, Smartasawhip.  Having come to know Him and love Him, has been nothing short of a a miracle in my life and something I would not trade for all the priceless treasures in the world.  He knows that I put His happiness, well being, needs, wants and desires first and foremost ahead of mine.  He knows indeed that I will always do so and would indeed give my very life for Him, though He would never ask it of me.  He knows that I serve because of my love for Him, and my devotion and absolute loyalty.  I will always care for Him, take care of Him and give of myself to Him, to the best of my abilities.

  I am so gladly His slave, His property and His wife-to-be...

   It will not be long now, before my beloved Master will be coming home to me.  He is my Master, my Owner, and my Husband-to-be.  To say that I am proud and elated to be His slave, His property and His future wife, is an understatement.

   I love you so much, Master...

"Love is when you look in someone's eyes and see all you need."

Author unknown...

 If you are a "male slave", please do not contact me.  Thank you...

  I am proudly serving my Master, Smartasawhip.  I cannot thank Him enough for all that He has enabled me to be, to do, to see and to strive for.  His strength and His love and His wisdom, have given me wings...

is there any FEMALE, who can give my slave any kind of hints how to cum on command, without any stimulation?

thank you

not very long and Master is coming home to his slave; Master loves his slave very, very much..., Master loves that his slave is not a barbie, barbies look like they don't get enough to eat or being sick; he loves slaves big tits and her ass... and everything in between...

  There is nothing at all wrong with being a larger, more curvaceous woman.  It's just nature's way of saying "Omg, you're so darn good, I made more of you!"

Ok, who's the wiseguy or gal who ordered more snow? :P

It's official, ladies and gentlemen!  I'm snowed in.  Sigh.....

Wow, it's almost the fourth of January already.  Where is this year going so fast?  LOL!

Wishing each and every one of you a very Happy New Year!  May your journey be one of wonder, joy, peace and safety.  And please, if you go out to celebrate remember to drink in moderation. I do hope to see ya'll this coming year too!  Happy 2012 everybody!!!!

  Wishing all of you a very Merry Christmas and the happiest, healthiest of New Year's!  Be safe and have fun, be it with your friends or loved ones and be good to each other!

by slave ellegy;

Ownership is shown by a physical symbol, a collar. It is placed around a slave's neck as a way of showing she is owned. it is an outward symbol to the world. With a slave that symbol is worn around her heart. The true collar is felt in her soul, when she meets that "One" her slave instincts take over, they control her, they change her. They "know". He is felt with every fiber of her being. Distance does not matter, time does not matter. she belongs to Him, she will serve Him till her last breath is taken. With a true Master slave relationship she has bonded herself to Him and will do His bidding be it right or be it wrong. Once a slave has surrendered there will alway be a part of her that will belong to Him for life. She can fight it, she can run, she can hide, but her true calling will always re surface. It will always be felt. The physical symbol "the collar" can be physically removed. However, the inward symbol felt by her heart and soul will always be felt. A slaves path is not an easy path, but it is a rewarding path. Be careful what you wish for, cuz you just might get it.................

 I can't seem to get warm tonight, darn it!

INDEED: When you’re a plus size woman, people like to say "yeah, she's cute in the face", as if being full figured is such a disgrace. Honey, I’m cute in the face, and I’m thick in the waist. I look good whether I’m in cotton, leather, or lace. I’m beautiful, vibrant and above all, smart! And there's more to me than my weight,... I also have a heart. Yes my clothes may be a bigger size, that just means you have access to a bigger prize. We all are not self-conscious about our weight, and we never have a problem getting a date. So don’t think your small frame gives you more pull, I’m a hot, sexy, curvy woman with a figure that's full. :)

Found on another website by an unknown second party.

My Master is without equal. He shines above all others and is my shelter from the storm. In my service to Him, I am free... I love my Master...

  Wishing you all a safe and very Happy Thanksgiving!!!

My beloved Master found this and I wanted to share it with others:

A slave's plea

Think of me, Master...
know that I live...
hear my heart beating...
listen for my soul's voice...

Hear me, Master....
my voice, my heart, my soul...
listen for needs spoken and silent...
that are sometimes so hard to express...

Share with me, Master...
Your happiness, Your excitement, Your goals...
allow me to bask in Your delight...
permit me to see Your tranquility...

Confide in me, Master...
Your pain, Your fears, Your disappointments...
allow me to lend You my support...
permit me to try and relieve Your burdens...

Teach me, Master...
Your desires, Your needs, Your dreams...
let me make them real for You...
as You have so often done for me...

Respect me, Master...
treat me as a cherished toy...
make me Your favored pet...
show me how much You value my gift...

Feel me, Master...
standing near like a wraith...
tangible to Your senses....
beside You as You go through Your day...

Hold me, Master...
in arms that are my safety and shield...
wrap me tight in Your embrace...
protect me from the world, and myself...

Caress me, Master...
with a touch only You can give...
cause my flesh to crave Your attention...
make me beg to yeild...

Play with me, Master...
take me down from my shelf and dust me off...
handle me, fondle me, tease me...
permit me to see the joy I can bring...

Desire me, Master...
touch me with passion...
engulf me with Your fire...
surround me with Your intensity...

Use me, Master...
encourage my skills...
accept the pleasures I can provide...
offer me an outlet for my talents...

Grow with me, Master...
let us learn side by side...
explore the wonders together...
and create new ones as we go...

Release me, Master...
set me free to be who I am...
give me the freedom to soar...

Today's observation:

  I've noticed that when I see some of the femdom profiles, that there are those asking for "tributes."  The purpose of this escapes me.  I have yet to find a Dom or Master who demands "tributes."  Maybe it's just me, but someone who demands such from a sub or slave, is just too sorry to get their butts out and get a real job, so they want to leech off someone who does.  I'm just so fortunate to have a Master who has a strong work ethic and who works very hard.  And I am just as willing to work equally hard, myself.

  I will give my all in service to my Master, and still get out and work as hard as I can otherwise.

slavery is not about suffering . . .
. . . slavery is about service.

slavery is not about humiliation . . .
. . . slavery is about humility.

slavery is not about pain . . .
. . . slavery is about being present.

slavery is not about being used . . .
. . . slavery is about being of use.

slavery is not about control . . .
. . . slavery is about letting go.

slavery is not about what is done to you . . .
. . . slavery is about what you do for others.

slavery is not about abuse . . .
. . . slavery is about acceptance.

slavery is not about proving anything . . .
. . . slavery is about being real.

slavery is not about contempt . . .
. . . slavery is about respect.

slavery is not about how you look . . .
. . . slavery is about how much you care.

slavery is not about denying yourself . . .
. . . slavery is about being open.

slavery is not about bondage . . .
. . . slavery is about freeing your spirit.

slavery is not about punishment . . .
. . . slavery is about discipline.

slavery is not about being unable to escape . . .
. . . slavery is about being committed.

slavery is not about submission . . .
. . . slavery is about obedience.

slavery is not about fear . . .
. . . slavery is about trust.

slavery is not about sex . . .
. . . slavery is about love.

slavery is not about pleasure . . .
. . . slavery is about happiness.

David Stein

  You know, I have to wonder if after reading some of the other slave profiles on here, just how many there are who simply see it as a game and how many are serious.  No wonder some of the Doms are left scratching their heads.

  Some of the ones I've read have the slave saying " I want this and need that, and this is what I have to have."  Etc.  How can an honest, genuine slave make demands before even having ever gotten to know a Master and worked specific things out with him?  In my own personal opinion a slave has nothing, owns nothing and is nothing but what her Master allows her to be or have or do.

  Those that go into this with preconceived notions and expectations, are only fooling themselves.  Be honest, be sincere and true in your desire to serve your Master and you will find yourself rewarded in ways that may surprise you.  That instead of being punished for willful disobedience, because you could not overcome your expectations......

  This is my first journal entry, and I wanted to try and put down what being a slave meant to me.  Most people have a view of slavery as being a very negative way of life.  But there seem to be so many differing views of it, really.  From the days of the Romans who took slaves during the conquering of different lands, to the dark times of U.S. history during the 1800's, when African Americans were enslaved in certain states.  It can also be said, that a person can be enslaved to a job, to a spouse, to a drug or alcohol, etc.

  Then there is slavery in the context of BDSM.  I came to identify as a slave several months ago, after a great deal of thought and inner reflection as well as having had the privilege of conversing with other slaves and submissives.  This is simply and quite happily who I am, and who I was meant to be.  As you can tell by the profile, I am owned.  Owned by my first and last Master.  I know some slaves go through multiple Masters during their lives and then there are those who don't.  But the dynamics of each relationship is very different and each slave  may find they either thrive or wilt under certain dynamics.

  Personally speaking, with the Master I have been lucky enough to have take ownership of me, I've never felt so free.  Free in my servitude to Him, free in my drive and desire to please Him in all things. Free in my thoughts and feelings for Him.  The point I am making and I'm sure there are some other slaves, who feel the same toward their Master's is that because I have the right Master for me, my slavery is one of the most freeing experiences I've ever had in my life.  I embrace it and revel in it....all, thanks to my Master!