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Dominant Couple, 27
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Male Dominant, 21, Southampton
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Male Submissive, 23
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About SmartAndSweet234
I changed my listed orientation from sub to switch because, after careful consideration and various experiences, I realized that I would not be able to tolerate being submissive 24/7 in the long run. My job in the health care field requires a good deal of submission to the clients' wishes, so I wouldn't want to ALWAYS be submissive in my free time as well. I suppose I'm passive/submissive naturally, but I now realize that I do have a strong Dominant streak. It's what society expects of a male, and I'm not one to continually fight social norms. Sometimes I do, but I see it more as a duty than an interest. I think at the base, my sexual trigger is primarily a female expressing a deep interest/pleasure/ecstasy from having sex. I'm very skeptical so it takes a lot for me to believe that a Woman is completely and thoroughly enjoying having sex, which is probably a deep root of my kinks.
Overall, i have an absurdist view of life, but voicing that attitude is often misinterpreted as a lack of respect, so i've learned to keep my mouth shut. I'm not a physical masochist, and smartasses often get punished heavily, so i've developed into a quiet person. This has been a subconscious process on the whole. Because i don't translate my thoughts into words very often, it takes me much longer than average to do so. If i had to pick a spirit animal, it would be the tortoise. My vanilla interests include music, movies, tabletop games, video games, exercise, and liberal politics.
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To Any Potential Domme:
Hard Limits: My limits are anything that has a relatively high likelihood of getting me physically ill (scat, direct or indirect anal-to-oral contact), any illegal activities (involving underage individuals or animals, etc.), and anything that may cause me to lose my job or fail school (such as keeping me restrained when I need to get to work or class). I would guess that these are fairly common limits, even for those with lots of experience. Hopes/Expectations: I am not masochistic, so I would hope that You would refrain from inflicting pain on me as much as possible (particularly if the punishment or restraint involves bodily marks that would raise suspicion in coworkers or family members). Of course, I would do all I can to please You and thereby avoid such punishment. |
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