The below is a journal entry from DominaCeleste from collarme, posted on 9/27/2008. with Her permission i have added it to my journal, if for no other reason, that more people are privileged to such insight from a Woman that has truly embraced Her dominant nature, and is able to vividly articulate on it.
It sure has been a busy week and a half! I’ve had chastity on My mind lately. This is going to be a lengthy entry so settle back and enjoy!
I feel slaves should be kept in chastity at all times. Their orgasms, as well as everything else they used to own and have control over, are mine. They belong to Me. It’s that simple, and that complicated.
The male creature was not made to go without cumming; although, I know of no health hazards aside from the urban legends and bull shit spread by HLF about blue balls and all that nonsense. Male slaves who are kept in chastity will have nocturnal emissions if there is too much build up of sperm. This can be quite humiliating as it throws them right back to their pubescent years of wet dreams and can make them feel quite childish. I look at this as a bonus. They are humiliated just by the act, and further more have to explain the soiled bedding to their Owners (which can create all kinds of torturously degrading scenarios for the wicked and cruel minded Domina).
A slave kept in chastity is allowed to be free of the worries of his sexual desires and can focus on serving his Owners. By taking away the problem of sexual release a Dom/me is creating a much better behaved, more compliant slave. Everyone wants to know how often a slave should be allowed to cum. In My household there are 2 ways of “allowing” release. I say “allowing” because there isn’t anything you can do about nocturnal emissions, other than use them to debase your slave.
The first and preferable manner of release is milking. For those unfamiliar with this process I suggest you Google it. My manner of milking is not part of having an orgasm. If the slave achieves an erection while being milked it will be forcibly removed and returned to a flaccid little blob of flesh. Milking can take up to 45 to 60 minutes. Once all build up sperm is finished slowly oozing from him, the slave will always be required to sensually turn and lick up the puddle of goo he has created.
The second method is jerking off… this is the one the slave is much more likely to do whatever he can in order to be permitted to perform in this manner. Since I own each orgasm he is allowed I also determine the manner in which he is permitted to jerk off. Of course I will force him to do this in the most humiliating and/or painful manner possible. Also, this is the perfect set up for a mind fuck.
So those are the two manners in which I allow them to have release, the question remains of, “How often?” A very good question, indeed! And the answer depends not only on the Owners, but on the slave as well. For slaves who have never been in chastity I start their training with 2 weeks being locked up, followed by forcing them to cum until they no longer are able. Usually at the end of this “hell day” they are more than happy to lock it away again! For experienced slaves I put them on an initial rotation of once every 8 weeks. And follow their progress closely.
Of course there are special times when I allow a small bit of lee way in their chastity training… birthdays, anniversaries or in times of exceptional servitude.