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About slytxdevil
Who am I, you may ask? Well that is simple, I am a person that up until a few years ago would never have thought they would be in this lifestyle. For years I have played in the vanilla world and thought I was just being really kinky at times. I have even professed to several people that this just wasn't my thing several times in my life, But leave it up to another to start me on the path to self-enlightenment. She was my first and so far only submissive and collared slave. I am sure that in the annals of things, we jumped way further and harder then we should have but I would like to think that it worked out well.
Based on my personality type, and being I am a former Marine, she felt that I would make a good Dom. And so I began to study, hours on end reading books, manuals, stories and talking with all kinds of people in the lifestyle. I am still very much in the learning stage myself, but one thing about me is my ability to learn and the fact that I don't like not knowing how to do something. I am more then willing to explore things and since I haven't learned the bad habits of others, I would think that I can cater the experience to what the submissive would want to have happen. Don't get me wrong, I am a very strong person and I have no problem exacting discipline when it needs to be, but I also enjoy the mental aspect of things.
What am I looking for? First and foremost, someone who I can converse with. I am not the kind of Dom who wants a mindless person that I can humiliate and beat when I need some release. Intelligence and a appreciation for a dark and sarcastic sense of humor is a must for anyone that I would consider to play with. Other then that, I am completely open. Looks while important are not the thing that drives me to play with or talk to people. I am nowhere near that superficial. If you are looking for someone in the Austin that you might be interested in talking to, then by all means send me an email. We'll talk more and see where it goes.
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So the married thing, not so much anymore. Currently going through the big D, I still have children that I love very much, but I am wondering if this will be an opening into a bigger slice of this lifestyle as my soon to be ex-wife was not interested in this lifestyle at all. Guess it will depend on the people here, since so many people express that they want people who aren't crass, but are intelligent, able to converse rationally and have a pretty decent vocabulary, yet that doesn't seem to be the case when a real person attempts conversation with them.
So we shall see where this goes, I'll keep attempting to speak to people and well if someone decides to respond, we'll take it from there.
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Well this site is pretty frustrating. As most people on this site have shown, honesty is not really what they want. I am and have been very honest and straight forward with how I am.
Unlike many of the 'game players' I have heard and read about, I laid out my situation being married and having children. I am not going to walk away from that simply so some 'submissive' can get what she thinks she wants.
However due to my honesty this has led to probably one of the worst responses on this website. Very few people answer the emails that I send out and the ones that do shrink in horror because I am married and I contacted them. And trust me, I do not send out your standard 'wanna fuck' or 'I am a dom get on your knees and worship me bitch' emails.
I am a very insightful and intelligent person and I am fully aware of getting to know someone on a personal level before anything can progress with any meaning.
I know I am not the most handsome man in the world, but I am certainly no dog either. So what is it? I mean can some of these 'subs' be honest with me and tell me what about my profile invokes not even the most common of courtesies? Since everyone is wanting honesty and all.
So why this rant? I don't know, just a venting that maybe I should create a new online personae and become the lying, manipulative doms that are apparently on this site and meeting people. |
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