Hello Who am I? I am an intelligent and naturally dominant man with much experience in the "lifestyle" (or better; a way of life). I am only interested in Long Term Relationships, no scenes or other one night stands. Dominance (and submission) is who you are, not who you play act to be....I have traveled all over the world, been a Computer Technician, Photographer, Scuba Diver, Warrior, even caring Dominant, yet stern one with the capability to possess your mind. Over the years I have held a number of Submissives, some for a number of years, some living 24/7. It is amazing how you get used to an alternate lifestyle when you live it 24/7. What do I seek now? A submissive that understands what it is to serve, one capable of eventually devoting herself to serving me, living her wildest dreams and desires in return.

Many years ago, a person asked me to write about who I am. I really couldn't do it in good faith. I can tell you of being 45, single male on the south east coast of the USA, gliding down to earth in a parachute, laying in bed with a bound woman listening to the rain palpate the windows. I have a job, so I can support myself ...I’ve been in the lifestyle for over 20 years. I know I am a man who is looking to be a friend someone first and foremost, before he tries to dominate her. I know this concept sounds strange to many. But it is me. The lifestyle is very real to me having learned first hand from an INTELLIGENT sensual woman, who was a submissive with the trapping of stating it. I know who & what I am and am very secure with my being.

I enjoy the idea of controlling & training a woman, using her physically & sexually, not as one would yesterday’s newspaper, but as a precious & beautiful gift to be appreciated & savored through time.

What I wish is a real woman, not cardboard cut outs & promise a deep supportive friendship that may grow into other ways. Being in one's soul starts with knows one's mind. and if there is a chance someone wants to be a sub/slave--that person will take a chance and reveal themselves.

I am seeking a woman with like minds to chat with me. Explain themselves, their goals, their wishes, their fantasies and maybe we can explore them together..It is an amazing power two share when their goals and they are the same or similar.

I would enjoy a woman who wishes to chat - please message me SLSCSI on Yahoo Messenger and let’s talk.