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About SlipsIn2theNite
This is an interesting place-there are good and bad here, as everywhere I suppose.
I can not stop searching for Him because of a few bad apples. There are men and woman alike who wanted to be something more than what they are and they decided somewhere along the line to compromise their pride and integrity to try and achieve those goals that were unreachable to them.
There are no known cures for compulsive liars they go to their graves scum infested.
Don't let anyone deter you from your hearts desire. Your happiness will be your best revenge.
So....
I'm forty-something, unattached, not bad to look at, a single parent, employed, passionate, submissive and searching for my Dom/Alpha type male who is sane, safe and local. I'm have no interest in a long-distance relationship.
I've no patience for online games, or real life game players. I have no tolerance for liars, married men looking for side kicks, men with a need to multi-task their "talents" with others, or men who can't otherwise prove to be available for a serious relationship. I'm not interested in gang bangs, swapping, threesomes or anything else except You and me -one on one.
If you enjoy humiliating women, engaging animals into your sex life , visiting "teen" porn sites, severe pain or pissing on woman, and if your parents are paying your child support, and/or you are not self-supporting because you have never amounted to anything---we are so not right for each other.
Every women is free to abandon whatever holds her back. We should not wipe the subject of happiness off the table as something too indulgent or not important. A woman's primal loving instincts and attitude towards the world, family and a man of worth can give her more power and strength than any board meeting. When we repress our primitive sides and instinctual nature we throw our own happiness to the wind.
I will find you alluring as a regular real man before anything else. Be honest and true in all you say and do. The truth always comes out. If you're really a Dom this should come natural to you.
Everything in a relationship, and especially in a D/s relationship is so much deeper and powerful when there is complete trust and sincerity on both sides.
I know a man can not be dominant without integrity. Not that integrity is only a masculine characteristic because a woman also needs integrity to be truly feminine.
There are way too many men who present as being dominant, while inside they are really quite insecure. There is an endless supply of men and women who use BDSM and their claim to dominance or submission as a leverage to have their sexual quirks and wants satisfied, they have no way of getting what they want without falsehoods.
By the way, if you tell stories or lies to get someone to submit to you- they're really not submitting to you.
Also if you take xrated pics without a model consent -its illegal! It's also illegal to post such pictures.
I'm looking for someone who enjoys his own power and dominant nature that is without negative consequences to others. A touch of chivalry will be in his favor. I'm not looking to be placed on a pedestal-as I can surely guarantee my fall from grace. :)~
He will have a solid understanding of me, both as a human being very much like him, and also as feminine being who is profoundly unlike him. He will respect me, especially my deep desire to surrender to his dominant self, just as he respects himself for his masculine dominance over me... this is where the true magic unfolds between us.
His dominance will be justified on the grounds that: (1) his sheer masculine strength gives him the power to conquer, guide and coerce me, in a way that I certainly would not be able to do to him (2) both of us will find that fact deeply erotic, romantic and thrilling.
Outside of the D/S aspects he will be a straight male, gainfully employed, fun to be with, able to find humor in life and also in my witty and sometimes sarcastic self.
He will be caring, warm hearted, smart and ready & able to lead us into a journey that will consist of an equal balance of real everyday life and our own intense private D/s life. He will have a sense of family and be able to respect and understand my obligations as a parent.
I enjoy Dominant men who are always ready to give good advice and suggestions, and, who can make sound decisions in their own lives.
I like men who look at and evaluate the whole picture. If you are narrow minded, unable or unwilling to at least consider my circumstances, thoughts and opinion -we will clash. I have always enjoyed a man with a plan.
If a man realizes that he doesn't have to be perfect in order to take the dominant lead in a relationship, and that he doesn't have to be right all the time; then he can act out of the inner strength of integrity, and will not have to pretend to be something that he's not, just to appear dominant.
There's no need for you to write and tell me that I don't seem very submissive to you- I'm only interested in what I want and need in a man, not what you think I should want/need.
I'm a submissive in my own right, looking for the man that matches me in various areas of life which will enable me to surrender and be lead by him unconditionally.
He will be the best thing that ever happened to me
What are you searching for?
Only those with serious inquiries or interest need to comment or respond. To thy own self be true and remember, good things come to those that wait. You get what you settle for.
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There is not a soul around who has any integrity ...is there? No truth seekers -just people who want to run from reality. No brave souls, just cowards. |
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