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I'll be upfront: a lot of this is stuff I've fantasized about but never tried.  I need someone who is comfortable with that fact and is willing to help me find out more.  I also need someone who may be comfortable with me saying no at the moment we discover where my boundaries are.

I'm a near complete noob to all this scene.  I'm looking for someone willing to help me learn or to learn along with me.

Best way to to describe me: dom with the occasional need to vacation ever now and then as a sub.  I love being on the receiving end of a woman who can dish it out with authority. 

Oddly, I'm a much gentler dom than I am sub.  As a dom, I prefer control over force.  I'm not here to break you, I'm here make you do better.  When I'm done, you'll do it right and you'll have my affection for it.

I am bi, but generally lean straight.  I'm comfortable with all play involving a man.  Would love a couple where the man wants to get involved with both her and me and would be comfortable with her and me doing the same.

So, that's me.  Tell me what I don't know.  I'm sure it's a lot.