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About SirValentino
"and through My pain and wrath you shall know yourself to be beloved unto Me"
~Valentino D. Harrison
My name is Valentino. Im a lifestyle Dominant and head of my Household. I'm also a founding memer of Sanctum, an online and realtime group dedicated to making BDSM a safe exploratory environment for submisives and Lifestyle Dominants through Accountability, Respect and Integrity. My Family is the most important thing in the world to me and I would happily lay down my life for any of them. My Home is open to anyone I can help be it with knowledge, sanctuary or just play. I used to host and write the segments for Talk of Heathens on tsrnetwork.com along with ...... Darling Nikki. Sundays 8pm pst. We reviewed toys, educated kinksters, do on air scenes, ranted, raved and generally tried to put the "life" into the lifestyle, now its kinda like the BDSM VIew. Hate mail is happily accepted. My true love is single tails and Im more than adept at their use in most shapes and sizes. I am a whip braider as well and the owner of Blackcat Whips....so go look at my crap on blackcatwhips.com
Outside of BDSM, I enjoy reading science fiction novels such as Heinlein, Pohl, and Orson Scott Card. I enjoy anything written by Poppy Z Brite and love older industrial music such as Skinny Puppy, NIN, and KMFDM. I also enjoy playing PC games way to much. Also I have a passion for smoking hookahs and own several. Currently I'm actively looking for photgraphic subjects that arent conventional. Plus size, Transgender, African American, etc. Or anyone who'll let me dress them up and take pictures of them. Email me if interested.
I own Black Cat Whips the makes of the most technologically advanced and accurate single tails in the world. I believe every man should know
- how to speak another language
- how to politely end a conversation
- how to use jumper cables,
- how to ride a motorcycle,
- how to set digital clocks,
- where to find the g spot,
- how to tie both types of tie,
- how to semi accurately guess a womans dress size,
- how to interact with kids,
- how to apprciate at least one artis from on genre of music older than himself,
- know what the nasdaq and dow are,
A few interesting facts about me:
*I've never had an erotic expereince in BDSM
*Ive never had a one night stand
*I love my Mother more than anyone..I also consider her the most annoying creature since the mosquito
*I'm completely out to my family and my mother actually enjoys it when I bring my submissives over for visits(they do the housework)
*I was a child actor and appeared in the movie Boyz in the Hood and on the TV show Martin
*I've been in 4 fist fights with homeless people througout my life.
*Im very very curious about cracking a 5 foot signal whip
*I hate to drink water
*I sound like a cross between Kelsey Grammar and Samuel L. jackson
*I own a lungfish
*I've been in love with a woman I've never met since I was 8 years old
*Im Jamaican
*I'll eat pretty much anything once
*I believe in soulmates just not sure I have one or havn't met her already
*I dont have any children
*I name all of my submissives (I only have the one currently) after animals
*I talk more than a gay man on the phone
*All my submissives have to both know how to use AND make a whip
*I'm really only interested in visiting third world countries
*I love to compliment women but get really embarassed when they aknowledge it.
*I believe a collar is like a wedding ring
*I believe asian food is superior to all others
*I believe mexicans are the master race (you'll just have to ask)
*I spend trully stupid amounts of time cracking whips, playing video games and reading
*My favorite food is meat
*I've only lost fisfights to people smaller than me
*witches (pagans, wiccans) claim that I have an "interesting energy"
*I only have two fetishes (one is women askng me questions)
*I once used opperant conditioning on a submissive to reinforce positive behavior (good girl have a skittle)
*I'm not afraid to cry in front of anyone
*I belive that having one submissive in service is unfair
*I once drank a whole bottle of wine on the air while hosting my show
*Everyone I play with says the most painful thing I hit them with is my hands
*I love to cook
*I'm left handed
*I want to retire on hobby farm
*I believe that BDSM is bigger than myself or any one person
*I coined the term "sprinkle" to refer to someone who's not quite vanilla anymore
*I require submissives to wear pastels while theyre in Consideration
*I LOVE dogs but hate puppies
*an ex girlfriend once hit me with a truck
*I've pretty much eaten very part of a cow
*I'm terrified of being abducted by aliens
*I beat bottoms like Im waiting for candy to fall out of them BUT I'm no part of a sadist
*I own a lungfish a pacman frog and a huge treefrog
*Ive NEVER asked for a submissive to serve me (improper)
*Ive been stabbed by not one but two ex girlfriends
*I have a black belt in public emabarassment
*I once fed a room full of people a cow's heart and toungue without them realizing it
*Youre still reading this shit.....ok
*I want to own a tortoise so big I can ride it.
*I believe all real men are momma's boys
*I believe that Entropy, Mistress Cyan and Sir Nik are the greatest Tops west of the Mississippi (the order is unimportant)
*I keep octopus as a hobbie
*I'm a huge Conan fan
*Ive been pepper sprayed by a pregnant woman
*I stood up Darling Nikki217 for our second date becuase I was in jail
*Im a lifelong UFC fan
*I smoke cloves
*Ive been bitten or attacked by several animals including. lamas,otters,snakes, ostriches, cows, horses, lizards, geese and a sea lion etc
*I have a fondness for suits and semi-formal dress
*I refer to my submissives collectively as the balloon animals
*I'll do most things in exchange for a good massage
*I love rum
*I was an amatuer fighter and was knocked out so thouroughly in my first bout that the last thing I remember was pulling out of my driveway. I started snoring from what I was told.
*there are brains kidneys liver and tongue in my fridge right now
*in college I got in legal trouble for selling copyrighted porn
*I once poached a pheasant (as in stole it from a private hunting grounds)
*I once had a submissive who confessed that she mostly thought and dreamt in cartoons
*I belive Batman is the greatest of all superheroes
*I've only ever had vanilla sex
*My favorite comfort food is rice with any sort of meat "squeezins'" on it
*I think standup comedians are the only real philosophers worth litening to
*I think the Bordello of Decadence is the Cheers of dungeons
*I know how to manufature testosterone from vetinary grade supplements
*I want to eat more carnivorous animals (only eaten aligator)
*as an adult I once went 3 days without wearing pants
*Ive always wanted to stop a crime or do some equally heroic deed with nothing more than a single tail (Rubber Nun did it!!!!)
*I've never seen a vagina that I didnt think was pretty
*I love soft egg yolks
*I believe long beach is the greatest place to live in the world
*I will play with/ or for that matter put anyone under consideration who asks
*I'm probably drunk right now
*My favorite comedian is Louis C.K.
*My favorite single tail maker is Axel
*I wonder what happened to all the satin panties in the world (seriously where'd they go)
*I like my women either slightly trashy or exotic but always conversationalists
*...and continuing
*I started my company becuase a shitty ex girlfriend left me for another guy....who later turned himself in something resembling a woman
*Ive always wanted a female stalker (but she cant be crazy)
*I dont really mind if a submissive can do anything as long as theyre good company
*I drink like a fish but have only been to a bar a few times in my life (wont drive if Ive had a drink within 4 hours)
*I know for a fact that in a male female female threesome......men are furniture
*gay men make the best neighbors
*Im trying really hard to get invited to a latino wedding
*I went to few AA meetings then realized I wasnt an alcoholic (never gotten drunk and done anything crash a car miss work be mean)..thank GOD
*Im pretty sure I will die in comical circumstances
*I'll negotaite or for that matter put anyone under consideration who asks (it may last all of five minutes but I'll do it)
*real men take bubble baths....I hate showers anyway (cant read in the shower)
*I like nails on women dont care if theyre real or not (same as boobies)
*I really want to check out the scene in Washington, New York, and DC
*My father is the coolest mutha' fucka ever to live
*Most women wish their husbands loved them as much as I love My submissives
*I only wear button up shirts and or t shirts without pockets (never jeans)
*If i was a woman I'd be a lesbian becuase I have NO idea what they see in men
*I'm currently searching for the perfect pair of cowboy boots.
*I want a mynah bird
*I get annoyed when people mis-quote contextually
*I believe the greatest job in the world is; rockstar
*I never give flowers.....but I do give shoes
*Im curretnly seeking another submissive....mostly by doing nothing
*I believe that cultural differences play ahuge factor in the Lifestyle
*I once had to lifted up girl who was on a spanking bench who turned out be heavier than I thought only to look down and see that she had actually wrapped her arms and legs around the bench.
*I believe that most people's life can be enriched with a basset hound |
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