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A RECENT CONVERSATION THAT I HAD THAT CAN ANSWER SOME OF YOUR QUESTIONS THAT YOU MAY HAVE FOR ME....


Sub: Hello... I can tell you are very experienced in being dominant. 

Hello :) Thank you for your reply! Actually love how you have so many questions...many sub females just reply with that they want training...i can tell you are a very intellectual individual and I need that! and yes I do have experience and mostly have spent much time in learning about myself and the Dominant and Submissive mind. 

Sub: I have been very interested in exploring my submissive desires, just not so sure i could even meet some of your expectations. I am happy to hear that you are taking the next step in discovering yourself. We as individuals will never be complete or happy until we understand ourselves and are able to express who we are fully. My interests are specific regarding anal and yes it is a must. I have been drawn to anal since i was a very young child and have always had an ass fetish lol BDSM is a huge part of my life so that is a must as well....and you must know my expectations of you will develop over time once we have explored eachother and I come to understand you. My goal is to fully know you. Your needs, desires, wants, and the things you dont say out loud. I will never feel accomplished if I do not accomplish mastering you physically and mentally. I want to know what you want without you asking...so expectations have yet to come. What i did accomplish by stating my interests is let you know who I am and what i LOVE to do...and hopefully we can compromise on some of those things. I wouldnt be dissapointed if you were unable or had no desire to go to the extremes I have. I would cherish our relationship and be proud of the accomplishments we have conquered together. 

Seems like you def love the anal side of sexual play. Yes I do....I live for it lol and hope you will learn to LOVE it as much ;) 

Sub: Do you start off slow in that area and build that up to bigger toys later? Yes! Exactly! Over time I will stretch your ass open more and more, in a pleasurable manner for you. You will never hurt a great deal if I am successful in my training. Instead you will come to enjoy and crave your ass being stretched open slowly. I start small....lol My tongue is always first...that usually gets you nice n open a lil..then fingers with lots of lube...small butt plugs n toys...then over time we increase the size of the toys to a desired size that is pleasurable to you. I will never shove anything up your ass..you are uncomfortable with... unless you ask me tooo...lol

Wanted to know what does gaping mean? I will teach your ass to Gape....Gaping by definition means "Wide Open" when it comes to Anal Training...Gaping is a technique mastered by the receiver where you learn to open and close your butthole. Strengthening your sphincter to where you can fully control it. that way you always stay nice n tight...yet can be opened up wide....and then go back to a good size where you are healthy. I will fuck your ass over n over and use toys to open you up then have you squeeze thight until you build your ass muscle. My goal would be to have your ass be able to gape open very wide then be able to clench down on me. 

Sub: Im almost afraid to ask.. Are you otherwise a normal sane guy? LOL well whats normal lol. Yes I can honestly say that I feel of sound mind...I am not sadistic...more kinky and freaky. I am not into causing one pain who does not get off on it..maybe an occasional rp rape scene where i do inflict some pain but nothing crazy. I am a christian...I love watching documentaries, spiritual, believe in aliens, not very political...but thats bc i fully understand how it is 100% bullshit. I believe in helping people, I have a strong urge to travel the world....egypt is a goal and most ancient sites...I seek higher knowledge and have a need to feel accomplished. Could never be a quitter. I believe in love...yet am able to help someone in life without having the need to receive anything in return per say..I dont always have to fuck and get off either...i prefer the action of sexual acts and never go in saying...i just need to cum...lol many times you will cum 15 plus times and i once if any. I have been told I am feminine in some ways...i was raised by women...and have 5 sisters. Respect women. A true submissive woman is a woman who chooses to be controlled used and abused by choice....She is actually Dominant in many ways...this is fact bc if she has a master...she convinced him to spend his time and effort on her...so she is getting what she wants at the end of the day..whatever that may be...

Sub: Would u mind sending more pictures of whats expected? Yes see attached...and the pics are of things i like..not whats expected of you...like i mentioned before...your expectations will come after I have explored you.

Sub: Is your goal to pleasure the woman, or is it purely painful control of the woman? Goal is to always pleasure the woman and be pleasured by doing so...and inflict pain if that is what she needs. The more you cum...the happier I am. Your needs are my goal. I get what I want by mastering you. Now i do need to be pleased and worshiped but only bc you want to do that on your own accord. I dont want anything you dont want to give me...so never do something to me you dont enjoy.

Sub: Do u immediately use bondage or do u build the trust first?? Must build trust first...then everything else will fall into place when the time has come. 

If you would like to know my expectations..i will need to get to know you lol sorry its not a simple answer like you prob want...ummm so lemme try...i expect you to be willing to learn, willing to try new things, willing to open up to me, expect you to always tell me what your thinking, what you need, what you enjoy, what you hate, confide in me..even your darkest thoughts and memories...and i expect you to be honest with me and yourself...all these things to the best of your abilities...

Sub: How long is your woman held in bondage? Be more specific...are you asking in regards to a session time length or overall training...overall training...varies depending on needs and what your self goals are...you may stay or go when you wish...unless you sign a contract...I have contracted in many ways but normally goes something like this...3 month, 6 month, year, and 3 year contracts. and in some cases have extended those to individuals who may contact me at any time in their life for friendship guidance or training. I have to offer you the contract...i only contract those whom I wish to. Others I will train in specific areas or introduction to.

Sub: Do u control orgasms, or let that go freely? I like to control orgasms and have been known to task you with the job of cumming as many times as you can...you will do that freely when asked.

Sub: Would u meet woman in public first? Hotel rm first time, maybe? Yes, I always meet in public first! We are two people who should be able to have conversation like normal folks lol. I want to like you before I decide to spend my time on you. lol so if we dont hit it off we can go separate ways. I dont like wasting my time and you prob dont either. lol and Yes Hotel room for first time is ideal. and i love hotels...lol its like a vacation from home lol