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	About Sirtut Update: This is so sad that I need to put this in my profile but I feel it is so important now. If your intentions are not good, pass me by. If you don't know what the hell you want to do in life, pass me by. If you haven't close the chapters of your past life, pass me by. If you live in another state and expect me to do all the traveling, pass me by. If your husband doesn't know you are doing this, pass me by. and finally, if you are looking for Dominant knight to rescue you from your chaotic life, please and I do mean please, block my page from you seeing it! I am a strong Black Dom and I am mainly here for friendship and guidance of new subs and slaves. I have notice that most of the subs/slaves that I have spoken to on here have been mislead and it is the responsibility of understanding Doms to lead you the direct way. I am caring, affectionate, secure with myself, intelligent, successful, strong, attractive and most of all a great listener. I am stern and strict!! I enjoy flogging, caning, mind control, orgasm control, bondage, ass play, etc. You name it, I enjoy it. The only thing I do not enjoy is, kiddies and animals. If I sound interesting to you, then hit me up and let's chat.

This has been one fun and exciting ride, but it is time to get off it and move on. I am preparing to go on a promotional tour to promote my debut cd, "Finally". I am so excited and I am sure if you are a fan of R&B, you will love it too. You can go to http://music.blackplanet.com/toneharris/ also coming soon is my own website www.toneharris.com and there you can purchase my music and merchandise.

My first single is called, "I'm Sorry" that is due to hit the radio in Oct. The album is due to be release Jan 18, 2011. With that said, I will be leaving this site and making room for S/someone else. I wish A/all on this well and a positive journey. For those whom I had the pleasure of talking to, keep your head up. For those who think they know it all, you haven't begin to chip of iceburg yet. Continue to learn and grow in this lifestyle. By this time next week I will delete this profile. That is enough time to say your goodbyes.

Why do women think men are stupid? lmao....

It is so funny to hear women give the sob story about how a man has treated you but when the truth really comes out, you were the one that wasn't being honest. Just because a man doesn't react to what you do, doesn't mean he is blind or stupid. Woman are masters at manipilation and cheating..... Until they are caught...Once they are caught, then the excuses of not being there for them comes into play. C'mon son!!!! getthafuckouttaherewitthatbullshit!!!
you knew he wasn't going to be there all the time from the jump, so why make it an issue now?
Ladies, if you want a good man first try to be a good woman. Don't tell a man you love him when you are trying to find love elsewhere....That same gut feeling you get when a man is doing wrong, he gets it too....No man is a fool. He is just giving you enough rope to hang yourself.

Food for thought...

Does the toys a Dom/Domme has really make them a great Dom/Domme?

No!! but most of you that's all you see....

I think we are loosing what the lifestyle is all about. Commitment, dedication, and integrity are the some of the main character traits you should be looking for. Not how many toys or cool toys One has in the bag. Bdsm is such a mental lifestyle that it is becoming lost in the relationship. Some of you are making it about the physical and coming up very disappointed when you find out it isn't what you thought with that One. If I can't get into your mind for you to enjoy it, how can I get you to enjoy it physically? hmmmm

While I have been recovering from surgery, I have gotten the chance to really just sit back and watch people and how they act. This is something I recently observed..... There are so many women on here that play this "victim" role that it is becoming pathetic. "I want a Dom I can trust", but you can't tell the truth to save your soul. "I am tired of the games players" but half of you don't know the difference between a real man and a "game player". Why? because you are playing games. So before you go asking for things in a person, you need to ask yourself. Am I all those things I ask for? Trust goes both ways.

I would like to take this time to thank those who have contacted me to see how I was doing after my surgery. You showed me that you can be a great friend. For the rest of you, Kiss My Ass!!! When you needed me for advice, I was there as a friend. Now, I am not looking for sympathy, just a simple, "hey, are you doing ok?" would have been nice. It's cool, I have been here before but I just wanted to make it public and let you know, that if I seem distant, it's because you were distant from me when I needed words of inspiration. Special thanks goes out to Azrielspirit. Thank you so much for being a great friend. You have shown me that true friendship is not dead. Thank you so much dear. The rest of you, you know where you can go.

To all of Y/you kinky people. I would like to wish Y/you a....

Happy and Naughty New Years!!!

Make sure to kiss something on the way out...

I really want everyone who have read my journals to pass along this to those who are on CM. It is amazing to see how many of you base the lifestyle on this site. The things you put in your profiles and your journals are so absolutely crazy that it's no wonder most of you are having the problems you are having connecting. The message in your profile does not match the picture image you put in your message.

C'mon, you show your cleavage, breast, ass, and other stuff then say you want someone who doesn't want just sex. If you throw out bird seeds into your yard, you don't think birds will come and eat? If you want someone to look at you as a person and not an object, then project that. Now don't come at me with some bs about that's what men want to see. If you put up crap, you will get crappy doms. Also, don't rely on just one site trying to connect with "the One". Get out of your home and go to bdsm functions, munches, demos, etc.

Some of you have forgotten how to interact with people and have made the internet your place of meeting. Then get upset and begin to say things that are totally not true. For example, "ALL the Doms on CM are fake." Just because you have problem with poor judgement, doesn't mean you should put ALL Doms in that category. There are billions of people on this earth. It will take someone the rest of their life to actually meet 1/3 of the people on this earth. 1o men doesn't count as ALL the Doms. Yes, this site has problems with fake people. I have ran into many of them, but I know that is how life is and I am not going to put everyone in the fake person column. There are ten days left in this year. Take the rest of these days and look at self and change self before go pointing the finger at others. If you are attracting bad people, then maybe you need to change your words and image so you can attracted the ones you want.

Happy Holidays!!!

Now some people are really stupid!!!!
Be sure and cancel your credit cards before you die.

This is so priceless, and so, so easy to see happening, customer service being what it is today.

A lady died this past January, and Citibank billed her for February and March for their annual service charges on her credit card, and added late fees and interest on the monthly charge. The balance had been $0.00 when she died, but now somewhere around $60.00. A family member placed a call to Citibank.

Here is the exchange :

Family Member: 'I am calling to tell you she died back in January.'

Citibank: 'The account was never closed and the late fees and charges still apply.'

Family Member: 'Maybe, you should turn it over to collections.'

Citibank: 'Since it is two months past due, it already has been.'

Family Mem ber: So, what will they do when they find out she is dead?'

Citibank: 'Either report her account to frauds division or report her to the credit bureau, maybe both!'

Family Member: 'Do you think God will be mad at her?'

Citibank: 'Excuse me?'
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Family Member: 'Did you just get what I was telling you - the part about her being dead?'

Citibank: 'Sir, you'll have to speak to my supervisor.'

Supervisor gets on the phone:

Family Member: 'I'm calling to tell you, she died back in January with a $0 balance.'

Citibank: 'The account was never closed and late fees and charges still apply.'

Family Member: 'You mean you want to collect from her estate?'

Citibank: (Stammer) 'Are you her lawyer?'

Family Member: 'No, I'm her great nephew.' (Lawyer info was given)

Citibank: 'Could you fax us a certificate of death?'

Family Member: 'Sure.' (Fax number was given )

After they get the fax :

Citibank: 'Our system just isn't setup for death. I don't know what more I can do to help.'

Family Member: 'Well, if you figure it out, great! If not, you could just keep billing her. She won't care.'

Citibank: 'Well, the late fees and charges will still apply.'

(What is wrong with these people?!?)

Family Member: 'Would you like her new billing address?'

Citibank: 'That might help...'

Family Member: ' Odessa Memorial Cemetery , Highway 129, Plot Number 69.'

Citibank: 'Sir, that's a cemetery!'

Family Member: 'And what do you do with dead people on your planet???'

(Priceless!!)

Liars!!!!

Ok ladies, I have to comment on this one comment that I have seen a lot in some of the profiles. "I know this is impossible to find, but I want the One with integrity." Are you serious?!!! It has nothing to do with the gender. I have had subs, women, that were the biggest liars also. Liars has no gender, so these profile need to stop with the male bashing. You may think it is not male bashing but it is!!! Anytime you group every man into a bad experience you had, is wrong. Learn to take each person for who they are not the bad experiences you had from a few guys you have had relationship with. Because guess what, ALL men are not the same. So, until you have dated everyman in the world, That's the only time you have the right to say, "All men are the same."

Is There Romance In The Lifestyle?

Yes subs/slaves, there is romance in the lifestyle. One of the things I have been hearing from subs/slaves that some of the "so called" doms/dommes are not being romantic. They are expecting you to drop to your knees and begin whorshipping the ground they walk on without one hello first. What a dumb ass!!!

Ok, one of the things subs/slaves are first are men and women. Just because they are subs/slaves, doesn't mean they are not human first. TRUST, has to be created between the T/two before kneeling at someones feet. Thus, the reason for romance. If a Dom/Domme, can show they are romantic, then a sub/slave will be more open to trust you and in time submit. Some won't agree with me on this but let's just face it. That is probably why you are having problems in your relationships or don't have one because you refuse to show that you are human. It doesn't make a Dom/Domme weak, it makes you worth a subs/slaves time.

But be careful subs/slaves, there are wolves in sheeps clothing. They are called, Controllers.

Ok people,
I had to bring this stupid ass myth to rest.

I got ask this dump ass question. Why do black people smell different? So, I thought I would share this bit of information with the ones who think they know all about black people when they have never been black.. So here you go. This is from a doctor! A doctor that you and I go to when we are sick. A doctor that if he tells you that jumping up and down will cure your symptoms, you will. So let's kill this myth right now.

This information is from a homeopathic doctor, Richard Heft:

Certain races like black people smell, do their big pores. "This is total nonsense, ignorance and racism. I was a licensed Acupuncture Physician (Fl 1992- 2002). I was also familiar, studied in Ayurvedic medicine. Neither medicine (both, 5,000+ years old) mentions, associates race with body odor (since all bodies are the same). Both describe diet as the number one cause. This is common sense, the same sense Oprah first had when she asked the question. Unfortunately, she and her audience did not believe strong enough in their intuition, plus they are easily bullied by men."

Oh if that didn't get you to think, maybe this will.

Hormones make you stink. This is the same as saying women naturally stink because of hormones. Have you ever heard anyone, including doctors talk about hormones and men in the same sentence. The answer is no. When you talk about hormones, you are talking about women. Once again, this is utter nonsense. Nowhere in traditional Chinese or Ayurvedic medicine, does it associate body odor with hormones. Progesterone, estrogen, testosterone, etc. do not leak into the body and make you smell. Bad diet, overweight, poor hygiene, dampness, etc. make you smell.

Dr Oz’s comments, in my opinion, are racist and chauvinistic, but then again I seem to be the only one who noticed and took the time to express my outrage both here and in numerous emails to Oprah. No reply from anyone. The micorcosm is the macrocosm.

IF YOU ARE FEMALE OR BLACK, DOESN”T THIS BOTHER YOU IN THE SLIGHTEST?????????????????????????????????????????????

With all that is going on in my world at the moment, I have choosen not to take on a sub. My schedule is very hectic at the moment and it is only going to get more hectic as the summer approaches. I wish all of you much success and remember stay true to yourself. Respect yourself, your kids, and your family. Because if you can't show those three any respect, how can you show a stranger respect? hmmmmmm

Is chivalry dead?

I don't think it is but most women think so. But ladies you have to ask yourself, do I say thank you when I gentleman gives me a compliment? Do I say "thank you" when I gentleman opens the door for me?

Most women can't say "thank you" because of varies reason. It's sad but it is true. When someone gives you a compliment, take the time to say "thank you", even when you may not feel like you are worth the compliment.

Chivalry is not dead, it is very much alive. Women are just not accepting of chivalry. You rather blow a gentleman off when he shows you chivalry.

So the next time a Gentleman, open the door for you, pull your seat out for you, or pay you a compliment, say "thank you" because guess what, he didn't have to do it.

Hey everyone,
While on my way to the bathroom, a strange thing happen. I realize that I was being way too hard on others about life being simple but hey life is just that simple. My ex-sub told me one night that life is not as simple as I say it is. Now, you know that didn't sit right with me because life is just that simple. 1+1=2, now how simple is that? W/we have such a hard time believing that life is simple. My patience for those who make life complicated is thin. I want a sub who understand that if you just live life simple that your positive outlook on life will be outstanding. All the negative thoughts and actions only make me take a step back and stop wanting to build a relationship. "With negative thoughts and actions, comes a negative outcome."

So with that said, subs/slaves stop making life so complicated and just live your life. I will take a quote from comedian Kat William, " You need to be in tune with your star player, which is you." So when choosing your Dom/Domme, remember this site is just a meeting place not a dream site for the man/woman of your dream. You still must get to know them.

Hey everyone, I thought I would share this with you guys so you can see that life is not that bad during this economic scare. Enjoy my humor.

Never Choke in a Restaurant in the South!

Two hillbillies walk into a restaurant. While having a bite to eat, they talk about their moonshine operation. Suddenly, a woman at a nearby table, who is eating a sandwich, begins to cough. After a minute or so, it becomes apparent that she is in real distress. One of the hillbillies looks at her and says,'Kin ya swallar?' The woman shakes her head no. Then he asks, 'Kin ya breathe?' The woman begins to turn blue and shakes her head no. The hillbilly walks over to the woman, lifts up her dress, yanks down her drawers and quickly gives her right butt cheek a lick with his tongue.The woman is so shocked that she has a violent spasm and the obstruction flies out of her mouth. As she begins to breathe again, the Hillbilly walks slowly back to his table. His partner says, 'Ya know, I'd heerd of that there 'Hind Lick Maneuver' but I ain't niver seed nobody do it!'

Hello everyone, I got this email and I thought I would share this with everyone because these are quotes I live by and I thought it could help someone who has lost hope. Enjoy

1. I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you..

2. No man or woman is worth your tears, & the one who is, won't make you cry.

3. Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

4. A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand & touches your heart.

5. The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can' t have them

6. Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.

7. To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.

8. Don't waste your time on someone, who isn't willing to waste their time on you.

9. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful.

10. Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened.

11. There's always going to be people that hurt you so what you have to do is keep on trusting & just be more careful about who you trust next time around..

12. Make yourself a better person & know who you are before you try & know someone else & expect them to know you.

13. Don't try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to.

REMEMBER: WHATEVER HAPPENS, HAPPENS FOR A REASON.

True friends: How many people actually have 8 true friends?

Hardly anyone I know! But some of us have all right friends & good friends!!!

Now what I am about to say may get me kicked off this site but if they kick me off they need to kick these assholes who send emails to subs/slaves that has their own preference in Doms.

You assholes who want to play these racist ass games need to grow the fuck up and leave these subs/slaves who want a Black Man in their life instead of your sorry asses alone. No wonder your asses are by yourself because you are too fucking stupid to have someone in your life that means something. Here is what some asshole sent one of my friends who is on here..."Any PERSON who chooses to lift their head and live in dignity and not give in to any oppression of any sort is a wise person who has conquered one of the major pitfalls of life... honor has nothing to do with it, so your reason for admiring black cock and having a way to be a white bitch, free of guilt or shame, just evaporated, ni**$rslut."

NOW Collarme, if you want to kick me off so be it but you need to stop this shit because the women on here should not be getting harrassing emails like this because some small dick little boy who don't like what she likes. What is so fucked up about the dayum thing is my friend is mixed. So his email makes what he said even more fucked up, you fucking goober!!!

I'm sorry for using such profanity but this is ridiculous!!!! If this site doesn't begin to change and get these so called wannbees off this site, this site will fall.

GROW THE FUCK UP!!!!!!

And for my subs/slaves, start reporting these weak ass boys to the collarme and if the site doesn't do anything about it, then leave and let others know they didn't do anything so we can leave too. So, W/we can either change this site or shut it down!!!!!

Well, Friday is my birthday!! With that said, my New Year begin. I know, everyone begin their New Year on Jan 1 but technically, your New Year does not start until your birthday, unless you were born on Jan 1. I gave up making New Year resolutions because I feel you should always have a goal everyday you wake up. So if it takes waiting until the New Year to acheive your goal, well then you are truely a procrastinator. We all have been guilty of it but it is time to stop doing it! "Live today and plan for tomorrow, because tomorrow is never promised." Life is truely a wonderful thing and some of us are truely letting it slip away because of petty non sense. So, as I reflect on last year's past experience, I came to one conclusion. Life is so much fun when you don't allow people in it who think life is soooo hard. EVERYBODY has their ups and downs, highs and lows but if you allow those petty things to stop you from living, then you should lock yourself up in a room and wait to die. Because us positive people have something to live for and it's not the petty stuff..."Don't Sweat The Small Stuff." By Richard Carlson. This is a great book. Richard Carlson died Dec 13, 2006 but before his death he wrote some great books. Very positive and helpful for your soul. So get off here and read a book! Reading can help you understand this lifestyle and yourself. Best Thoughts......

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