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Male Dominant, 60, Delray Beach, Florida
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Male Switch, 46, Notts/Lincs
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Male Dominant, 42, North Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
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About SirSexyHands
Hi,
I dropped from this site after a brief but disturbing encounter. Apologies to those whom I left hanging.
See my interests section to get to know more about me.
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I believe that a good Dom is a gentleman first whose responsibility is to care for his sub. A sub gives herself. That is deserving of love, kindness and respect. Demanding what is not given is a brutal act and not consensual.
If a sub I am with is okay with harsh treatment because she enjoys it for whatever reason, she's a pain slut, she knows it turns me on I'm okay with inflicting up to her safe word but not beyond just because I feel the desire to push her through that point for my own gratification. That is non consensual and betrays trust.
In return I expect a loyal willing sub who will attend to my needs when asked so that we are a couple fulfilling our desires and needs together. learning and growing together.
It takes a lot to submit to a Dom or Master, giving up control can be freeing but also frightening unless you as a sub are confident in your Dom. So my job is to build that confidence and trust with respect for boundaries and care and nurturing after a scene. |
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This week end I finished up the woodwork for a dungeon frame that is configurable in a number of ways depending upon how my sub and I would like to work through a scene. Ropes and straps, and a suitable table and configurable eyelets for tying to make the whole set up ideal for someone who wants to be restrained immobile or for those who prefer to squirm and wriggle.
A sensual sub to enjoy the set-up would be the best addition to the arrangement I can think of. |
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To subs in general...
Many of you complain about arrogant and rude Doms, but it's just as rude to drop off a chat or to leave someone hanging without any explanation. Sure we are all big people, but bad manners works both ways.
I make an effort to be pleasant, respectful and considerate. Sometimes I'll react to a profile and try to offer more of what you as a sub may want, if only to start a dialog. Without dialog we'll never know.
Recognizing that you all probably get way more msgs than you want I accept no answer from messages, but if I've spent time chatting I find it discourteous to be dropped without an explanation, and by subs with hiddden profiles its impossible to even reach out for a respectable "So long"
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