SirRollin

I’ve learned that I have less interest in "subs" and more interest in "slaves". A slave requires A LOT more care and attention than a sub. Therefore, in my view a slave is NOT for the young DOM. A "natural" slave must be treasured and protected. For they have the capacity to surrender so completely that in many cases, there can be loss of self. Although, let me point out I have also seen "natural" slaves through their complete submission, find their sense of self as well.
Whether submissive or slave I learned it is my duty to take them, possess them and guide them to their best potential. Part of my job, as a Dominant is to help the sub/slave be the best they can be and to grow in ways they never dreamed of.

Whether or not I am now a mature Dominant only time will tell but I'd like to think my philosophies have come of age. I no longer link sex and Dominance, for Dominance is about control.

A Dominants power comes from within not from the end of a flogger. If you are not in control of yourself, then how can you be in control of someone else?"

This control can be manifested in many ways, sex and sexual acts being one of them, but you can be a Dom and NOT have sex. Submissives come in many flavors, some are weak and some are strong. Strong or weak has little to do with BDSM and everything to do with who they are. Incidentally, some of the strongest souls I have met have been submissives. Submission is a natural part of the human existence, like YIN and YANG, light and dark. It is NOT so much a gift, but just is... a part of nature. In time, I realized your stable doesn't measure your Dom-hood. For in my view too many subs, is NOT wise overall. You maybe Doming them, but you are probably not doing it well. To divide your essential energies, in too many directions leads to eventual burn out or failure. In the end, you have several unhappy and unfulfilled subs/slaves. To call yourself a Dom is easy; to be an effective one, there lay the challenge.

To be able to call yourself a slave you should have virtually no limits, for as your Dom I can do with you as I please, use you or have you "used" as I see fit. The submissive has similar yet different needs. A sub has negotiated limits; they can, from the beginning, determine their depth of surrender. If things get too intense they can "safe out" and bring an end to the scene, where a slave cannot.

Time has taught me, a sub/slave can also lead. Even though they are a sub/slave and submit to their DOM. that is a reflection of who they are and NOT what they can do. You may be my slave, but you are also mother, Lawyer, Doctor or police officer, (even when you are wearing your Masters butt plug while at work). In the modern world of D/s, you are sub/slave to me, but competent and in control in other areas of your life or those I grant you. I love the saying, 'I'm submissive NOT stupid'.

These are some of the lessons I have learned on my journey to Masterhood. Some questions along the way have been answered, to then only to be replaced by new ones. This I suppose is as it should be.

To be a true black cock slut you are always to remember that you exist to service his sexual desires.

1) If a black man refers to you as a slut, whore or cunt it is a compliment and you are to say "Thank you".

2) When you are meeting a black man/men at his place, your place, private party or commercial swing club you are not to wear panties, bra or pantyhose in his presence, IT IS AN INSULT. Your pussy and tits are to always be at his disposal.

3) If he wishes to fondle you, you will submit without complaint or resistance.

4) When sitting you will sit with legs apart to allow him easy access.

5) You will wear a skirt or dress if at all possible to allow him easy access.

6) You will undress, (or be undressed by him), at his desire without complaint or resistance.

7) It is an honor for you to suck a black man's cock, therefore the first time you suck his cock you do it on your knees and, you are expected to drink his cum and clean his cock and balls with your mouth. (Milk out the last drop). (If he chooses to cum in your pussy it is his choice, NOT YOURS.) If he cum's on your face or body you must wipe it off with your finger and put it in your mouth, swallowing it. You are never to allow a black man's cum to hit the floor/ground.

8) You are to be concerned with HIS pleasure, not yours. If he wishes he may grant you pleasure. (Always remember that servicing him IS your pleasure).

9) In a group setting you are forbidden to have sex with any man other than a black man without their permission

I asked my readers where the naughtiest places they have ever had sex. The response was overwhelming. Here is the current list of naughty locations. Add your naughty place at the bottom of the list!

outside in the woods during a nature preserve event
in the bathroom in many public places
sex in a minibus on a crowded street
on a public beach in the sea
XXX movie theater in a open booth with 15 guys watching and pleasuring themselves during the act
on the brooklyn bridge in a pickup truck
the woods in Central Park (NYC)
joined the "Mile High Club" in the seats (!) between London and Bangkok
under a blanket in the middle row a flight between NYC and Frankfurt
driving a rented moving truck on the interstate
in a hostel in Miami with other people in the room
in a police car
on the dance floor
bonnet of police car on NYE in 1999
on a plane..........(mission)
on the same bed where my aunt was sleeping
Denny's bathroom
Walt Disney World
Tropical Park , back row of the Aventura theatre
at a crowded bar as we waited for our drinks
at The Melting pot
0utside of the car on the side of the road on the Turnpike
Mediand I don't mean in a car)
basketball court at a church
hotel lobby stairwell
@ space on top floor vip table ( the people next to us sat at our table and watched) ;)
the ground in a swamp
in the cab of a Waste Management garbage truck while parked in a secluded corner of the county landfill!
funeral home during a wake
in the backroom of an adult theater
in a doctor's office, with the doctor
toilet on a full coach
in the middle of the woods against a tree
in my driveway, on the hood of the car just 10 feet from the road
when i was in high school i had sex in class during class
in a hot tub with other people in it
El Esquadron Restaurant in the parking area in a Miata only two seats very limited room, yep windows down, roof down too. Boy was that a mission in such car? A lover enters the car a superhero emerges later.
bathroom at a rehab center
nature preserve
elevator at the hyatt
dj booth at busch gardens
on a car outside a children's karate school
in an alley
on the slide at my local playground
in the RV at an RV retail lot
on my desk while staff still working
parked car by Colonial Lake and she was cuffed to the steering wheel
Tom Sawyer's Island at Disney
3rd floor rooftop of a building on South Street in Philadelphia
on the player's bench of a major arena after the home team won its League Championship
the back of a movie theater watching Who Framed Roger Rabbit
parking lot of Jimbo's BBQ (on the car)
adult theater (couple's section)
board room table of a major banking institution
on the couch of the CEO of the same place
girlfriend's parents bed after school, bedroom window faced the street
a bowling green bench
behind the altar of my college chapel. ;)
Ft. Desoto, in the water, in broad daylight
hospital bed while convalescing with nurse waiting outside
in the park up against a tree!
driving down the interstate!
sex with sister inlaw on wifes' bed with wife sleeping next to us unaware of what happned
girfriends parents bedroom
in a conference room of a local police department after office staff left for the day
church choir loft
in an old fashioned elevator, with a small window to the hallway of the floor we were stopping on
in a womans dressing room with other women occupying the rooms next to us
in the back of an ambulance (while working)
in a sleeping bag in the middle of a group of campers
in Iraq
in a graveyard on a crypt
coach with mom watching she soon joined (not quite sure what this means)
20 feet up a tree in a public park in the daytime!
ski boat on a busy lake during the day
in swiming pool, in middle of day with lots of others at the pool
in a paddy wagon
behind the KFC menu board outside by drive thru at nite
in the woods off a trail where several people gathered to watch
In the back of a moving car on the highway, with my wife and her husband in the front seat.
In my married NA sponcors bed w/ a new comer!
Busy bathroom on ocean drive in south beach
In the middle of a golf course.
In the room of a strip club, wow what a tight pussy and hot babe.
sex adult store
in the romance isle of a bookstore
Gave my boyfriend a blow job in our friends' living room while we were babysitting their kids. Would have done more but I had my period and felt bleh.
Gay sex in a mormon church baptismal pond and in the bathroom ha ha
Space mountain
leftfield

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