SirP48

They were meeting for the first time. She had come prepared - to expect the unexpected - dressed in  a long skirt and sleeveless top. He gently took her hand and led her to a table close to the window - overlooking the street below. After they were seated, he ordered a glass of red wine for each of them. They talked for a while and she was wondering if there was all that was to it. All of  sudden, he looked deep into her eyes and told her - Go to rest room and remove your panties and come back. She was bewildered, a hot wave passing through her body, and made no move, not knowing if he was serious. He repeated his words, slowly and emphatically and she realized that he meant it. She left the table and was back in a few minutes and sat down. He looked at her and said "I wanted to see what colour panties you chose today." Red - she whispered. "I said I wanted to see and not hear from you. Take out your panties from your purse and put on the table". She obeyed and took her panties and placed on table. The steward was coming to their table - with 2 glasses of wine. "Spread it so that I can see how it looks". She was crimson in face with humiliation and an odd excitement and could feel her cunt moistening. The Steward was slowly putting the wine glasses on the table when she felt something groping between her thighs ----.

I am an experienced Indian Master looking for a female sub to explore a relationship based on mutuality. An engineer by training, I have my own marketing and consultancy company since 1997. Prior to that I worked in various organizations in different capacities including as Chief Executive in the last one.

I am 58 year old, 5 ft 4 inch, bald man of average build, but excellent health. I am well read and well traveled, in India and abroad. My taste is music is catholic, with some bias for Jazz and Indian classical. And I play golf at the local club.

I got seriously interested in bdsm after reading ?The Story of O?, but had my first relationship with an English widow. It was cyber, but quite satisfying and lasted for about 3 years. She also introduced me to humiliation - that was her main need.

Thereafter, I had another relationship with a young Indian girl. There we had some r/t experience too. She was into pain and mild degradation. She is now relocated in the US.

Subsequently, I met a Canadian woman on the net and adopted her as my sub. We had a year long and mutually satisfying cyber relationship which was sustained by e-mails, chats and webcam plus phone talks. We were planning to meet, but tragically, she was diagnosed with a debilitating disease and needed to be institutionalized. She sought to be released and suggested that I look for another sub for myself. Since then I have had contacts with several sub females, but they all got cold feet when I sought r/t contact. The last one was with one really voluptuous woman - herein collarme.com and i thought i had found my real bdsm partner. but it didn't work out as she had other expectations also. Hence my search continues.

I am interested in pain, humiliation and  degradation, all with a view to exercise control and establish ownership. The idea is to help and guide a sub to explore her submissiveness and find her limits, perhaps transcend them, be it pain or humiliation or simply bondage.

There will be rituals to follow. These have an important place in such a relationship. I suggest this as a reminder everyday of the position of slave vis-à-vis Master and bring in a degree of intimacy in the solitude of her room when physically the Master and slave are far apart.

I also suggest some structuring of time in a manner that some time of the day the slave is mentally with her Master and does what she would be expected to do if the Master were physically present.

Gradually the entire day is to be structured in a manner that the slave knows what is required to be done at a particular time of the day and how. Eventually, this leads decision being made on her behalf about her clothes and other activities. She is thus freed of the responsibility to choose and decide ? ?delivered from her freedom?. The MASTER is then ever present with His slave, even though physically He is far away. He is simply in control.

I am looking for a strong woman who is otherwise in control of her life, but has a submissive side deep within and seeks to surrender to be truly free.

I must clarify that I am not looking for a 24/7 relationship as I have a vanila life also which I must preserve. Therefore, absolute discretion is required and assured. Trust is the key to a relationship.

Hope to hear from you soon. Myyahoo id is misra_47. - SirP48