SirMsailor

Female Submissive, 45, NEPA, Pennsylvania

Female Submissive, 41, Utica/Upstate, New York

Male Dominant, 66, Indianapolis, Indiana

Ouch is not a safe word ;)

Never under estimate my vision ... even blindfolded I see more than you may realize.

What a great thunder storm! I mean who doesn't love an amazing thunder storm ... I'm just saying.

I recently asked what I would consider to be my best friend though knowing her for over a year we have never met in person, to describe me. I thought it was awesome and really described me so here it is un edited ... Your absolutely perfectly Dom, there's no such thing as a cookie cutter Dom except for the fakes and I?m almost always in a happy mood when I?m talking to you. You don't expect to be worshipped but you do have very clear and acceptable expectations. Obviously you are monogamous to a TEE cheating is a foreign concept to you. Faith and trust are an absolute must for you as it should be for anyone. You are the friendliest person I?ve ever met but not extroverted and people quickly find themselves at ease talking to and being around you. You like to surprise your girl with completely off the top gifts and thoughts but you would never forget it is the simplest of things that matter the most. You keep your non vanilla life private probably because of what you do for a living. You wouldn't deny her anything unless it was something she wanted that was unreasonable. For as much as you expect, you give back 2x. Your sexual nature is amazingly kinky, you will try almost anything that has anything to do with making her feel good, submissive and completely beautiful but you also like making love slowly too, it is very important to you. You're willing to fuck just about anywhere and at anytime as long as it is smart and safe. You're only satisfied if she is and it's your only intention, to give pleasure, and that comes in thousands of forms for you. You are extremely knowledgeable and when you decide you want to learn something new you learn it until you've mastered it. You enjoy the physical but strongly believe the mind is the best place to play and your mind can be wickedly evil in all the right places. I think you said to me once 90% of pleasure comes from between the ears and 10% from between the legs. You can be stern and strict but alway extremely fair and patient within reason which makes you a amazing teacher.?You're not the kind of Dom who expects to constantly be served and you're willing to actually serve her too, as a special treat or as aftercare and your aftercare would rival the best I have ever had. When you're wrong you're the first to admit it and are very introspective there is no D/s about that, it makes no difference to you and the underlying vanilla part of any relationship is just as important if not more so than anything else. You are the kind of Dom who will absolutely cherish his girl; wants to see her successful wants to see her happy and you would give her the world if it was yours but you despise selfishness and will not tolerate high maintenance and pretentiousness. You can be emotionally masochistic at times so you probably have the potential to be REALLY sadistic in bed if that were an interest. You could get into S/M very easily and enjoy the sadistic edge but would always make it perfect for your partner and you're always studying her. You will know everything about her, and you will take any liberty to do so. Like I said you are incredibly patient sometimes too patient but you expect results and see to it that you get them. Your girl is always just a bit spoiled and you expect that to be a balance, you require a good deal of attention, affection and consideration. Some people might take offense to being described as "soft" but you can be very soft and where you aren't, it's because she deserves it.You like the idea of your girl being a hot mess when she?s thinking about you. You honestly could probably cause a serious temporary case of teretts. You genuinely care about her well being. Her thoughts and her opinions mean everything to you and you will make a point of being in HER world, you'll know everything about her family, friends, job, hobbies and you know her body probably better than she does just like her thoughts but the reason you want to know about everything is because you're studying her, you want to be an expert on her and who she is and what is important to her. You have a need to know somebody inside and out like the back of your hand. What you ask for is not too much to expect especially considering what you?re willing to offer in return. For you It's not sex, it's not about having the right equipment or toys, it's about the relationship, harmonious and grounded on trust, mutual respect, where each person understands and embraces their roles and what they offer each other in the relationship. Honesty is essential, trust, respect, honoring each other, appreciating one another, truly caring about the other person's happiness and well being.

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