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Male Dominant, 55, bij Amsterdam
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About SIRMOTHO
WARNING: Reading this profile & blogs, will give you the opportunity to make a informed decision on whether you want to deal with what I'm about or not.
If you find surrender beautiful, submission natural, obedience thrilling, love inspiring and do not need to fight it or be forced into it, and you do not serve because you want or need to be rewarded.. you serve because it is rewarding for you to do so, then you've come to the right place.
"YOUR SERVICE TO ME AND OUR MENTAL CONNECTION IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOUR VAGINA" _____..)/.._ ____..)/..________..)/.._________..)/.._________..)/..________..)/_ ¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯ Hello, I'm Sir Blaximus, formerly known as, Lord Master Earl, sometimes called "The benevolent Master", With a twist of the Daddy dom in me. I'm not into online fantasy and role play unless it leads into real life experiences. Being A MASTER is not A hobby or an online fantasy! It is A genetic characteristic to be shared so that you can live your life the way it was meant to be. If you are a female and have the deep craving to serve a Master, then I'm your best choice. I'M ALSO SEEKING A DOMME, MISTRESS, OR SWITCH THAT HAS THE DESIRE TO SERVE AND WORSHIP A DOM BLACK MASTER AND DOMINATE THE WORLD, WHILE ENJOYING OUR JOURNEY TOGETHER. ONE THAT DESIRES A LIFETIME MASTER, LOVER, AND BEST FRIEND.
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If you would like to get to know me better, just ask and I will give you an honest answer, Or Just read my blogs, they will give you a better insight into how I think. I'm open and honest and I expect the same from people that I have around me. I have strict rules of behavior that I expect my slaves to read and learn. So if a BLACK MASTER is what you've been looking for, look no further. "I AM HE AND HE IS ME". Seeking A 24/7 TPE, REAL LIFE potential! Some one who would love to fulfill their fantasies and share them with the world. My standards are high. Trust, Understanding, Ability, Consistency & Security are the keys to your freedom. Realize the glory within your grasp. The Requirements are: female, single, Smart & Attractive, A girl who needs Structure, Guidance & Discipline. A girl needing, wanting, willing to Give-up ALL rights of decision & choice. Realize the freedom that servitude will bring your soul. Being the protected cherished slave servant owned by me, without shame, or guilt . _____..)/.._ ____..)/..________..)/.._________..)/.._________..)/..________..)/_ ¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯
If you're looking for a BURGER KING MASTER, (one that will let you "have it your way"), then pass me up, I do negotiate but, for the most part, It's my way or the highway.
If you're a fake or just into online play please pass me by, there are too many fakes on this site, I only want to communicate with real slaves. |
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What I’ve learned on my journey from Dom to Master.
I’ve learned that I have less interest in "subs" and more interest in "slaves". A slave requires A LOT more care and attention than a sub. Therefore, in my view a slave is NOT for the young DOM. A "natural" slave must be treasured and protected. For they have the capacity to surrender so completely that in many cases, there can be loss of self. Although, let me point out I have also seen "natural" slaves through their complete submission, find their sense of self as well.
Whether submissive or slave I learned it is my duty to take them, possess them and guide them to their best potential. Part of my job, as a Dominant is to help the sub/slave be the best they can be and to grow in ways they never dreamed of.
Whether or not I am now a mature Dominant only time will tell but I'd like to think my philosophies have come of age. I no longer link sex and Dominance, for Dominance is about control.
A Dominants power comes from within not from the end of a flogger. If you are not in control of yourself, then how can you be in control of someone else?"
This control can be manifested in many ways, sex and sexual acts being one of them, but you can be a Dom and NOT have sex. Submissives come in many flavors, some are weak and some are strong. Strong or weak has little to do with BDSM and everything to do with who they are. Incidentally, some of the strongest souls I have met have been submissives. Submission is a natural part of the human existence, like YIN and YANG, light and dark. It is NOT so much a gift, but just is... a part of nature. In time, I realized your stable doesn't measure your Dom-hood. For in my view, too many subs, is NOT wise overall. You maybe Doming them, but you are probably not doing it well. To divide your essential energies, in too many directions leads to eventual burn out or failure. In the end, you have several unhappy and unfulfilled subs/slaves. To call yourself a Dom is easy; to be an effective one, there lay the challenge.
To be able to call yourself a slave you should have virtually no limits, for as your Dom I can do with you as I please, use you or have you "used" as I see fit. The submissive has similar yet different needs. A sub has negotiated limits; they can, from the beginning, determine their depth of surrender. If things get too intense they can "safe out" and bring an end to the scene, where a slave cannot.
Time has taught me, a sub/slave can also lead. Even though they are a sub/slave and submit to their DOM. that is a reflection of who they are and NOT what they can do. You may be my slave, but you are also mother, Lawyer, Doctor or police officer, (even when you are wearing your Masters butt plug while at work). In the modern world of D/s, you are sub/slave to me, but competent and in control in other areas of your life or those I grant you. I love the saying, 'I'm submissive NOT stupid'.
These are some of the lessons I have learned on my journey to Masterhood. Some questions along the way have been answered, to then only to be replaced by new ones. This I suppose is as it should be.
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Here are many of the fetishes I'm into: "slut" as a term of endearment (giving), 24/7 (everything to do with it), a welcome home blow job after work (receiving), always remember...youre my property (everything to do with it), anal sex (giving), ball gags (giving), bare bottom spanking (giving), bare handed spanking (giving), being a worshipped as a god (everything to do with it), being capable of loving more than 1 person (everything to do with it), belt spanking (giving), belt whippings (giving), bimbo (everything to do with it), bimbo sex slaves (everything to do with it), bitch slapping drama queens (everything to do with it), blindfolds (giving), blow jobs (receiving), bondage (giving), breast bondage (giving), breast whipping (giving),caging/confinement (giving), caning (giving), clamps and clips (giving), collar and lead/leash (watching others wear), controlling you with a fistful of your hair (giving), costumes/dressing-up (wearing), crawling (watching), cuckquean (everything to do with it), cum on food and served (giving), d/s (giving), daddy/girl (giving), dick slapping your pretty face making you wet (giving), domination (giving), duct tape (giving), eye contact restrictions (giving), face sitting/smothering (giving), face slapping (giving), female humiliation (giving), fetish models (everything to do with it), fetish wear (everything to do with it), figging (giving), fingerfucking from behind between spankings (giving), fingering (giving), fucking machines (giving), gagging/choked by cock (giving), gangbangs (giving), glass dildos (giving), golden showers (giving), hair pulling (giving), handcuffs (giving), handful of hair guidance system (giving), human pet (receiving), humiliation (giving), i didn't say do as i do, i said do as i say, i want to fuck you like an animal (giving), independent women who yield to strong men (everything to do with it), intelligence (everything to do with it), interracial sex (everything to do with it), its not about fear, its about trust. (everything to do with it), making home movies (everything to do with it), male supremacy (everything to do with it), master/slave (everything to do with it), mother daughter combo (everything to do with it), not letting definitions by others define me (everything to do with it), obedience training (giving), otk spanking (giving), outdoor sex (everything to do with it), paddling (giving), pantyhose/stockings (watching others wear), people that know what respect means (everything to do with it), people that live up to their word (everything to do with it), petplay (giving), polyamory (everything to do with it), power exchange (giving), private party humiliation (giving), public humiliation (giving), puppy play (giving), pursuit, take-down & capture (giving), reminding her who owns her pussy/tits/ass (everything to do with it), riding crops (giving), service-oriented submission (receiving), sexual objectification (giving), sexual slavery (giving), shackles (watching others wear), slapping (giving), slave tattoos (giving), slavery (giving), small girls big tits (everything to do with it), spanking as a necessary daily activity (giving), speech restriction (giving), sub to me onlyand domme to all others (everything to do with it), that's it! go get my belt.. (giving), tit fucking (giving), tit slapping (giving), venus de mila, verbal humiliation and degradation (giving), violet wand (giving), waking up to a blowjob (receiving), warning you once & caning your ass twice. (giving), watersports (giving), women as chattel (everything to do with it), young women being sluts for older men (everything to do with it), your spanking is far from over, young lady (giving). |
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An Insight Into my early experiences
As I slapped her face she became more and more obedient to my commands. Truth began to fall from her lips, where there were lies before. She later told me that she’d been looking for a man that would treat her like a bitch and a whore. She wanted a Man that she could look up to and respect and one that she couldn’t walk all over, and just lie to, a man that she could talk to about anything without being made to feel weird, someone that wouldn’t judge her. She stated that she would do anything to please this man no matter how degrading it was if he commanded it, and she wasn’t lying. I soon learned that timing was one of the keys to enslaving. (The timing may be more complicated than you think, it must be precise).
I’m not going to tell you here, all the things I subjugated her to, but I will reveal a few of them. I made her kiss my hand whenever we got together, I made her kneel at my feet and kiss them, and I made sure there were witnesses to these acts, mostly friends of mine and friends of hers. I gave her the privilege of holding my cock when I needed to pee, and allowed her to drink to her heart’s content. This was one of her enjoyments that she really relished.
As I sat her down to talk more with her about her psychological needs, she revealed to me her rape fantasy, and yes one day I allowed her fulfillment of that fantasy, complete with abduction and bondage and rough neck fucking , whipping , face slapping and more. To be honest I really enjoyed the slapping hehe. When I finally was old enough to get my own place, she took care of my house and would also defend my honor and wouldn’t allow anyone to defile her Master’s Image. She learned to take pride in who she was, and wore her whore and slut badge with pride and honor, and I made sure she went to school got decent grades and finished college.
I had her service some of my friends and she took to it like a fish to water. Speaking of fish to water, that is the very reason I am into white women, they take to the lifestyle like a fish to water. But this girl was Black, cute and petite. She expressed the thrill she got from being made to service my friends, and how wet she got when I would whip her and make her do humiliating and degrading things. Eventually I used belt whippings and name calling as a reward for good service, not punishment. Serving a Strong Master was the ultimate life for her. She needed it because her personality was strong and she could manipulate and wrap around her finger most guys and that isn’t what she wanted or needed, but she did express to me that she got a thrill from conquering the average male.
Yes I had to break this bitch down often because she would test me to make sure I was authentic, and when I put her in her place she felt fulfilled. As I took her deeper and deeper into slavery, I made her participate in a small gang bang with a few friends and acquaintances of mine, while a couple of her friends watched. I took control of everything in her life including all her money, which she was all too happy to give. She was a cheerful giver and wanted me to have it. I trained her to the point where I didn’t have to ask for it, it would be placed in a designated place for me and it was always there. In my opinion, financial domination, along with micro management, automatically comes with the program with my brand and style of Mastery and Slavery.
I know some of you won’t agree with me but it’s my belief that most women are submissive and have a desire to submit to a strong man even though they can dominate and control the average man.
This was just a sneak peek into my experiences with my first real slave. I was only 16 when we met and she served me for approx 7 years. I thank the universe for sending this young woman into my life. (big smile:-)
Note: Another thing, for all those that think this is about stud service, Think again. It’s about Power and control. Point blank and Sex is a fringe benefit. It’s about the slave serving her Master and his needs, even though the slaves needs get fulfilled in the process, not the other way around like so many so called Masters seem to think it is. That’s why I wrote the “Manipulated Master” Read it.NEXT LEVEL
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Consentual Slavery
My mission is to bring freedom through slavery to certain women. It is not my purpose to persuade women to become something they are not. My conviction is that some women are slaves by nature and that slavery and service is their liberation. My brand of slavery is not for all women. But it is adapted to a certain temperament, a certain type.
You will find being a slave everything you dreamed of and so much more if you enter this life knowing more of what to expect. If you are meant to be in the lifestyle, you will find that, where you were once only walked through life, you will be gliding on air. Parts of you that never were complete will then become whole. In relinquishing control, you will find freedom: freedom to find and be the person you are inside.
A case could be made that the main reason Masters even exist is to provide slaves with an opportunity to serve to the best of their abilities! Whether you accept that view or not, a Master who neglects or wastes a slave’s talents is worse than a fool; it is a form of abuse as serious as physical harm or neglect.
An M/s lifestyle is one of absolutes. One's role in life is precisely defined. Obligations and privileges are spelled out in unambiguous terms. Two people enter into a partnership where one will take the lead, and the other will follow in support. There are no vacations, no time outs, and no reversal of positions. Laws and rights are irrelevant; no outside agency dictates how they will live. The structure of their lives together is based on the trust, and faith, each one has in the other.
Success or failure hinges on the absolutes of keeping commitments, and mindsets, every minute of the day, in every way. Debates about whether she should or should not submit to certain types of orders are counterproductive. Her focus is not on judging the merits of what he asks, but rather how best to accomplish what he seeks. She must use her skills and natural talent to understand his mind, how he thinks, what motivates him when he demands. She looks not only at the letter of his law, but the spirit behind it. |
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