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I was born in Sydney 4 April 1960. I grew up in North St. Ives on the edge of the Karingi Chase national park. This was a time when owning a scooter meant you were a social outcast.



I went to a small private school set on 13 acres of bushland on the edge on Middle Cove. I went skinny dipping with girls in the creeks on hot summer days. I built tree-house, went caving, built dams, and caught fish in tidal pools. School was a lot of fun.



I finished my HSC in 1977, and started work for a horse stable. After a year I became a Jackeroo on a cattle station near the QLD NSW border.



In 1980 I went to Uni in Armadale to do a B.Sc. Double major in Mathematics, double major in Chemistry, sub majors in Physics and Computer Science. After a year I got sick of that. It never really answered any of the interesting questions.



From 1981 to 1985 I studied Theology and was ordained as a Brother in the Order of St. Basil. There are very few Brothers of the Order, but a lot more Sisters of the Order.



In 86 I found myself living on a commune in the mountains west of Grafton. I taught Philosophy, baptised, pered marriages, cast out demons (a state of mind more than anything else). I lived in a hammock with a tarp for rain. I learnt then, what I still know now it is our possessions that own us and keep us bound by the fear of loosing them. My only possession, besides my hammock and tarp, a steel bowl and a pair of chop sticks.



In late 86 I was in Bathurst teaching juggling, acrobatics and unicycle riding (I cant remember how to do any of it now). To raise money for starving children I canoed from Bathurst to Bourke. Thirty five days on the river, under the stars every night.



In 87 I started at Charles Sturt Uni. Spent a few years there, part time. Completed a B.Soc.Sc. Double major in psychology G.Dip.C. Family counselling B.Soc.Sc.(Honours) forensic psychology M.Soc.Sc.(Honours) neuropsychology.



During my studies at uni, I went back to being a Jackeroo, managed a concrete products factory, and became a contract fencer and a contract sprayer. Wrote and published a few books on rehabilitation of inmates (see Corrective Services Library) and some childrens books. Started long-term vanilla relationships, and trained a couple of slaves full time and a few subs part time.



In 99 I went to the USA and lived in Vegas as a base while I explored their national parks. In 2000 I returned to Oz.



I dont drink, I dont smoke. In 87 I discovered I have Klienfielts syndrome. This is a genetic disorder that makes me sterile. I discovered an incredible pick up line. I am sterile, no chance of pregnancy.



From 2000 to 2012 I worked with the state government and then retired. Since 2012 I written several novels and short stories, under a pen name. I live on an 860 acre farm, that I own, just outside of Bathurst.



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To know what I want, read my Journal












I have no Pics of past subslaves. I regard such things as an invasion of privacy. Yes I use subs and slaves for my own pleasure, but I do not exploit them.
You make regard me as full of shit. But if you ask, I will simply tell you the truth, whether you want to hear it or not.

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10/23/2017 4:34:25 AM
Don't confuse BDSM with D/s or M/s lifestyle, and don't expect to jump right into bondage, whip, floggers and nipple clamps. A relationship takes time, it needs a mental connection, trust. I need to get into your mind.

A good sub/slave is loyal, obedient, trustworthy, intelligent, and lives and exists to be at service always... will do as instructed, whatever is required and whatever is desire with enthusiasm and without question or hesitation.... She will be everything..... servant, chef, butler, maid, personal assistant, chauffeur, travel companion, pet, fuck doll, pain slut, bitch, baby girl, sex slave, entertainment, lover, friend, wife and anything else required
I am so sick of all the scammers, liars, game players, the so called subs and slaves that have no idea at all.

NO, I will not send you money for petrol, so you can drive here from Kentucky.
NO, I will not your Mistress or Master to release you.
NO, I will not send you money for air fairs, passports, visas.
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9/25/2017 6:10:41 AM
1- I will not send you money. I will not buy you from the training house. I will not purchase you from your Master/Mistress. And I will not send a fee of any kind.

2 - Of course you are not a scam; but strangely every argument you give for not being a scam, is identical to every scam.

3 - Yes I do have money to pay for your ticket, see 1 & 2

4 - Of course you are in love with me after two messages, love obviously works that way.

5 - There are three questions that scammers always ask, or some variation of them, that give me the shits. do you live alone, what do you do for work, will you care for me. These are not questions sub/slaves ask, they are question scammers after money ask.

6 - I know what is involved in getting a residency visa for you in Australia; I have done this before; so don't make up bullshit expenses; also see 1 & 2

7 - If you want to be a slave, fine I will teach and train you in every thing from candle wax to edge play. But you must get here.

8 - If you get here, I will repay your costs, but only after we meet in person.




7/21/2016 9:51:39 PM
My Ideal Person Dominance and submission has always been a part of my life, a great torment when not understood by either myself or others with whom I shared my life. But, it became my greatest pride when I finally realized how beautiful and loving an exchange it can be. The only rule for a Dominant submissive relationship is that there are no rules. What each submissive wants is different and takes varying forms.

In my hundreds of conversations with submissive women, one thing stands out prominently and that is that very few men realize the importance that submission holds for women. It is far more than a physical experience. It is an emotional connection with them so meaningful that it contains their very soul.

Though Dominant submissive relationships may often be very light and spontaneous, for women it is the most real thing in their life. It is not a game for them; to treat it as such is to trivialize the greatest expression of love. Being a submissive woman is very erotic; it touches their sexuality in the most powerful way and when combined with the mental, emotional and physical aspects of a relationship, it can often be the most sexually intense and emotionally fulfilling experience a woman can ever have.

In fact, many women have confided in me that they were afraid of the intensity of their sexual energy. They fear that should they reveal the full extent of their sexual excitement at being a submissive, they will be misunderstood. Often, the smallest of looks or commands will leave them drenched with sexual excitement.

As a Master, it is my pleasure to extract each nuance of sexual pleasure from a submissive. When a submissive gives herself to me completely, she is also giving me the freedom to explore the depths of her sexuality and passion, to take her places she cannot go herself, to have experiences she probably cannot ask for, for she is depending on me, her Master, to give her the push to get beyond any resistance I may encounter.

Getting past resistance is where my strength and understanding as a Dominant is essential. If I back off instead of encouraging her onward, she will not be able to explore the depths of herself. She needs my unconditional love and support to feel safe, to go where she cannot go alone. As I sexually open her body to me, I am opening her heart and soul.

Most women have been raised to be ashamed of their sexual feelings. Being with a Dominant who treasures a woman's natural sexuality enough to go forward where most would stop, is an extremely liberating experience. It also touches upon their desire to reveal herself as she truly is, I help her by removing her falsely imposed conditioning. This is where my experience as a psychologist helps. Even if she cannot ask, it is important to understand that as a submissive she wants to overcome her resistance as much as I want her to.

I search for a submissive or two to share my life with, women that understand their place and realise that my actions are motivated by love. Women ready to give themselves, body and soul into my keeping.

Mike..

12/27/2014 5:44:51 AM

Being a slave can be a wonderful life. But many novice submissive women come into the lifestyle expecting everything to be dream-like and perfect. I do not wish to ruin anyone's dreams, or turn them from the activity; what I wish to do is to explain how things really are in order to make the transition to slavery easier.

For my purpose, the issues addressed here relate to being a 24/7 slave. These comments are based on my viewpoint as a Male Dominant and the views and experiences of female slaves I have trained.

First, there are a few things you need to discover for and about yourself. Do you wish to be in this type relationship 24/7? Perhaps you only wish to be in it during the scenes. Maybe you want to role-play at only during certain times. There are many ways this activity can be done, but you have to figure out what is right for you.

Second, you need to learn to be honest with yourself. Figure out what you will and will not do, and what is a "maybe". Search inside yourself for what you really want, and when you find it, be honest to anyone you talk to. Don't agree to something long-term that you know you will not be able accomplish. Ask yourself some hard questions.

Base your decisions on reality, and not someone else's dreams of how it should be. Are you prepared to surrender 100% control of your life to someone else? 24/7 slaves do this.

In Role-play you enter into a slave relationship with your Master only for the time agreed upon. Once the scene is over, everything returns to normal.

Do you enjoy country music? Maybe you love Rock and Roll. Consider this. The Master who’s collar you will eventually wear, may only like classical or another type of music that you don't enjoy. Are you prepared to give up those selections and only listen to His music? This type sacrifice can apply to many other things you currently enjoy.

In my presence slaves rarely get to listen to the music they like. But, when a slave is good, I will permit her to listen to her choice of music, as long as she gets her assigned tasks and chores done. Note, I said, "permit". Something as simple as listening to the radio is a reward. It is not a given that you will be permitted to enjoy even this little pleasure whenever you wish.

These limitations can apply to many areas of your life such as TV, choices of food or friends, just about anywhere anything! Is there a certain style of clothes you love? Certain colours and scents you wouldn't be caught without? If your Master doesn't approve of them, you may be wearing a totally different style with colours you never would have dreamed of.

I choose the clothes my slaves wear every morning. Are you prepared to abide happily by your Masters choices? If He asked you to wear something very skimpy to someplace simple like the grocery store, could you do this without hesitation?

Are you prepared to change your hairstyle, length, or colour to please your Master? All of these will belong to Him once you accept your collar as will everything else that once belonged to you. You will no longer own anything. From the time you take His collar, everything will be His. It will no longer be "your" car or "your" clothes, but "His", on loan to you as He sees fit. If He should so choose, you will not be permitted to wear clothes at all. This will be His choice, not yours. Remember, you will have given up all rights to make these choices for yourself.

You have a favourite chair, or a certain way you like to sit or walk? Your Master will decide whether you sit on furniture or on the floor. He will have the say if you are to cross your legs, or sit with them spread wide-open. You will have to ask permission to even climb into bed, or sit on a chair.

Most slaves are allowed a cushion on the floor that they do not need permission to sit upon, but very little else. You will even need permission to eat at the table with your Master.

If your Master allows you to work in the Vanilla world. You might return home after a long hard day. You get home and want nothing more than to relax in a bath and go to bed early. Well, you won't be able to. Being tired, ill, or just in a bad mood does not excuse you from your required tasks. You are still required to do them: prepare your Master’s meal, and go to bed when He tells you to.

Retiring for bed usually occurs at a set time, even if you are not ready to go. There will not be an "I am too tired" or "I don't feel well": nothing of the kind. Unless your Master has excused you from your tasks and chores, you will remain responsible for making sure His needs and wants are filled: no matter what.

It is your job to inform your Master of your physical health status. One of your main jobs will be to take care of and protect His possessions. You, slave, are the most prized one He owns. As long as you let your Master know how you are feeling, He will make sure that your tasks will be appropriate to your capabilities.

Many come into this lifestyle looking to be used sexually, to service their Master at His whim. They never consider other aspects. The main part of being a slave is to be of service to your Master, and not to be serviced for yourself. However, being readily available to Him at all times is also an unspoken expectation.

The old excuse "not tonight dear, I have a headache" doesn't work in a D/s relationship. In order to provide Him pleasure, you must also express to Him the pleasure of the moment for you as well. Never make your Master feel this is a chore to you: something you would rather not do, but will only because you have to. If your Master tells you to do something, it will not be up to you to question Him. You will be required to respond with no questions asked.

At a later time (if this is permitted in your relationship), you may ask your Master for permission to speak on an equal level. If He gives permission, this will be your opportunity to ask your questions. However, it is important to ask in a way so as not to question His authority, but at the same time to satisfy your curiosity.

Do you feel being a slave is to be coerced: forced into servitude? Do you think you couldn't do this unless you were? Then think again. Slaves enter into this relationship of their own free will. This is not the day of forced slavery; it is a matter of choice. Yours! You are the one who will decide to give over your power to your Master. You will be doing this, not because you are forced to obey, but because you need to.

Yes, during the course of your relationship there will be times you will be forced to do something, but it will never be something that goes against who you are. Your Master may feel obeying this command will help you to grow into the best person you can be, or will help you break out of an inhibition you have.

How is your temper? Are you quick to fly off-of-the-handle when you are upset? Or are you laid back, accepting anything and everything, and then go off to sulk because your feelings were hurt? A Master does not wish to have a doormat for a slave nor does He desire to be told how things should be. Learning when and how to say things will become very important in your relationship. If you do not tell your Master when something is bothering you, then you have no right whatsoever to become upset. However wonderful and omnipotent He may seem, He is not a mind reader: unless you tell Him, He won't know. The key, as I said a moment ago, is in how you tell Him.

Your self-discipline is very important in this relationship. Do you tend to put things off until the last possible moment? You won't be able to do this when you are owned. There will be chores and tasks your Master will assign that He expects to be done in a timely fashion set by Him, not by you. Your Master's wants and needs will be put before your own. Self-discipline is similar to self-control. Your ability to follow complete assignments made by your Master will be very important. As a slave, you will need to be able to control your own actions well enough to be able to remain within the boundaries set for you by Him. If He says you can't do something, simply, you can't. Doing it anyway, and not telling Him doesn't make it right.

In the case of a Master/slave relationship, what you don't know can hurt you, as well as the relationship you have worked so hard to build. Even a simple "white lie" can destroy the trust so necessary to really establish this type relationship. As to wants and needs of your own: do you know the difference between the two? If not, I strongly recommend you figure them out before entering into servitude. Sometimes the two are hard to distinguish, but it will become important that you do so.

Your Master will ensure all your "needs" are taken care of, but the "wants" will be His to allow or not, as He sees fit. Needs are the necessities of life that are required in order for us to remain mentally and physically healthy. They allow us to grow emotionally and spiritually. If you can survive without something, then it is a want. Wants are usually given as a reward for good behaviour.

In order to be a slave, there will be many things you have to learn to accept within yourself and adapt to. Your primary purpose in life will be to see to your Masters pleasure (both mentally and physically) in any manner He should desire. In order to do this, you will have to learn your Master well. Find out what pleases and displeases Him. By this, I do not mean just sexually. You will learn that sex is but a small part of your relationship. Learn to anticipate His every need and desire without being pushy. His needs and desires will encompass intellectual stimulation, physical pleasure, emotional support, and many other things unique to Him. Remember - physical does not equal sexual. Physical pleasure may include, but is not limited to, touch, favourite foods, textures, clothing, and colours as examples. It will be your job to make sure His physical pleasures are met in every way.

Think of the five senses, and make your Master’s environment pleasing to all of them. Never forget - the most pleasing thing in His environment should be you. As His slave, it will be up to you to figure out what pleases your Master. He should not have to ask constantly for the basic things - you should have learned them. If His glass is empty, quietly and unobtrusively refill it. Remember, you are doing this for His pleasure not your own. Just because He does not notice and praise you doesn't mean you are doing it wrong. Look at His smile. Is He comfortable? If He looks happy and content, then you have done well, and should bask in His content. Always remember that you do this for Him and not for your own satisfaction. Your happiness should come from serving Him and His being happy.

I am not trying to scare you away from the world of D/s. My goal is to make sure that, when you enter this lifestyle, you do so with your eyes wide open, fully knowing what to expect. The road will not be an easy one. You will have to re-learn much of what you once took for granted: things you just did without thinking, like simply sitting in a chair. These are habits you never even think about anymore. That is, until you find a Master.

Being a slave is a wonderful life: one where you are taken care of. Most decisions are out of your hands and in those of your Masters. But, many choices will still be left up to you. Most Masters want a slave who is smart, has a sense of humour, and a will of their own. There is no pleasure in owning a doormat that just sits or is only walked upon. A Master will become bored very fast.

Being your self is the best advice I can give. You will find being a slave everything you dreamed of and so much more if you enter this life knowing more of what to expect. If you are meant to be in the lifestyle, you will find that, where you were once only walked through life, you will be gliding on air. Parts of you that never were complete will then become whole. In relinquishing control, you will have freedom: freedom to find and be the person you are inside.

Never forget that, one of the most important requirements for existing in this lifestyle is honesty. Honesty with yourself first. However, you will find that this is not as easy as it sounds. Once you learn to do this, you will find yourself at peace and able to enter your servitude with clearer mind, knowing where you are and where you want to be.

When you accept your Masters collar, you give up all your rights. Your friends, your life - nothing will remain yours. Being a slave means giving up so much more than you would if you were only being submissive. You give up all rights in your life. Slave isn't just a word; it's a way of life, a defined action.

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LadyNoir
 
 Age: 42
  Pennsylvania