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IMPORTANT NOTICE
Apparently, I have to point this out since my obvious orientation is being aggressively ignored. I am straight, I am NOT interested nor will you be the exception to my sexual or romantic orientation.
If you send me a message put effort into your communications please folks. One-liners and messages which show no effort or intelligence on YOUR part will be a low priority at best or at worst ignored!
I am a male Dom-Top who lives in the Central KY area. I am college educated with a concentration in business, computers, finance and also certified in Large Appliance Repair. (Hey, need that trade to fall back on if and when the economy goes to E-coli... just in case.)
I am a refined non-smoker, articulate yet soft-spoken, straight 61, 270 lbs. and built for power. Many accuse me of being a witty INTJ drug-free individual, who loves sushi, science fiction, and kinky women.I have never been part of a 12 step program, never had an STD, I have never been incarcerated nor do I have any baby mommas looking to expose me on some low-class reality TV show. If I had to label myself, I am 65 percent Dominant (Ds) and 35 percent Top. I have literally been in the BDSM community for over over 30 years.
I am an active and known quantity in the local community of Lexington and Louisville KY. In addition, I also run the Magics World (Darkangel DOT com) BDSM Fetish parties (KYFetish DOT Com) the 3rd Saturday of every other month in Louisville Kentucky. If you are looking to find your way into the real-life community I can facilitate that and point you in the right direction.
I detest one line communications. At the very least introduce and tell me something about yourself before you get into your reasons for communication. In short, show some effort. Otherwise, I reserve the right to ignore you. Therefore, give me your best from the first message. All photos are real and of myself with MissAmber and friends.
You can also find me on another site same username called FL where I spend time.
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I am your authority and as a submissive woman you are the glory and reason which powers it.
~ Sir Magic
© 2014 SirMagic Darkangel all rights reserved. |
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Relationship thought of the day:
"If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it."
~ Regina Brett |
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Sir Magic’s Dominants Law #2
The art of Dominance is no different than that of a professional dancer.
At some point you must define your own personal style; discover your inner meaning and where you want to go with it.
Otherwise when the orchestra of life begins to play, you will not be dancing to the music, the music will be dancing you.
~ Sir Magic ~
© Copyright 2004 -2010 all rights reserved |
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“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate….
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our
light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who
am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are
you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small
does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking
so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant
to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of
God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone.
And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people
permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our
presence automatically liberates others.”
~ Marianne Williamson ~
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Wow reading the old stuff from this original profile brings back memories and old emotions.
If you go back far enough and look at the journal dates you'll see I'm a collarme member from the very beginning.
Magic's Law:
Want to make the universe laugh ?
Deem to tell it your life plans...
I didn't make it to Virginia I ended up in Kentucky of all places.... go figure.
" Men are DOGS !!!"
- Oprah Winfrey -
" WOOF !!!"
- Sir Magic - |
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All good things must come to an end they say.
There have been some serious changes in my life. Yes I know I haven't written about them on Magics World and I will. But I must confess I feel very sad leaving the Central Florida BDSM scene and moving to Virginia.
This is one of the few times that there is mixed emotions about closing this chapter of my life and beginning a new one.
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One’s existence can clearly be defined by two singular points within the stream of time. It is our birth and our death. They are the constants of what is the human equation and we have no control over them. This only leaves us the space in between which to influence the variable called destiny and to live our lives. To this end, we are all born incomplete driving every one of us to find that which makes us whole and in the end moving humanity forward.
~ Sir Magic ~
Magic's World http://www.darkangel.com
© Copyright 2004 -2005 all rights reserved |
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Well the Bash was great and people enjoyed my seminar "D/s Relationships: A New Model for a New century." I'll be posting more in a day or so.
Magic |
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"The problem with the Internet is there are so many people consumed by searching for a dream, that when they eventually find it they don't want to believe. They realize they'll have to live up to their expectations of themselves. They begin to fear that the reality will not or can not meet the fantasy. It is here that many discover it is safer to search for a dream they can not have, than to live a reality which can fail."
~ Sir Magic ~ © Copyright 2004 -2005 all rights reserved |
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Over the last month or so I have met some interesting people various Munches and play parties. So many new people, some of them I have to ask the question "why are you here ?" Last month I received confirmation of my presenter proposal to be a lecturer at the Orlando BASH 2004. My Seminar will be "D/s Relationships a new model for a New Century". I have paid my registration fee and I am looking forward to attending another Bash. If you see me, say hello I'm always happy to meet new people. Orlando Bash 2004 Black Beat 2004 Has confirmed my Presenter status and this should be fun. Hell my ugly mug is now on the presenter page as well. Hey, I'm easy it's the small things in life that make me happy *laugh*. For many years, there has sort of has been this disconnect between the Black BDSM Community and the mainstream community. I should point out Black Beat is NOT an exclusively "Black BDSM" convention since many "other races" attend in numbers, especially those non-Blacks who are attracted to Black Dominants and subs. Last year was good this year should be better. My life is changing because I have taken responsibility for the course of my life good or bad. It's been a year since "winter" my alpha slave died and autumn has returned to a vanilla life. As in all relationships you collectively have hopes and dreams.Then one morning you wake up and it all changes. The second great love of your life is gone in the blink of an eye and your other slave leaves because the memories of our family are too much to bare. All this kind of gets a man to reflect on the meaning of life you know ? One day we had hopes and dreams, the next it and she were gone. In the end I'm left to ask, what do I do now ? Where do I go now ? How do I go ? Why should I even bother ? Frankly, I still don't have answers to some of those questions. But it has been a year now and it's time to pull out the map pick a destination, picture an outcome and just make it happen. .. and I bet you subs thought us Dominants had it easy ? Well, we don't and this Dominant isn't ashamed of the fact he is very, very human. Warm Dominant Regards. Sir Magic |
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An acquaintance suggested I post this to my journal even though it will eventually be on my web site. It is my latest essay.
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Thoughts on Dominance - "Speaking to those who would follow"
By
Sir Magic
I am Sir Magic and I am an alpha male, a DOMINANT. (Like that was a news flash huh ?) Those like me dominate because it is natural for us to do so. I am born to it, as an eagle is born to fly. This is not so much self grandiloquence as it is truth. When a natural Dominant walks into a room, they can own it. There is a natural presence which flows from within as natural Dominants project power. Often in our presence people want to follow, to be led. Usually in vanilla group situations, I find males and females automatically deferring to me, asking what they should do. You might think that as a Dominant I would be in heaven, a born alpha male with everyone at my feet. Well in truth, it's a pain in the ass. Just because I'm a Dominant doesn't mean I want the responsibility which comes with leading all the time. Fortunately for me I have learned to "mask" it or turn it off. Regardless, it still causes problems in everyday life. It's particularly hard in the corporate culture, especially when your boss is threatened by you and doesn't understand why. I'm not talking about the cases where he or she knows they are less competent than you or even, the situation where they’re paranoid about you wanting their job. Truth is, in most cases I had no such desire. It's a simple case of instinct vs. intellect. They instinctively want to defer to your will but intellectually know they must be your superior. Thus, a subconscious conflict. End result, usually loss of a job. In my case, being a 6 ft. Black male with 240 pounds of imposing muscle mass doesn't help either. I exist, therefore, I can intimidate. The fact I have NO such intent is irrelevant when it comes to a closed mind. This simple but true reality is something most men of color and any woman can relate to. There are Dominants out there who Dominate because they are "Control Freaks" and must be in control at all times. Controllers need constant assurance that their out of control life is under control. Usually they seek to control every aspect of a slave’s life. They are not happy unless they are debasing or controlling someone. For them, this is not a sensual activity, a part of life. For a control freak, it IS their life. (Not to be confused with "lifestyle".) They live to hear you beg because they need to feel superior, not because a slave needs to be controlled, a yin and yang. But because they pathologically need to debase and control. With a control freak, it is not about your need to submit or your craving for emotional release through debasement, submission or slavery. It will always be about their need to hide their rampant sense of insecurity. "I am in control, because I dominate you. Therefore I must be someone, because I am in control." In a Dominant/submissive relationship, the Dominant's needs do come first but not at the total and complete expense of the slave. Unfortunately, this group will never come to understand a Dominant's power and control comes from within, and NOT at the end of a whip, flogger, or crop or by calling you a worthless fuck pig. We are empowered by those who need our Dominance, NOT by our existence. For you young Dominants who are exploring for the first time, take heed and look inward and ask yourself. "Why am I really here?" "Why do I Dominate?" "Which do I like more, the power or the sex?" "Is Dominance for me a sexual act or a spiritual science?" True Dominance comes from within. Before you seek to be Master to another you must first Master yourself. Otherwise, your DOM/sub relationships will not succeed long term. This isn't about getting your rocks off exclusively. This is about power, discipline and control. Seek to Master these things first and when you do, you will have more opportunities to "get off" than you can honestly satisfy. I've been doing this for 22 years now. I'm not an expert and I make NO such claim. But I am one who has walked this path before you. I have been where you stand now and where you will be tomorrow. Whether or not you choose to listen and learn is a fate which only you can Master. Warm Dominant Regards Sir Magic Copyright 2000 -2004 Sir Magic and Magic's World All rights reserved. |
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