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Male Dominant, 32, Manville, New Jersey
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Male Dominant, 32, manville, New Jersey
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Male Dominant, 60, Baltimore, Maryland
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About SirLoinheart
This lifestlye has consumed much of the past three years of my life, and I am very lucky to have spent much of that with my current girl. Throughout our relationship we have worked together to try a great many things, ranging from knifeplay to shirbari; needleplay to ageplay. My path, however, has been a complicated one; I started out working with boys, and it feels that the time has come to delve into that once again.
My girl is my life, and she isn't going anywhere. However, we have decided that the time has come to add a boy to our group. Although you would be around one another, she has no real desire to interact with anyone else, therefore any boys would be my toys alone. We are looking for someone who is flexible, who communicates well, and most importantly open minded. Experience (or lack of such) is not a major issue; it is just as much fun trying things with newbies as it is with old pros. Sex is not out of the question, but would not play a major role early one. Self control is also crucial; if you cannot keep reasonable control of yourself emotionally I strongly suggest you find a full time, monogamus partner to start with.
In addition to our search for playmates, my girl and I are always looking for new people to meet and learn from. If you're in the area or just want someone to talk to, drop us a line and say hi. |
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What we're seeking:
After a lot of discussion on the matter, my girl and I have come up with some ideas for what we'd like to add to our mix (one day we hope to have a leather family of sorts).
I am personally seeking a boy. This boy would serve me almost exclusively, but would be required to treat my girl with respect. He should also be open to having her around most of the time, including playtime. I'm not picky about what form their submission manifests itself in, be they CD/TG, a masochist looking for a beating, a serving boy, or even someone looking to be "Daddy's boy". I love trying new things and am always open to new ideas. Bisexuality is a plus but not a requirement.
Together, we are seeking a woman to be a Mommy to her, but a sub to me. A switch, who enjoys domming women but submits to men, would be a great fit for us. An open mind is a requirement. Past that we are fairly flexible. Sex would not be a requirement. |
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With the warmer weather moving in, I plan to spend a lot of time in the garage trying my hand at toymaking. On the shortlist are stocks, canes, paddles, and floggers. Anyone else out there interested in making their own gear? |
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I find myself a little concerned about some of the profiles I see on here, as well as some of the messages I've gotten. It would seem that some folks are looking for someone who will "destroy" them, taking away their self esteem or even their quality of life. I must ask, what use is a destroyed slave?
A slave's value (in my opinion) is determined by the quality of service, her loyalty to her master, and her overall attitude. A slave who has no confidence in herself can lack confidence in her service. Lack of confidence decreases the quality of the service itself.
Lastly, the "nuclear" option. Some dipshit online destroys a person's self esteem, then ditches them. The result is a complete mess that can take much time to repair, with potentially great emotional damage to a submissive. Tell me, what is to be gained from that?
Folks, be careful. I've heard plenty of horror stories in my time in the community, I hope to not hear any more.
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