SirHurricane

I can remember when I first entered BDSM, it was bloody scary ( I entered our world as a submissive ) I was very lucky as my first Dominatrix was sane, interested in teaching me and going slow working within my limits. So remember that your gift of submission is exactly that YOUR gift and as such should be cherished by whoever you give it to. As a sub you have a duty foremost to yourself, your safety is in your hand so be careful, with initial contacts and guard your privacy until you are sure with who you with to begin a real/life journey. I am not trying to scare you but it is your body, your mind and as such you have rights. Rights to set limits ( activities, pain levels and location ). Finally when you do have everything sorted in your mind and you take your first stuttering steps in to the wonderful world of BDSM. You will find that it is indeed a truly fantastic world. I hope we can get to know each other and ask as many questions as you like

I known many Dominants in this world of BDSM and I have found that in general, that yes we do miss our subs. A good dominant must and should always pay attention to aftercare and pre-care of subs. It is a truly a great honour that subs give us when we are trusted to train and mould them into the submissive they so desire. Most dominants ( well the worthy ones at least ) understand that the journey is not simply about using a sub then throwing them away until the next session. A true Dominant is always looking to hone his/her methods and techniques. This is truly only achieved when a sub has learnt to trust and respect a dominant. So all Dominants should always remember a new sub relationship is like a new life we must nuture and respect it. That way the experience is allowed to grow and blossom in a way that is beneficial to all