SirenofSin

I mean....... wtf?! LOL  Is this guy kidding? Is this the general opinion here?

To those few of you that I have connected with, and have provided means of contact outside of this site... I look forward to continuing our communications and exchanging thoughts with you again soon.

 *deep sigh*

Though I see that the site has made some interesting and useful changes since I last frequented here, things haven't changed much in the  characteristics of the majority of the site's population... at least, those throngs finding their way into my mailbox anyway........

Some clarity...... (though I fear it will do little to help the clutter of my mailbox)

#1> I am seeking a Dominant..... not a switch... not a Domme... and I do not need to be convinced there isn't a difference. You have your opinion, I have mine.... let's end it there... and part on friendly terms. Agreed?

I seek a Dominant... dedicated to his control, training, and dominance over me.  One wise enough to know when to offer guidance... and when to demand obedience. One that understands the intricacies of respect... and the importance of trust working both ways. I seek to serve a man strong of body... but more so of mind.

#2> I am NOT able to relocate... NYC is my home and will be so for at least another 8 more years before relocating even becomes a possible option for me to even ever consider. If you cannot, or have no desire to, or cannot see yourself as being able to relocate BEFORE contacting me..... please do not contact me telling me you have an interest in me possibly becoming your submissive. I am not interested in entangling myself within the melodrama of distance and despair the limitations of living in different states bombards upon the souls once attachment has been achieved, or even begun. 

I have been too deeply hurt by this sort of situation whereas I believed and trusted and surrendered only to find out integrity and honor dismissed in the face of the reality of relocating. My soul carries the scars.

If you do live outside of NYC and I respond,  you have managed to capture my attention.... if I do not respond, you can assume that I have not been moved to remove the matter of distance as a strong deterent.

#3> I have not listed polyamorous relationships as an interest. Those of you seeking to 'add to your family,'  consider this statement as my decline of your offer. Those of you seeking a submissive for your alpha subs, I must also decline.

#4> I have provided a photo here on my profile. If, for whatever reasons, you have opted to omit one from your profile, I would greatly appreciate that you attach one with your initial mail of interest.  Omitting one from your mail, does not impress upon me it being a matter of  "dominance" or "anonymity", simply signifies to me either signs of selfishness, neglect, a player, or cloaking one's true identity. If you're real... this IS the first indication I view as you being so.

If you are one that disagrees with the above, I am not suited for you. 

I receive an incredible amount of mail.  And it is becoming an incredible nuisance to have to deal with missives of offers I have no interest in, and have stated quite plainly so, if one were only to take the time to actually read anything past looking at the photo. 

I apologize... to those of you who have taken the time and effort of actually reading my words... for my delay in replying to your message. I respond to intial mails in the order they are received. Please be patient and be assured that I will respond. 

Respectfully,
Siren