SireChaos

I have been interested in the lifestyle since I was 16 years old. Since I spent 10 years in the army, I have not had a chance to dabble seriously in it. Now I believe it is time for me to become more serious about it.

I would like to find a sub or a switch who I could spend time with and enjoy our time together. I need a strong woman who while being able to submit to me but can also stand up to me and not back down. I am also a very physical person and need a woman who can handle that.

I am not interested in being 24/7 Dominant, nor can I call a woman, any woman, a slave. I need a balance between friendship, relationship and D/s. I could not treat a woman as a property nor can I treat her as being beneath me.

I enjoy many extremes in life, from sports, to other activities. Jumping out of aircraft or sliding down a mountain with a board strapped on my feet at high speeds are the sure way for me to get a rush. I hope to find a woman who is wickedly capable to give me as intense of a rush.

In BDSM, I enjoy many different types of play. I have experience with bondage, rope play, all sorts of restraints, improvised bondage, medical play (I am Trauma A Med cert.), E-Stim, Impact play (whips, floggers, paddles), and posturing. Recently, I had a chance to try violet wand and have since purchased a kit and learning various methods of how to use it. I also have conducted military interrogations, and still have my uniforms. I am also very handy at building various fixtures for bondage use, and making some bondage toys (building my own flogger set now actually).