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iowasubjim
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Welcome to my dark cozy den,,,, enter at your own risk into the shadows of darkness…….
I am me, very different in many ways. My taste very as much as the fall winds change directions.
For me honesty means a lot, for with honesty comes trust and with those two you can build a great friendship and maybe more. Even though honesty hurts some times, one is better being honest than to lie.
Respect is important, I simply respect others, and thier profiles and what they seek. Other wise I don’t hound you chase you simply because I think in my eye your sexy. I show respect in the chat rooms, follow the rule yada yada.
I believe in communication, with the modern world there is excuse not to. I communicate aka email/pm/chat with my friends. So if we become close I do expect simple communications…say hi by busy today. Simple easy to do communications means a lot. Fail to communicate….get lost!!
Once you become a friend, I will always be there as one. If we click and feel the some thing and things go forward, , your mine and I am yours,,, but some time things change, and with changes, people grow distant. And sad to say that’s life.
What do I seek, I seek to feed the hunger I have deep in my soul. Yes many seek that elusive real time connection, which is great, but to be honest I will not relocate, nor do I expect some one to relocate to remote Montana. So the ideal thing for me is online for now. Yes that word online,,,,
Yes I like Dominating, both women and men. Yet also have a taste to serve a Lady, but if you a male and want me to serve you….forget it, move on….byeee….
So I hope to meet some cool people, who share the same thoughts as mine, chat with them, and more if it comes to that. If not oh well life goes on.
If you are rude crude basically an ass, shit dont smell, I am better than you simple because you think so,,, dont waste my time nor yours.
See ya around……….
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Rude….
I wonder how some define rude here on collarme, seems I am a very rude person…
I have seen smiple trolls who come to a room, asking to be whipped used hard…and pm without permission.
Ah but yet when I simply say something on my mind as to why I am in a room I get told in PM/IM I am rude…and that was “I am here to se friends, not seeking”..…interesting.. and very rude as well…… |
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Are you the type who has a closed mind to new things or an opened one?
Some come here with their minds closed. Some seem to be eager to be single minded on many things. Some seem so closed to how others are view the life style. And then same are closed minded to those who have a different taste, such as knife play, golden showers, or Daddy/daughter etc play. If two adults consent to do what ever how ever is between those two,,, I feel.
Or do you have an open mind. Are you happy to see two together who are happy between them selves? Or the fact two or more like certain play and are pleased with it, can you be open minded enough to be content for them?
I try top be open minded. As far as others go, they like cool…. For me I am willing to try new things, have done so in the past will do so in the future. For this life style one needs to try new things, turn you do it, turns you off don’t. If your other half wants to try some thing new keep an open mind, you can always learn it from some on who knows how to and is willing to teach you.
So I say keep an open mind, explore new things, chase a feeling, discover something that been hidden from you… |
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Those who are quiet usually gain most in the end,
Yet usually loose the their chance to find what they seek |
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A Tribute to Faithers aka Faith
Early Monday the world lost a good person. Faithers as I called her was one person you were glad to call a friend.
She always said Hi to all who came into a room even the person who was unknown.
She would always have a story to share with those with a hungry ear
She shared her wisdom, when you asked her to help on a subject.
She always at Whips side, were they both shared a special love so few realize.
She would voice her view, but even in anger she would remain a friend, just remind you, you did wrong.
To my friend…. I give you one last…
Bear hugs……….. |
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you knowhold the close freindships you build close to your heart,,,,, because you can loose then very fast.. in a second...
Good Bye My Friend, May You Find What You Had, You Will Be Missed................. |
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hope you all have a great weekend. I am off for it, might be on might not be,,,,,hard to tell,,, so have fun be safe... |
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So some see online as a joke others see it as a savor. Is there a half medium were both coexist?.... well depends on who you talk to……
Yes when you in a large area were the population basically is cheek to cheek. Where when you drive 100 miles you have 3,000,000 people living. Where your chances of finding the other half of what you need and crave is close at hand.
But when distance is so great, a simple airfare cost hundreds of dollars, a simple hop on the bus becomes a journey in it self. And the population is when you drive that short distance of a 100 miles you might find 30,000 people max. Some time online its all you have.
So is it better to have something than nothing? Something is better than nothing…..at least to me |
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Light ….. …flame… radiance….. glow
(when you read this poem/thought the black goes with the black and red goes with the red...)
Like a moth circling a flame…
Are you attracted to some thing in the life style
Round and around…..
Always going around and around…seeking
Circle after endless circle….
On a endless journey
Never ending till you finally reach the flame…..
Till you finally find what attracting you to the BDSM
Do you fly away at the last second…
Knowing it is not what you sought after all.
Or just fly into the flame……
Blinded by need and want
For your final voyage……
Never again to seek what you were attracted to in the first place |
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| So your hot,,,they are hot |
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So your hot….
Yup you need to snap the whip….
you need to feel the tip of the whip on your ass
You have the hot desire to ties the sub up
you hunger with desire to be tied up…
The hand is hurting to spank that subs ass…
the ass needs to feel the sting of a hand hitting the ass
The need to feel a tongue giving you oral….
tongue is wagging to be used in giving oral
The need to slap that bitch sub is overwhelming
sub looks to be bitched slap overpowering………..
Yes all these feelings can be overpowering to both the Dom/Domme sub/slave, sadly to a point where common sense gets thrown out the door.
Where simple decisions are tossed into the wind. When good judgment becomes over shadowed with simple lust and need.
All is lost because of the need, and after the high of the need wears out, so do the feelings, and another relationship fails simply because time was not taken to get to know one and another. | |
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The game we play and the rules we play by
So when you go online how do you play by the rules?
Say profiles, the individual you see and find, be it form a chat room, search engine, or what ever, you finally go “hot damn”
As you read the profile you find they are seeking some one young,,, say 30 or younger and your 50, or the other way around. DO you say fuck it and chase them down trying to change their mind?
Or say they are in to only women or men, and will your not what they seek. Again do you try and convert them,,,
Or do you simply move on, find some one else…..
SO you head to a chat room, some one catch your eye,,, and poof you IM them right away,,, even thought the room rule is NO IM’ing unless you ask first in the room.
Do you pursue some one even though they ask you to bug off your not there type?
Well for me its simple your in a room, and they say no IMing,,, then you don’t unless you ask. On a profile I look at says no men or no women or I seek a young hot 12” stud,,, well again I just move on.
As for simply showing respect to those in the room its easy that’s a no brainier.
For me why waste my time, and yours if there is no connection…. Its so simple to play the rules, make friends and discover new things in time….. |
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| Age: 26 |
| Klamath Falls,
Oregon |
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