Sir4CSsubJournal

First time giving head

Sam, a hetero submissive, went to a professional Mistress for a first session with her.? He'd played many times with multiple Mistresses, so he was experienced.? This lady was a 'no sex' Mistress, but had a diverse menu and Sam liked new experiences, plus sometimes they said 'no sex' in the ad for legal purposes, but would include a hand job.? He liked the suspense of not knowing.??

She was dressed in a hot Dominatrix outfit, and he was instructed to strip naked and kneel at her feet.? Since it was their first meeting, she asked him about some of the fantasies he'd mentioned when booking the appointment and what he'd actually done.? Her final question was "Tell me about your most perverted and scary fantasy, even if you never want to do it."? He looked down at the floor, and after hesitating, said being forced to suck a real cock.? He said he'd sucked strapons, but never a real cock.? She asked him "Do you think you'd ever actually do that?"? and he said he might.? "What if I brought in someone right now for you to suck - would you do that?"? Sam swallowed hard, his heart pounding with dread and excitement.? He got off on being extreme, and thought she just might be testing him, as they were in her apartment and there was no sign of anyone else.? So he said "Yes, Mistress."

Sam was shocked when she then said "I have a slave that is cleaning my apartment right now.? If you are serious, then I will order him to come in here for you to suck.? He will wear a condom, and you will both be blindfolded.? So now we find out how perverted and submissive you really are."? His dick, which was hard from the moment he got on his knees, was now rock hard.? He had never considered doing it for real, it was just an extreme submissive thought.? His complete arousal at being pushed, and the drive to be an exceptional sub combined to get him to agree.? He timidly nodded his head.? "I asked you a question, I expect a proper response."??

"Yes, Mistress, I will do as you command."

"I am going to talk with him and explain the situation.? Unless he uses his safe word, I will bring him back here.? I am going to put this blindfold on you, and you are to stay kneeling here with your hands behind your back."? After a few minutes he heard footsteps.? The Mistress said "He has agreed to let you suck his cock like a good little bitch.? I expect you to do a good job.? NO TEETH"? She had him sit on the side of the bed, and she led Sam crawling over between his legs.? He heard her whispering to her slave, and massaging his cock.? When he got hard, she had him put on a condom.? "Alright my new cocksucking bitch, stick out your tongue"? He did, and he felt the cock push against it.? "Lick it" she ordered.? He began to tentatively lick with only the tip of his tongue, staying as far back as he could.? "Put it into your mouth NOW" she ordered.? This was the moment of truth.? He was so excited to by doing this completely submissive act at Mistress?s command that he did not hesitate.? He put his lips around it and gently licked the head.? Sam could see a little bit at the edges of the blindfold, and saw that it was a young thin Asian man, and that she was?whispering in the slaves ear and playing with his nipples.? "Suck him like you wish I would suck you, faggot".? Sam started to bob his head up and down, using his tongue on the underside, and being careful to avoid teeth.? She continued to whisper and play with her slave.? After about five minutes her whispering became more intense. ?Sam felt the cock get harder in his mouth, and the slaves body tense.? Suddenly he could taste cum through the condom, which freaked him out.? He stopped, probably ruining the slaves orgasm. ?Sam's cock was now as hard ever, and dripping precum.? He was totally turned on because he had sucked someone off, and gone farther than he'd thought he could.??

Sam was ordered to turn around on his knees as the slave cleaned up and left the room.? Sam's mind was spinning and his cock was throbbing.? The rest of the session was fine, but it paled in comparison to the kinkiest thing he had ever done.? Unfortunately for Sam, the Mistress really was a 'no sex' provider, and Sam did not get an orgasm in the session.? However he did jack off to the memory many times, and is one of his fondest memories.?

Submissive visitor, part 2b

I laid on the bed and had him kneel between my legs and lick my scrotum.  I then instructed him on how to take my cock into his mouth, how to lick, suck, bob his head, use his hands on my body to stimulate my erogenous zones as he sucked, reminding him to focus on the dick licking while multitasking.  I had him try to swallow my cock, but he was not able to hold it at all, quickly gagging and pulling away.  He was very good at licking the head, and I enjoyed myself greatly while providing constant feedback and instruction.  I did have to pull away a couple of times as I got very close.  I pointed out the signs he needs to recognize so that he can ease back a little bit to keep me near the edge without ending my fun.  When it was time to cum, told him that I was going to fuck his throat.  If he was able to not pull away before I came, then I would allow him cum.  I grabbed two fistfuls of hairs and started fucking all the way in.  He struggled, gagged, his eyes were watering, but he fought through it.  Fortunately for him, I was very close to cumming when I started, so it only took about a minute.  He took my load, swallowed, and kept sucking until I told him he could stop.

I told him to stand by the desk in the room and edge himself.  I said I was going to give him permission to cum, but when I did he would only be able to touch himself for 30 seconds, then he had to take his hands off of his cock no matter what.  If he didn't I was going to dump the bucket full of melting ice and water on him.  After I had fully recovered from my orgasm, I stook next to him.  When he seemed to be losing the edge a little bit, I said "Cum now bitch" and started the timer on my phone.  He'd been denied and very horny for so long that he came almost immediately.  The first spurt went at least a foot, then the rest of his large load followed in a puddle right below his cock.  When the timer went off, he let go.  He started to thank me, but I interrupted, reminding him he needed to lick up his mess.  He hesitated for a moment, then cleaned his cum of the desk with his tongue. 

I got dressed while he kneeled in front of me.  I complimented him on his service, and asked if enjoyed being my submissive bitch boi.  He admitted that he had not been so aroused, nor shot cum like that in a very long time.  I let him know that I would love to provide some more training the next time he was traveling to Silicon Valley.  He enthusiastically said he would get in touch.  I took my cock out, had him take it into his mouth, then kiss the head, and say goodbye to it.  I love training new slaves.  When we both enjoy our perverted encounter, it is great.  Even if there are some glitches, it is still fun.  I look forward to his next trip.  

Submissive visitor, part 2a

I called him the next morning, letting him know I was coming by for a short lesson.  I instructed him to prepare himself.  I was going to be there at 9:30, and he was to be waiting naked, on his knees, facing away from the door.  He was to have the door opened so that I can walk in by 9:25.  I positioned myself down the hall in the ice machine alcove, so I could watch the hall after he set up the door, but he didn’t know that.  When I walked in, he couldn’t be positive it was me, adding possible humiliation of being walked in on for him to think about.  I walked in and made a high pitched sound of surprise.  He immediately dove behind the bed and peeked over the top.  I scolded him for moving without permission, had him lay on the bed.  I put clamps on his nipples and whipped his cock and balls with a small cock whip.  I got naked, then removed the clamps.  After the pain subsided, I pinched them both hard, then ordered him on his knees.  I sat on the bed and had him take my cock into his mouth.  I told him to hold still and feel it grow and harden.  I grabbed his head and began to gently move it up and down on my cock.  I spent about 30 minutes instructing him on how to make me feel good.  I got up, told him I had to go, and would be back that evening to finish his training.  I did not do any deep throat as he indicated his throat was a bit sore, and I didn’t want to damage my toy and make it unusable later.  By getting sucked but not cumming, I enjoy my time then, and I am more aroused for the next time, increasing my pleasure.  For me, being hard and aroused brings me the most pleasure.  While I love cumming, it ends the intense pleasure, so I do delay the most intense moment to enjoy a much longer period of high level pleasure.  I instructed him to edge at least four times, at least 30 minutes apart, before I returned.

That evening I came in and had him quickly edge while I got undressed.  His cock was dripping, and I had him lick up his precum.  I asked him how horny he was, and he said he had not been as hard or excited in years.  I pointed out the his dick was rock hard right now, and leaking cum, because he has been and will be sucking a cock.  I told him is was my cock sucking sissy bitch, and he was there because it fulfilled his sexual desires.  I let him think about that for a minute, then asked him if he was happy that I showed him that he wants and needs to suck cock.  He actually blushed, and mumbled yes.  I slapped his face, and reminded him he is always to call me sir.  

A Submissive Visitor

I had a visit from a distant sub who added a couple of days and a slight detour to a business trip.  He had sucked cock a few times in the past, but primarily had served Dommes, but said he was compelled to get trained to do it well.  He had practiced deep throat as instructed in my Journal.  He had a hotel room close to my home.  We had three sessions during his two day visit.  Our Agreement included light to moderate pain and verbal humiliation.  No watersports, bruising, rimming, or third parties were his additions to my limit list.

When we met in his room the first time, he was very nervous.  I confirmed that he had re-read our Agreement, and was ready to submit to me within those boundaries.  He was looking down and quietly said "Yes, Sir".  I dropped my pants, stood in front of him, told him to get on his knees and look at my cock.  I then asked him again if he wanted to proceed with the session.  If he said yes, then I was in full control of him until I left.  He quietly agreed again.  I grabbed him by the hair, tilted his head up, looked him in the eyes, and said "ARE YOU SURE, BITCH BOI, BECAUSE I'M HAVING TROUBLE HEARING YOU!"  

He said "Yes, Sir" in a stronger voice.  

"Good"  I quickly got naked and stood in front of him again.  

I guided him to kiss, lick, and suck my cock.  He was hesitant and struggling, so I stopped and began to give very specific commands.  "Lick the underside of my cock", "Fondle my balls", "Suck on the head", "slide your mouth slowly up and down".  After about 10 minutes of constant instruction, he began to get comfortable.  I asked him if he liked sucking my cock, and he nodded enthusiastically, keeping my cock in his mouth.  I told him that he was a cocksucking faggot now.  I moved onto the bed, and had him suck my cock so that I could swat his ass with my belt.  I used the belt to remind him that I was in control, and to make sure he understood when he wasn't meeting my standards.  I hit him hard three times in quick succession when his teeth scraped the head of my cock.  When he fingered my asshole, he noticed my response, and I could sense his excitement at turning me on.  I had him practice his deep throat, and he had some success, but was not able to handle it for long.  

We continued for about an hour and a half, taking short breaks and changing positions so that he could remain comfortable enough to properly service me.  At one point, I had him lay with his head over the side of the bed, and I fucked his mouth while pinching his small nipples and whipping his cock and balls with a Cat o nine tails.  When I fucked him deep, he would gag and push me away.  A pity I won't have the time to train his throat to accept a vigorous face fucking.  I was working on having him edge me, and on the second edge he went too far, and I came.  I did warn him I was going to come, and he obediently locked his lips around my cock.  He did not flinch, taking my cum and swallowing it down without any problem.  I reminded him to keep gently sucking me until I told him he could stop.  After about 5 minutes more I told him I was done with him.  I got dressed, and before I left, I pulled my cock out and told him to give it a goodbye kiss, which he did.  I told him he could jack off all he wanted thinking about what he did, and about our next meeting, but he was not allowed to cum.

He was not skilled, but he was obedient and enthusiastic.  So while it was not an exceptional blowjob that I receive from my long time subs, I had a wonderful time having my hard cock being serviced for about 100 minutes, finished off by a good orgasm.  A great experience.  Thank you Collarspace.  

If there is an interest, I will post about our other sessions.

Agreement

I enter into a written Agreement before having a session with a new sub or slave.  It is important to have a clear understanding of what can happen in a session before meeting.  I have found that the primary cause of a disappointing session is mismatched expectations.  I want all sessions to be a positive experience for all involved, so having detailed negotiations between equals to spell out the boundaries and limits of our power exchange is important for me.  This is the message I send to my potential sub when we begin our negotiations.

Purpose of our agreement:

The purpose of this agreement is to clearly spell out the possible activities, boundaries, and limits for our Master / submissive relationship so that we both understand what to expect in our sessions.  This allows us both to have our complimentary kinks fulfilled in a positive and enjoyable fashion while avoiding any unpleasant surprises.

Master enjoys the exercise of power and control.  After sessions, the Master is pleased because his perverted desires were well served by his eager sub.  His sexual cravings have been satisfied.  He has experienced exerting power and control over a strong and successful person that gave him the authority to use the sub for Master's selfish pleasure.   

The submissive enjoys making Master happy, is aroused and gratified by being used sexually, takes pride in serving selflessly and obediently.  The submissive is happy to have experienced subspace by focusing on Masters wants and needs.  The sub has the satisfaction of learning how to please me.  The sub is proud to have endured any pain or discomfort.  Any challenges met during the session give the sub a sense of accomplishment.  Being recognized as a successful submissive by Master provides well earned self esteem for the sub.

Ruining your orgasm. 

Here is how I like my sub to ruin their orgasm for me.

You will bring yourself right to the edge.  When you are there, you will tighten the pelvic muscle that makes your cock jump and hold it.  You will slowly bring yourself over the edge.  As soon as you start to cum, you will squeeze the base of your cock.  You will hold the squeeze and continue to clench your pelvic muscle until the orgasm has completely subsided.  At that point you will relax the muscle and your grip, letting your cum ooze out where you will collect it so that you will be able to eat it all.

Who Might Enjoy Being My Sub

Here are some of the kinky and submissive traits that serving me can fulfill.

You have a deep need to be treated as a slave, or to be objectified.  It is hard for you to express it, but even when you do, people don’t believe you.  Maybe you have found that Dommes are worried about you being okay rather than taking advantage of your submission for their own pleasure.  I am safe, sane, and consensual.  If you tell me you want something, I will believe you.  We will negotiate the limits for your submission, and you will be used fully for my pleasure per our agreement.  If it is part of your kink, you will experience pain, and/or humiliation of your submissive persona.  I do enjoy providing the severity that the sub craves, watching them struggle with their fantasy becoming intensely real.    

Your dicklet doesn’t get hard much anymore, and/or you can’t cum.  Serving me with no reciprocation takes all the pressure off.  Your lack of an erection does not affect our play at all, and not having to think about you cumming works for me.  By servicing me you will get to play with a hard dick for a change.  You will make cum shoot out of a hard cock, right into your mouth.

You have always been hetro, but have thought about sucking a real cock.  There have been many men that have viewed the profile named Sir4CockSuckingSub that list themselves as hetro. You hate the idea and you still want to know what it would be like.  I will give you that experience, including training on how to do it well.  If you discover it is not for you, I still will be happy to have had you suck my cock that once.  If you do like it, I will let you practice as much as you want. 

Good Enough is Great

I am thrilled to meet with someone who wants to suck my cock but has no interest in any other kinks.  Whether you are gay and like sucking cock, or someone who has fantasized about sucking cock but never has, or anywhere in between, I would like to have my cock in your mouth.  Don’t worry if you have no interest in my other perversions, they are not important.  Getting sucked off is what I need, anything else is fun if we both want it.  So don’t let the perfect be the enemy of the good.  If you are okay with the requirements in my profile, and would like to explore our compatibility, send me a message.  If we aren’t a match, all that’s lost is a little time.

I had one sub agree to meet me.  He sucked me off twice.  The second time he asked a number of questions before he left.  Did you enjoy it?  Did I do a good job?  Do you want me to suck you again?  He never came back again.  I think he had a Mistress that sent him to me to fulfill his fantasy to be forced to suck cock.  I’ll never know, but I don’t care.  I am happy that I got two sessions with an eager cock sucker.  He was not especially skilled.  For me, there is no such thing as a bad blowjob if the sucker is enthusiastic about pleasing me.  As long as you want to suck me, I will be happy to have a session with you.  Don’t cock block yourself by not reaching out.

Distant subs

If you are interested in serving me, but are far away, keep me in mind in case you ever happen to be traveling to the San Jose, CA area.  I would be happy to use and train a visiting cocksucker.  If you do anticipate traveling and would have the desire and opportunity to service me, reach out a couple of weeks ahead of time. I need to come to an agreement with any sub regarding the boundaries of our session, which can take a little time. I will have to arrange my schedule to make myself available to use you during your visit.

One fantasy of mine is to have a cocksucker on call, when I simply text that I am coming.  I proceed to the room, go in, and get serviced by my submissive cocksucker until I am satisfied.  Then I leave.  Simply use them as my sex toy.  This isn’t what I expect to happen with a visitor, but if it works for you, I’d love that.

Kinky Dream

This an email I sent to my slave regarding a dream I had that I knew he would love that others may enjoy.

I woke up rock hard dreaming of you.  We were at a restaurant, and when the waitress came over I introduced you as my bitch boi.  I ordered a steak sandwich, and I told the waitress that I was going to pay $50 total, regardless of what the bill was.  I said she was to order for you.  I said there was an extra $10 if you didn't eat it all up.  She smirked, and went to put in the order.  She brought my steak sandwich, and for you she had two pieces of burnt toast.  On top was her spit.  She said it was much better than butter.  I asked her if they had any apple juice, and she said no.  I told her that if she brought you a glass of something the same color as apple juice, I'd make you wash down your lunch with it.  Her eyes got wide, she walked into the kitchen, came out with a juice glass held hidden in her hand, and went into the bathroom, which was right past our table.  She came out, glanced around, then surreptitiously put the cup of warm piss next to your toast.  Seeing your humiliation and your struggle to eat while I enjoyed my delicious food was a great turn on.  I told her that ideally you'd be under the table sucking me while I ate, but we can't do that in public.  She said she worked at another restaurant at night that had long tablecloths, and one table where it would be possible for that to happen without anyone being able to see.  As dreams do, we were magically there, and you were sucking me under the table while she was bringing our food.  I was about to cum when I woke up with my cock throbbing.  Almost had my first wet dream in many years.  I tried to go back to sleep and get back into the dream, but that never works.

Deep Throat Training

Since it takes a while for the throat muscles to learn to relax, and the throat tends to get sore for a day or so after the first time, I am going to give you some homework that will allow you to develop the skills.  This way you will better able to serve me from our first meeting.  Learning to deep throat is simple, it just takes time and persistence. Get a dildo that is not too wide. Anything at least 5 inches long will do. Having one that has some give, like a real cock, it better than hard plastic.  You can also use an unripe banana or a cucumber. 

The technique is to progressively desensitize your gag reflex. You start by sucking on it, and slowly taking it in a little deeper into your mouth until you feel it start to trigger the gag reflex. Hold it there as long as you can.  If you feel like you are about to gag, hold still and swallow. You will gag and have to pull away, that is okay. Recover and do it again many times. You will do that multiple times a day. Your gag reflex will begin to relax. You will be able to take it deeper and deeper over time. The more you practice, the faster your will progress.

When you have gotten to the point where you are able to push it up to sphincter where your throat closes, you will be ready to start to deep throat.  You will push the dildo past the sphincter, forcing it open.  Your gag reflex will be intense.  Try to swallow the dildo.  You will gag, your eyes will water, and it will seem impossible.  It isn’t, it is just a difficult and time consuming process.

The good news is that if you really want to succeed, you can do it. It is not easy, and it is not fun, but it is definitely doable.