Sir213

I am an intelligent, professionally successful, passionate, hedonistic, and sexually Dominate Male with a wicked sense of humor and some very decadent proclivities. I have a great life and am quite fulfilled except for one thing - someone to love and live a life filled with wild, kinky pasttimes until we're too old to work up a sweat!

I have no past traumas that draw me to this lifestyle. I don't know why, but I definitely know that BDSM and all that it entails turns me on in ways vanilla sex cannot. I am not a Master, but rather a sexual Dominate.

My 12-year long ongoing exploration of the Dominate aspect of my personality has not always been easy, but it was absolutely necessary. Is it part of who I am and I accept it fully. After unsuccessfully trying to get my former girlfriend involved, or at least accepting, I finally had to acknowledge that I could no longer be fulfilled within a vanilla relationship, and thus I seek what my heart, mind, body and soul needs and deserves.

In regards to vanilla activity though I do enjoy a variety of things and would love to find a partner who can work out with me (to get my former football body back), cuddle on the couch, enjoy fancy outings, etc.etc.! My main photo posted here was taken in September 2005.

Ideal Person:
I am seeking a total relationship both in and outside of the lifestyle, with an unmarried, highly to somehwat experienced Submissive Female (no switches). While marriage is not necessary, I do hope to meet my soulmate for a lifetime, live-in relationship.

But I also want to do 'vanilla' things with my partner, just as we would if our sexual preferences were more mundane. After all, I am not defined by my sexuality, and hope you are not either.

If you are serious and not just looking for a sex partner, please write to me.