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Male Switch, 38, Beijing
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Male Dominant, 26, Raleigh, North Carolina
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Male Switch, 24, Tampa, Florida
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About SinOfDreams
I like:
- Broccoli
- Spicy food
- Honesty
- The yellow color
- Nicolas Cage movies
- Loyalty
- WWII
- Sending lists of the things I like and dislike
- Respect
- Having fun
- Swimming in the ocean
- Taking her out for dinner in an italian restaurant
- Speaking english
- Accents
- Gilligan's Island
- Sending long lists of the things I like and dislike and obviously I like more than I dislike
- Meeting new people
- Getting drunk once in a while
- Laughing
- Make people laugh
- Walking in a forest
- Fishing
- Ending a list of my likes with a sentence that cuts in the m
I dislike:
- Too serious people
- Police officers
- Rudeness
- Diseases
- Mushrooms
- Being sick after I got drunk once in a while.. that's also why I get drunk only once in a while!
- Free violence
- Impatient people
So much for my dislikes. There are more enjoyable things that come to my mind than boring things so as my life continues I'll probably find things I dislike and add them here!
I am a 23 years old Dom. I don't actually like using the capital D for this word as it seems that I accord more importance to the title than to the results!
I will add a picture of myself when I get one. So stay tuned for this important info.
I've been introduced to D/s lifestyle with IRC. I've been frequenting channels like #submissionsex and such and found myself enjoying the conversations going on around there. The way subs are respectful to the doms. The way the subs would do anyhing to please their master.I've been really intrigued by all this and I decided to give it a try. Not only over IRC but also in my own life.
IRC try:I started to mail ladies to see what was on their mind. To see how they see the lifestyle and to learn a bit more about it. I concluded that most of the subs were older women which is not totally bad since I have a mature kink! :)I thought it may be because these women have been living for long and have the experience a younger woman doesn't have. They have seen everything and they know what they want. They know that they are smart enough to choose the right man but they want more than a fulfilled life, they want someone to take care of them, someone to guide them and to punish them when they are disrespectful or just out of line. They need to be cared for!When I first logged on CM I was surprised to see there actually are younger women who call themselves subs. Even though they don't have the same experience I talked about it seems that some women are just 'made' to be!
We'll see! ^^
Real life try:I have never been into hard play as I am more of the romantic guy out there. I like bringing flowers to my girlfriend for no reason and to cook her a special dinner for Valentine's day.. all these things that, I my mind, don't fit with the idea of a dom. (I'd like your feedback about this)As I was single by the time I found out the IRC channels I decided to try and meet a girl that would be interested in being controlled or being my 'Crash Test Dummy'!
She was not hard to find and she already have been intoxicated by the lifestyle as she told me: "Once you start in the lifestyle, you can't actually stop. It changes your entire life and perception of the world." I can't deny it!I've been playing with her for some time. Ordering her to do this and that but this is not entirely how it works. I kept myself informed with IRC and its regulars and tried new tricks each day. From the torture to bondage to spanking and bruising. She was loving it, totally!And so was I!
This girl is what we currently call a 'Fuck friend' which is not really what I want as a sub. I am looking for a beginner sub as I am also a beginner dom. I think a fulfilled sub would ask too much from me at the beginning and I would not be able to follow. I am here to learn! I want to read your opinions on the lifestyle, I want you to tell me what you like and what you dislike about it, I want you to take a bit of your time to let me know!
Picture to come!
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