singularflower

I've been vanilla, I have been edgy and I've been submissive. All of those things are part of me, but my fulfillment comes from expressing my submissive self. I believe that I'm ready to focus on meeting my needs through meeting the needs of a dominant man. I' m not looking for a man who is "dominant in the bedroom." Either you're dominant or you're not, and I prefer men who express it in every area of their lives. Not "on" all the time, just dominant by nature. The man I'm looking for must prefer a competent submissive; I'm not broken and I don't need fixing. You cannot find your strength in contrast to a weakness in me; you'll have it inside of you and I will respond to it. I will empower it. I will adore it.

The so-called "community" of BDSM includes a huge range of people from all walks of life. My standards are high; I seek the same type of person I'd seek in the vanilla world. Someone who is healthy and fit. Well educated and possessed of a sense of humor. Financially sound. I am all of those things. And more.

So, are you out there? If so, what are YOU looking for? I'd like to know, since my first need is to be able to make my Dominant happy. :-)