singleslave

A slave:

A person owned by another -- without rights, without choices, without the ability to drive their own lives and directions. A person whose very existence is at the whim and desire of another. Property. Cherished and loved, but still given over to another to make all decisions for this person. The slave makes one choice, and one choice only. To become a slave. After that, they accept, without question, every decision the dominant makes. The only out is if the Owner tires of or otherwise decides to release the slave back into the wild. There is no negotiation after the initial guidelines have been set up, and the slave must accept everything the dominant decrees. Including being traded or accepting new people into their lives.

A submissive:

One who gives over their own personal power and control to another voluntarily. One who accepts the guidance of a dominant and gives the right of their own decisions/directions/growth to another in most aspects of their relationship. An exchange of power occurs, with both the submissive and the dominant giving equally of their time and emotions. A choice, or gift, that can be withdrawn at any time by either the dominant or the submissive. A submissive has many rights. Including: the right to be respected; the right to negotiate; the right to have levels of control over aspects mutually agreed upon in everyday life; the right to say no; the right to feel equal as a person.

A slave is: ?

            - Owned? 

            - For use - when  - where - the owner decides?

            - No rights & freedom - a slaves is owned and controlled by the owner

 

i see my self as a slave - not a sub