i have been thinking about closing my profile. The fact that i am submissive does not make me stuped. It is only common sence that when one makes a play date or an appomint to meet the first time that a sub might want to meet where she feels safe. I have learned from past experence and i have found not all are what they say they are, and to be truthful a woman no matter sub/slave are putting themselves in a world (bdsm) that could be verry dangerus. In my opinion the lifestyle is bilt on trust, however that trust has to be bilt , it does not just happen.

have a good day and play safe