SinCat

Switch Couple, 33, wichita, Kansas

Male Dominant, 29, colorado springs, Colorado

Male Switch, 51, WesternMass, Massachusetts

Removed my pic and information, it wasn't doing any good. I was attracting people that were only interested in the pic and didn't read. So if you want to see me ask, Im not shy about it and I take good care of myself so Im not ashamed either heh.

Suppose I am a bit confused. I read profiles its what I do when I am bored. I read these submissive fantasies and they are almost entirely fantasies of self gratification... Did I miss something? I love giving actually. I love the female body and the opportunity to play upon it freely is something I just ADORE. However I am a bit curious that so many subs have these deep fantasies that involve only self gratification. I don't think gratification and serving are seperate but I must admit I don't understand this utterly selfish perspective. Maybe if they explained how personal gratification was something that gave their master/dom/mes something in return I could follow... guess I just don't understand. Before anyone flames me I have no issue with someone being pleased. I rather like pleasing myself. However if your whole profile screams "serve!" and your journal screams "self serving" I guess I just get a bit lost.

Well the pic finally got approved, yay! Went to a fetish ball this past weekend. Much fun and way to much dancing. I couldn't move monday I was so sore. I suppose that is what I get for being a hermit all winter and letting my dancing muscles get wimpy =\ Thanks to Master Goliath for the shibari demonstrations, as always a true pleasure seeing the things that man can do with rope. Yay to Saskia and crew for providing other demonstrations. To the guy that had the woman standing on his belly in heels while she was body painted... ouch! Finally getting some mobility in my legs today so I need to plan to go dancing in the next week or two! Oh and not sure if it was the cologne or my buttoned down outfit (pinstripe pants, dress shirt, silk tie, biker boots) or what but I got alot of lady love on the dance floor woo! ^_^

Been gone a long time. Not that I was seeing anyone but just way to busy over the winter to pay much attention to romantical type thoughts. But with spring coming soon I thought to putter back in here and see if fate might have anything in store for me. Decided to simplify my profile a bit and added a picture since that seems to be the first thing I'm asked about by someone wishing to talk. Feel free to let me know what you think but don't be too harsh on the ego if its not your thing!

Do you poor sad girls not realize we can see your flesh melting off your body as you throw up and purge your body. You post 5 pictures and they all prove one thing. You treat your body in a horrific manner. Think about that word, look it up.. horrific. I only date women that are healthy, I can accept chubby but skeletons? Never. Please dear ones, stop doing this to yourself. Stop thinking the pictures of your skeleton with skin melting off it like a candle is a good thing. It simply isn't and it makes my heart ache and my stomach churn.

To that lovely lady we all know, I lean back and look up at the bright sunlit sky with my eyes closed. The warm red light of you shines down so brightly that I sigh contented and snuggle into earths grassy embrace. You caress my skin with a gentle almost shy touch, your attention the soft breeze of a summers wind. Its so warm and safe here.

In response to a few messages from last post. I like spanking, when I refer to SM (below entry) I am reffering ro the real "beat the crap out of someone" book definition of sadism and masochism. However the less than beat-to-hell stuff is fun ^_^ Also I updated and changed my profile. I removed my picture although will gladly share it. I am just not comfortable with the double concept of local information and a local picture viewable by people I haven't at least met enough to have them ask it of me. Last of all I am looking to move. Any of you out there interested in a roomate? >_>

I would link you to my actual journal but really, who the fuck are you? Vulgarity is in my nature but it has a purpose. You should learn it's purpose before you next issue one of the blessed words. Pain is a way of learning and I am not a teacher. Simply a very unwilling student. To all you SM types, you missed the mark, but it is good to see your on the track I suppose. Not that the track does much good to anyone but that is the lesson isn't it? I write these words to the nether. I write these words in hope of proof I have learned. I write these words to find and avoid pain. So it begins. p.s. these words like text to my speech are unable to be presented in the way that I most desire... the pauses and the breaks could be programmed in but really... who has the time

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