SilverShadows

Silvery shadows moving, the taste upon our lips.

This profile is rather long but will answer many of your questions. Despite its length, please read it before writing me. It will give you a good idea about who I am, how I think, and what I expect of others. I am primarily interested in women or femme trans. If you are a man and you write me, you need to capture my interest rapidly and demonstrate you have actually read my profile.

I find I am attracted by this life by the high flights of fantasy, I love dramatic scenes especially drawn out ones. I have an elaborate imagination and love creating living art. I have done kidnappings, pushin's, take downs, candle, and outside bondage. I am also into the 24/7 life style. I am into negotiated living. I have a poly relationship, currently just two of us but there have been others. Some were family, others extended family, and still others peripheral relationships. I believe in the paradoxical condition of power differentials among equals.

I believe a Domme should be a caring person interested in the well being of her sub(s) and peers. In fact I believe that we should all be concerned with everyone’s well being. Honesty, trust, compassion, and serenity rank high on my list of virtues. I look for it in others and I hope I have achieved a fair measure of each of them. I see growth as a primary goal, that never ends, and I strive in my life transcend the illusions of this world. A growth orientation is something I look for in partners and subs. I am not interested in a static life. Even with a sub that starts out as totally dependent, I would aim for their being able to be independent, should they choose to become so.

My interests are many and the scene isn’t even on the top of the list. In a very rough order of priority, my interests are: my partner(s); my daughter (out of the house); transcendental spirituality; psychology; philosophy; my pets (2xdogs & 1xcat); camping/hiking/backpacking; BDSM; silent films, vamp (Bad Girl) films; medieval history (Anglo/Saxon 300 – 1000); 1890-1930 movie postcards; art-nouveau antiques; jazz & blues (1920-1930), electronica, gothic/industrial, and new wave music; romantic/realistic art; and turn of the century doll costumes. I try very hard not to get focused on just one thing. You will note a theme of people who are close to me being very important and my not having much interest in strangers. You will also note an interest in the period for 1890 – 1930. I even live in a house built in 1912, which has room for several more (2-6). But probably topping my list is the whole complex of transcendental spirituality/psychology/philosophy. Finally, what is not on my list of interest is significant: drugs including alcohol, sports (unless you include hiking/walking), scat, degrading others, and anything that will cause death, maiming, or arrest.

I am currently a full time student, between careers. That makes living tight but I manage. I am moving from computer programming to being a therapist. I have an AS in computer programming, a BA with a major in Spiritual Psychology, and am working on a Masters in Marriage and Family Therapy. I hope to eventually have a Ph.D. in Consciousness and Spirituality and both practice spiritual therapy and do research into the interface of Christian Mysticism, Shamanism, and Eastern Transcendental Sciences. I did a four year apprenticeship with a traditional shaman and I am a mystic and Buddhist.

There is far more about me, some of it significant, but each bridge must be crossed in its own time and place.