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About SilverK
I live the values of honor, duty and responsibility. I live by two sayings:
1) Facta, non verba (Deeds, not words)
2) Fairweather honor, is no honor at all.
I would consider a play partner either locally or in Toronto/Vancouver when I'm on trips. I may consider doing some online training for the right submissive. I'm very interested in hypnofetish style play so if you have a hankering for that, we may have something to discuss. I write some hypnoerotica as well. I am NOT a sadist - I'm dominant but do not enjoy inflicting pain. There are other, better and more effective means of control than hitting someone. Drop me a mail if you are interested. Be safe and well. |
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A door closes - a relationship of quite some years ends.
It's sad, and somewhat painful - but at the same time hopeful that both of us can lead better, happier lives.
So, I shall look again. One never knows who one may find, but part of being a dominant alpha type personality is knowing that from each failure arises the opportunity for new triumphs. |
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-Put this in your profile if you know someone who has survived, struggles with or died of cancer...
Saw this on a profile and brought it over. Cancer is a terrible thing and takes far too many good people. |
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Another user, Snowqueen, posted some interesting poetry/lyrics.
I thought she had a great idea so I figured I'd steal it and put up one of my own. This is one of my favorites by Robert Ervin Howard.
The Ghost Kings
The ghost kings are marching; the midnight knows their tread, From the distant, stealthy planets of the dim, unstable dead; There are whisperings on the night-winds and the shuddering stars have fled.
A ghostly trumpet echoes from a barren mountainhead; Through the fen the wandering witch-lights gleam like phantom arrows sped; There is silence in the valleys and the moon is rising red.
The ghost kings are marching down the ages' dusty maze; The unseen feet are tramping through the moonlight's pallid haze, Down the hollow clanging stairways of a million yesterdays.
The ghost kings are marching, where the vague moon-vapor creeps, While the night-wind to their coming, like a thund'rous herald sweeps; They are clad in ancient grandeur, but the world, unheeding, sleeps. |
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Travel...
As part of one of my hobbies I run conventions not only here in Winnipeg but also in both Toronto and Vancouver once a year.
While I'm not about to move to either place (although I enjoy visiting both) it does mean that there is some opportunity for a dart out for coffee and pizza assuming we hit it off in a friendly way. If it that goes beyond to the chance for some play, great. If not, that's fine too.
So if that sounds interesting, feel free to drop me a line. For 2009 I'm in Toronto in mid April and in Vancouver in June.
Be well,
Silver |
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Thinking tonight and perusing various profiles something came to mind.
A lot of folks identify as 'painsluts' etc. etc. Generally folks of the masochistic bent.
I seem to be in the minority, but while I'm dominant, I'm not a sadist. I enjoy control, direction, some bondage and a lot of training/programming type things - but I'm just not into hurting people. I do it occasionally if it seems the right thing for a particular sub and I enjoy the submission that comes from a girl yielding in that way - but the actual act of inflicting pain does nothing at all for me. It may be another means to control, but it's nothing else.
I find it odd that there are so many of the S&M and crowd and so few of the D&S or B&S. Nothing wrong with those things. Whatever makes your boat float, I'm just surprised that it so completely dominates the community.
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Today Michael Crichton passed away unexpectedly from a 'private battle with cancer."
What a sad thing. Andromeda Strain has always been one of my favorite books and always will be. He was a brilliant man and will be missed.
:-)
"To absent friends..."
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My lovely girl pulled her profile.
I can't say as I blame her, really. It kind of saddens me. The constant barrage of fools, morons and disrepectful scum bugging her for photos or mailing with a complete and total lack of respect, class and manners just got to be too much.
We've only had the tiniest of nibbles for folks who might have any potential for sceneing and play, or even friendship. I'll admit to that saddening me.
If you scroll through my photos there is one of the two of us together, so there you go.
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One thing I'm discovering is that a lot of folks seem to think that anyone who at all identifies with 'Gorean' = misogynist jerk.
Umm - no.
While I grant you there seem to be a lot of Goreans like that - those who take it seriously (and are taken seriously) aren't. At least I haven't found that to be the case which is why I identify with them.
Let me be clear - the core philosophy of Gor is natural order. That can and does mean a lot of things but it does NOT mean that everyone with a certain type of plumbing is a downtrodden subbie and wants to be. The books frequently notwithstanding. Even in the books, although not central, there are city states with matriarchal councils who run them, panther girls, women who die rather than accepting slavery etc. Just as there are men who willing give up their freedom to be kajirus as well.
The philosophy of Natural Order is about being what you are. If that's a sub or slave, great. If it's a big dumb alpha male, that's okay too. Just don't be who you aren't as you'll be miserable. Better to die on your feet than live on your knees if you're Free. Better to find the one to submit to if Freedom isn't your inner nature. Yes, folks, regardless of gender.
Other key tenets are those of honor, duty, pride in your career and those things that you do for a living etc. None of those things are easy and many will frequently make life more uncomfortable than simple and easy. But that's just how it is. Trust me on this one - trying to actually LIVE those tenets is both uncomfortable and sometimes costly. In time, money and even occasionally blood. That's the price one pays for living one's convictions.
That's the point - at least the way I see it. Maybe that will make sense to a few folks. |
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My lovely girl decided to start hunting for a play partner (knowing I'd approve - and I also approve of her initiative).
So - if anyone's interested in some FFM play and is either sub or switch and fits the other criteria you'll find laying around here - feel free to drop a line. We can at least chat and see if there is any potential interest. |
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In a girl I expect bisexual or curious, reasonably fit, obedient and intelligent. Generally I prefer younger girls, but that's hardly a 'hard' rule. Anyone up to my own age and a bit beyond will be considered if height/weight proportionate.
No - that last is not negotiable and complaining will get you nowhere save blocked. (Sadly, it has happened.) |
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