Silverhammer5

                                                 What is a Daddy's girl?

I was writing this as part of my profile and I got to wondering what does a Daddy’s girl relationship mean? How does one define it for themselves? Is it the same for everyone? I don't really think so. 

Here is some of what it means to me and what I look for in a Daddy’s girl. Although I have been into BDSM for many years, I have found that each relationship is unique onto itself. I have been a Dominate to a submissive, a Master to a slave and a Daddy to a Daddy’s girl. I enjoy the latter the most. It suits me best for I can spoil my lil girl a bit and she doesn’t have to be a complete 7/24 submissive. But I can be a Daddy to my girl, easily.

I love to have girl be my prized possession, my lil dirty whore. The thrill for me is owning her completely and having her do all the things I teach and train her to do.

To me a Daddy/lil girl relationship has nothing to do with age and more to do with the type of relationship the two have together. The Daddy is the nurturer, the safe one and the object of sexual obsession for his girl.

Girls tend to be very obsessive about their Daddies. One might even say needy for Daddy’s attention and his body. Daddies will probably understand what I mean. She may have a successful career, be top in her field but she knows Daddy is always there for her in their private world together. She looks to Daddy for love, comfort and He is her sexual desire. She looks up to Daddy, admires him, and trusts him. 

Daddy feels needed, adored and worshiped by His girl. He is almost everything to her. His girl will do almost anything to please Daddy, to make him happy. She believes that her Daddy knows best and He knows that His girl loves her Daddy more then anything. Daddy likes to use and experiment with His girl, to teach her how to fulfill their relationship. He will always listen to her opinions, thoughts and feeling, because He is interested in her mind as much as His is her body. However, when there is an important decision to be made, His will be the final word. 

The girl I seek is, honest and trustworthy to her Daddy and his private thoughts, desires and actions. It will be her place to relax, be naked and be free. She is mine to lie with, play with, share with others and teach. She will make me happy; to be a good girl for Daddy gives her the most pleasure.

 Remember, this is what I am looking for in a Daddy/lil girl relationship. It is my opinion and desire.

Daddy

What is a Daddy

- A Daddy is a ruler, but never a tyrant. But to rule requires understanding, and understanding requires humility.
- A Daddy has pride, but never arrogance. But pride requires dignity, and dignity requires humility.
- A Daddy commands respect, but never fear. But respect requires serenity, and serenity requires humility.
- A Daddy employs strength, but never force. But strength requires knowledge, and knowledge requires humility.
- A Daddy criticizes, but never derides. But criticism requires insight, and insight requires humility.
- A Daddy receives, but never takes. But receiving requires giving, and giving requires humility.
- A Daddy completes, but never tries to alter. But to complete one must be able to see what is there, not what is missing, and this most of all requires humility.

In short, to use an archaic phrase, noblesse obliges.

If Daddy is the center of a submissive's universe, it is because she thinks so, not be cause he does. The truth of the matter is that owning is at least as much work as being owned.

I am really unsettled by this whole Internet contact thing. I miss the days when you made contact by word of mouth and/or being referred to a quality person. Yes, it took longer but at least the contacts you made were from real people that understand this lifestyle and themselves. This seems to be a big game that people seem to enjoy playing now days. I understand that females get lots of cruddy replies from males but in our defense how are we to know what your ?real? agenda is compared to what you have written in your profile? I guess I am just not PC enough for this ?New Age? D/s, BDSM group of people. I am direct, blunt at times but am absolutely honest about my desires and what I expect. Subtleties just don?t work in communicating wants, needs and desires. 

Most true dominants are gentlemen; it's usually very difficult, even painful, to contemplate "hurting" one's beloved. Only the knowledge that she craves it so strongly, that it is not really experienced as "hurt", allows him to treat her as she desires. But this is not to say that he doesn't enjoy it; he wouldn't be a Dom if he didn't! He may spend hours savoring the thought of something new he has planned for her, selecting music, shopping for just the right "toy", or building a very special piece of equipment. But behind it all, there is always the knowledge of responsibility for this very special person who has placed her very being in his hands...An important thing to understand is that D/s is a two-way street. There is a strong element of both trust and communication required to make it work, to last, to grow to its maximum potential. The trust is obvious; it's difficult to contemplate putting one's body and soul under the control--even temporarily--of someone you don't trust! And it is fragile; if it is ever broken; restoring it is very difficult, if not impossible.