i would like to take a chance to display a more in-depth
description as to what i view to be a relationship where i would be whole
heartedly content and happy with sustaining on a 24/7 basis. i shy away from giving specifics and
delineating a ‘plan’ that will be viewed as being controlling and stepping
outside the appropriate boundaries for a submissive. [topping from the bottom is a coined term that might give the
general idea of which i am speaking.] i
think though, if One will take this as a story or fantasy of sorts it would be
acceptable and allow for the opportunity to gain insight into my
thoughts--thereby informing the Reader if i would be happy with Their status
quo. Or rather, to peak the interest of
One who may read this and feel the same way.
i think it is note worthy that i have not experienced this
in a 24/7 manner, these ideals were
practiced in a random and casual manner [in a less than 24/7 TPE relationship]
when i became aware to the extent of happiness these customs made me feel.
i find the following to be in parallel with a 24/7 TPE
relationship but find M/many do not agree as i take a submissive and private
route [an old-fashioned relationship with a twist] rather than a slave and
public route. If at any point You feel
the freedom in expression or thought i am articulating to be making you
nauseous feel free to activate the x button located in the top right hand
corner of your viewing screen. ^_^
Terms: i will be using Master/sub but i think Dom/sub,
Master/sub, Master/slave, Owner/pet could all be interchangeable within
different relationship dynamics and the ‘story’ below could have an infinite
number of variations suiting each lifestyle[ protocols and whatnots] So please sit
back, enjoy, and view it as a little entertainment.
Examples given where necessary -M: denotes
Master, s: denotes submissive.
Morning Routines
Some mornings it would be hard to discern between this
household and any other during the hustle and bustle of getting to work on
time. However, there is a good chance
that choices and assistance out of sheer nature would fall towards the Master.
[which happens towards the dominant in ‘regular’ relationships as well-but is
likely to happen at a greater rate than on the average]
s: “what would You
like for breakfast?”
s: “can i get You
anything?/ can i do anything for You?”
On other occasions it could be quite obvious. Example would be little cues which could
prompt a protocol. When the submissive
is called a certain pet name she is from that point to address the Master as
Sir every time she speaks until the end cue is given-for instance, leaving the
house or being called by her real name.
“kitten go
prepare breakfast and make Me two sunny side up eggs with a piece of toast.”
“Yes Sir, anything
else?”
“you are/are not to
eat with Me this morning. you shall eat before, eat after, or eat out of a bowl
on the floor”
“Yes Sir.”
Evening Routines
Depending on the schedule of the Master and submissive, the
submissive may have a plan to follow. A
possible example would be to always have dinner ready at the time the Master
has given for that particular day. Instructions and submissive participation would vary depending on orders
or the extent to which said activity would be manipulated varying from ‘”normal”
house wife activities’ to a ‘”kinkier” play scenario.’
The submissive was
told to have dinner ready at 6:00 pm
The submissive was
told to have lasagna ready at 6:00 pm
The submissive was
told to have lasagna ready at 6:00 pm and to serve the
Master as a maid waiting while He eats in order to be at hand if He needs
something. [Therefore, the she would eat after He is done.]
The submissive was
told to have lasagna ready at 6:00 pm and to prepare her plate to be on the
floor at her Master’s feet.
Even though normal household chores and other work would
keep both the Master and submissive busy, the submissive should try and be
aware of her Masters state and offer the appropriate services.
s: “You look tired,
want me to massage Your feet/back?
The submissive should be thankful for all attention and
opportunity awarded her, negative or positive.
s: “Thank You[for
giving me the opportunity to serve You], Sir”
s: “Thank You[ for
correcting me], Sir”
Public Routines
Generally speaking, no one has to know what W/we are
doing. i do not condone public
play. i will never accept the fact that
family has to know what is going on. [Quoting from something that was said to
me, “I will not hide the fact you are My property even in front of family, you
will follow all protocols and if you break them I will discipline you right in
front of them.” lol, really now?] i do not think, however, that control has to
be sacrificed. An example could be
eating out with or without other people. Without: You could literally pick my order and tell the waitress for me
if You wished. With: W/we could talk
prior, and i would be given instructions like, “Water and something with
chicken in it,” or be told to order whatever Master orders—the other guests
would have no idea but W/we would know.
Free Time, Weekend
Routines and General information.
The submissive is allowed [within reason] both hard and soft
limits. (i personally believe if two people have drastically different limits
they are not compatible—something that should be worked out prior to starting a
serious relationship) Anything new of
consequence should be talked about prior to enforcing.
It would not be out of the ordinary to have no explicit play
time besides general respect and servitude on any given day. In fact, whole days could pass without even a
protocol—of course to the discretion of the Master.
At all times the submissive will be available sexually. When told she will promptly and with out
hesitation get in the position and location she was instructed and wait to be
used or start servicing depending on the situation. she will also participate in whatever aspect
of BDSM her Master requires. It does not
matter whether she enjoys the activity or hates the activity, as long as it is
not on her hard limit list that was previously recorded and agreed upon, she is
to act content and to be thankful for any attention and opportunity she is
given.
Protocols may not always be in effect and may be prompted as
indicated above. During these times or
not, the submissive may ask for things, give her thoughts [speak freely], and voice
concerns in a respectful manner—all of which may be refused or over
ruled. They are not, however, to be
taken lightly or disregarded.
The submissive is/is
not
The submissive is not worthless or dispensable. It is a caring and loving relationship much
like a marriage. Anyone who thinks this
submissive is just a slave, property to be used, abused, and then trashed and
thrown to the side when the next one comes along is not welcome within my life.
Submission a gift? Definitely,
but so is the guidance, love and care the Master gives to the submissive.